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female
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anonymous
writes:Hey My boyfriend and i live far apart.We have been in sexual relation.He don't call me daily. If i give missed call , he immediatelly calls back and ask me if i have some problem. But once a week only he calls me late night and talk to me for hours. Last night he got erection while talking. He started masturbating while on the phone and was saying that his penis is "tight, hard after so many days and waiting for you darling".R these talks normal.What does it mean.When i ask him if is having some other sexual partner there, he gets angry and start shouting at me. He says that if you love me then have faith in me and donot try to take my freedom.Confused by his talks.
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reader, xXAlexxX  +, writes (1 July 2009):
If you have a long-distance relationship, it's normal that he'd want to explore having phone sex with you. (Which doesn't mean that you should go along with it if it makes you uncomfortable)
But if you're not happy with him not keeping in touch regularly, then you need to talk to him about it. It may be he's busy with work/study/other commitments, or maybe he prefers one long chat every week to talking abit every day.
Whatever, you need to find out the reason, and talk about a compromise that makes you both happy.
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reader, laura585  +, writes (1 July 2009):
It's called phone sex, and if you are comfortable with it then it's normal. However, if it offends you and you dont want him to do it then tell him to stop, or tell him to call you when he's done, and hang up. As far as the other part - he sounds short tempered if he starts shouting when you ask him a valid question. If you feel he is trustworthy then just trust him until he gives you a real reason not to.
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