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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm so confused...my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 5 months, but have only been in an 'official relationship' for 2 weeks. I love him so much, he's one of my best friends and I know how many times people say this, but, I honestly don't know what I'd do without him.But on a recent night out, I bumped into an ex...we started chatting and went to get a drink...then we danced and went to get another drink. When we were at the bar, we were flirting a lot, and were quite touchy feely (nothing major, just contact) and basically cheek to cheek so we could talk...I ended up almost kissing him,I really wanted to and the only reason I didn't is because I knew my boyfriend's mates were in the same club.The next day I woke up and felt terrible, because all I kept thinking about was how much I wanted to kiss my ex. Now I'm wondering if I should break things off with my boyfriend, not to get back with my ex, but because I'm not sure if this means I still have feelings for my ex or not, and if I do, it's completely unfair on my boyfriend. I don't want to hurt him, but I don't know what to do, my head is a complete mess, I don't know if it was the drink, or if I do still have feelings for him...What do you think?
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reader, cybrus  +, writes (1 July 2009):
Well first think about the reason you split up wit him n do you think its worth going back?. Second wait for your ex to contact you first. Decide if you still hav feelings for him. Make sure if he is interested in you before you dump your boyfriend and go to your ex because he mite not want you. and also if you do have strong feelings for him and ur ex likes you too then break up wit your current boyfriend because you shouldn't be with him just to make it fair. He should understand that but whatever you do, DON'T CHEAT. That would seriously come back to bit you in the ass
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