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writes:I have a mad crush on my friends mom. She knows too because I stayed over at their house once. In the morning she noticed I was aroused by her in a robe but told me to "take care of it" at home. Then two weeks later I was with my friend playing video games. His parents came home drunk. When his dad passed out and my friend was asleep I was heading out. But she asked me to talk. We talked about college girls and then she touched me. I got embarrassed and went home. But I can't stop thinking about her. I feel like I need her and that she wants me too. Help! What do I do?I am an 18-year-old virgin just graduated from high school if that helps.
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reader, citic101  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 older women and younger guy its the thing. She wants you and much as you want her but she is perhaps worried you will open your mouth and tell everyone. Meet her again , flirt , give her compliments and then see what happens !
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): You need to consider the long term consequences of this, your gut already took action when you left after the touching incident. Trust your gut.
Things to consider here:
How would your friend feel if you acted on your desires?
How would you feel if he was doing this stuff with your mom?
What would happen to his/her parents marriage?
Would any of these consequences be worth a few minutes/hours of fun?
I know where you are coming from, it is very hard to refuse it when it is offered to you on a plate, but I think you already know what you must do. If I were in your position I'd leave your desires as fantasy, which is where they're better off. Say nothing to anyone about this and should you ever get in a one on one situation with her again, make it clear to her that it can't happen and try and laugh it off.
Do the right thing here and be proud of yourself for resisting temptation, there are plenty of girls around without commitments that you could date.
Do you really want to remember your first time as being the time you destroyed a family?
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