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writes:I have now liked this guy for 3 months. But there is just one little problem with it.He happens to be 23 when im only 14. I truly hate liking him cause i cant have him. And i wouldnt do that to anyone i liked cause its illigal and i dnt want him to be in trouble.I have tried to just stay away from him but that has only made it worse cause then i dream about him. I dont no what to do any more. Any tips on getting rid of this crush??
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen i was 13 i had a crush on a 25 yr old that lived with our family for a while. But i dnt lke him anymre cause he moved away. But when i c him i am complety over him.
Sandra-
I dnt know if rite now i could stay away for 2 yrs. The hought depresses me but ill try. Writing a letter did help though. :)
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reader, Mazzy +, writes (3 July 2009):
Well im 14 also ive like many people with veryyyy bog age differences. Like one time i really like this guy he was 20 an i was 13. And i just told myself that he didnt like me and he hated me and stuff like that even if it isnt true. so i wouldn't fall in love with him.
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reader, Hersong +, writes (2 July 2009):
This is hard to say but I would say stay away from him completely till you're a little older and then see if you still like him. First wait two years. In order to get over him this is what I'd do. Write him letters whenever you feel like telling him all you want to say and don't send them, and also write letters of what you think he'd say. This always has made me feel better. Another thing is realize all the reasons he may not be right for you. Also sometimes having a crush isn't bad as long as you don't act on it in a way that would hurt you later. You probably won't be able to change your feelings. I'm in love with someone and they don't feel the same way for me, so I use my loving energies I have for him in other ways like gardening for instance. Best of luck to you, with love, Sandra
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