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36-40,
*ovnlife
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years since i was 19 i do love him but feel like I am missing out on life and we now have 2 kids i am pregnant now and i feel like we have to stay together for our kids he has no lue that i feel this way but everyday is like a routine i get up i fix breakfast i get the kids up and it the same thing everyday i feel like a trained house pet or somethingmy sex drive has left the building and i get depressed alot i think about life and is this it for me i am only 25 is this what i am a house wife and it not like i drink and party or anything but i feel like i am on a road to no where is this how married life is? sometimes i feel lucky because i love my family my kids but what an i do to not feel like a retired granny ( no offense to the women who are but i am 25 help me out
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reader, lovnlife +, writes (1 July 2009):
lovnlife is verified as being by the original poster of the questionrenee ok i never said that i didnt want my kids they are great and to be honest they are my joy in life i dont regret them i only feel like i have nothing but them i think i do need to get out and try not to feel so down it prolly just the baby and i only have 4 weeks to go everything is hitting me at one but i dont regret my kids
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (1 July 2009):
No one forced you to have 3 kids its called birth control i am pretty positive you are depressed you should talk with your doctor to get you some help because you are overwhelmed I only have one and I am tired constantly. Try to start getting out take a class get around people and then see how you feel you are probably resenting him because of your daily routine which isnt his fault and like most men he probably doesnt have a clue what you are going through but i recommend getting out and getting your own life you dont have to drink and party all time try it and see what happens you will see a change
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