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She says I'm her friend but friends do not do the things we do together

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Question - (1 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2009)
A female South Africa age 36-40, *trawberry241 writes:

I seriously need some guidance or advice. Basically my ex girlfriend and i dated for almost 3 years, we lived together. We broke up around November last year, and she was involved with another woman for 6 months, things did not work out. For about three weeks now, we have been spending time together, having sleep overs, we chat all day on chat, we go for dinners, spend weekends together. And i would love to get back together, but she says we friends. This is driving me crazy coz friends do not do the things we do together, and clearly spend to much time together. I do not know what to do. She makes all these plans to do things together. Does she still care and love me? Should i give it time.

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A female reader, Strawberry241 South Africa +, writes (1 July 2009):

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We are not sleeping together. She knows how much i love her, and that i would love to get back together. But we never talk about it, we have fun together, we cuddle in bed. But never talk about what happened in our past. We do everything together basically. When we go out and someone shows interest, she does not end up liking the person. She flirts wit me and flirts with others, but we go home together. It is so hard to know what is actually going on. she says friends but we to me it does not seem like a normal friendships, i feel there is just to much care or whatever the hell it is. I love her very much and we had a beautiful relationship, but my heart can only take so much, but at the same time just being with her and doing things we loved doing together makes it difficult to not think that there could be a chance

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