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reader, rhythmbug  +, writes (24 July 2009):
Mate if that were me, I'd laugh in her face and walk away.
Have a bit of dignity, that kind of attitude is completely pathetic. Maybe she'd be happier with a dolphin.
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reader, r_a_w_r1645  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 well u might regret it when u do shave, yeah sexual things going on will be worth it but after? idk. dont do it unless u want to. im a girl and have no problems with guys hair. but idk how long have u been together? maybe she realy doenst like u ?
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 What is this trend with guys shaving their legs, btw?
What's wrong with a guy having hairy legs?
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (3 July 2009):
I don't like it when someone tries to boss me. If she can't accept you as you are, what kind of relationship is that?
If a guy tried to make me get a short haircut, dress a certain way, etc. ... I'd avoid him like the swine flu!!!!
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (3 July 2009):
It's unfair to try to coerce someone into doing something that makes them uncomfortable or to use sex as a bargaining tool. There's nothing wrong with telling you how she feels "hey it would look kinda sexy if you shaved off your body hair" but refusing to have sex with you unless you shave is just wrong.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 July 2009):
 I agree with Daniel, this is sexual blackmail and she'll pull this on you anytime she feels so inclined. Wait for the next bus.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (1 July 2009):
 When you mention your frustration, what I read between the lines is that you'd shave a bit if she asked you. It would seem like not giving in too much. But that's not the case here. She is blackmailing you, and will continue to withdraw sex every time she doesn't get what she wants. If that is what you want for you, then go on and stay with her. Just don't say nobody warned you.
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reader, citic101  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 Yes sounds normal . If you like her sure go for it. Use electric clips and then a good razor
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 I don't like alot of hair either, but I eventually get use to it, and I would never go to the extreme as saying you have to shave your whole body!
Tell her to shove it. You will shave your lower parts but anything other then that is a no go. Your not twelve years old anymore and you refuse to look like it.
Good luck
xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): It is quite an extreme request. Does she display other obsessive or peculiar traits (won't drink from a certain type of cup, won't get in a car of a certain colour)?
My wife doesn't like me to be too close shaven before kissing and cuddling because she says that it feels like kissing a girl, and that's a part of her life she doesn't want to remember.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat frustrates me is that she means ALL OF IT, EVERY INCH OF HAIR!!! Not just pubic, i might be ok with that because i could understand that a little but my whole body legs and all it makes me kind of uncomfortable. Some of you seemed to think she meant only my pubes. Im definitely going to talk to her about but im still not sure whats the right move a lot of contradictory answers lol. So if the situation being cleared up changes anyone's feelings please update.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): No it's not normal for girl's to hate hair so much. Personally fully shaven to me makes me feel im having sex with a gay man. Tell her the farthest youl go is to trim but your not getting rid of your manhood geez.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): Tell her to find an Asian man! I am hairier than my boyfriend (all my ex bfs were hairy, and personally I think its sexier) but if hairless is her style, I'd suggest going Chinese!
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reader, cybrus +, writes (1 July 2009):
I say don't becuz ur partner is suppose to love you no matter what that goes both ways always remeber that. and by the way none of the girls I date ever told me to do that so im guessing you've got a speacial one there lol
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (1 July 2009):
What a crazy girl this one! This beats many irrational demands I had seen before. It is blackmail no matter how you look at it, and worse: it's sexual blackmail. If you give in, tomorrow she will say she won't have sex unless you give her your two friends down there. Refuse to give in to blackmail. Dump this girl NOW! DO IT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): Well i dont have a problem with it. i can see why a girl would suggest a guy shaving his pubic hair off so it doesnt rub or to give a really good long blowjob however all of it would be a bit weird!im not too sure what to suggest to be honest as this seems a little strange.ask her the reason behind this question and if you wanna have sex with her then go ahead and do it but only if you feel comfortable about it.talk to her and say that its making you feel uncomfortable and strange.but do ask her why she wants you to do this.
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