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writes:There is this girl that I've been fooling around with for a few weeks now... it will most likely turn into a relationship soon because I have strong feelings about this girl and I'm assuming she does as well because we spend a lot of time with each other as it is, but what I'm looking for is some advice about preforming oral sex on her, I've only done it once or twice before with my ex, who didnt like it because she didnt like the idea of me being down there, however I enjoy doing it. The few times I did and I'm looking for ways that I can do this better for this new girl that I am pursuing. Thanks for any help or advice you may be able to help me with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): "all you have to do is enjoy it you dont need tips on how to do it cuz what works for one person may not work for the other but if you like to do it then go explore you will be able to tell what she likes by her reactions"
While I totally agree with this, I think that finding a good source of tips will help a lot. When I was dating after my first marriage, I discovered that I loved giving oral to a woman. That enjoyment pretty much automatically made 2 of those women think that I was great at it. However, it took me many years to discover a lot tricks and techniques. My wife never complained and neither did the other woman, but I know that my wife had even better orgasms as I got better. A source like the one that I posted should shorten that learning curve. It will never replace the guy wanting to do it because he really enjoys it, but it will tell him what to try while experimenting. When I found that site last year, my wife and I read both the basic and advanced techniques and my wife commented that I did all of those things. The thing is that I had just discovered 1 or 2 of them in the last couple of years and almost 30 years after we started dating. I have also learned about areas that are even more sensitive than the G-spot while giving oral by finding another site that mentioned. I just discovered that last year and it does work. I would have probably never discovered it if I hadn't read about it.
I don't know if it was better for both of us by discovering slowly or if it would have been better if I had read that article many years ago, but I think that reading something like that can be beneficial at the beginning.
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reader, lovnlife +, writes (2 July 2009):
all you have to do is enjoy it you dont need tips on how to do it cuz what works for one person may not work for the other but if you like to do it then go explore you will be able to tell what she likes by her reactions
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): Here is a good sex info site. Read the basic and advanced page on giving a woman oral. Here is the basic page:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_cunnilingus.shtml
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