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*hippy2
writes:My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago. We had been together for almost 4 years. Right away he was with this woman he met on a dating site! All of our neighbors wanted to know what was going on! She started sleeping over just a few days after the break up and has been there all the time that he is there. I dont get it. He keeps texting me for sex. I say NO and I havent seen him or met up with him cause frankly the whole thing makes me sick.I told him that if he ever put his man parts in another woman that was THE END of us. I am freaked out about the thought of him touching her. She has been sleeping in his bed all this time but she doesnt live there and I live 5 doors away.I dont snoop but he tells me that he is 'dating' this woman but he wants sex from me cause he likes what I do.I told him that he is seeing someone and that I am not being the other woman and have no desire to b used that way.Now here's what I dont get. She has been there 2 months. He says they have never had sex they just kiss.I find that hard to believe. I dont even know why he is with her - she is totally out of character for him.Everyone says none of this matters. Just get rid of him he is scum.I feel bad for my xbf but my older brother says that is part of his abusive game. Something keeps pulling us back but we only text! I DO NOT WANT TO SEE HIM right nowAdvice please?
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reader, Chippy2 +, writes (2 July 2009):
Chippy2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the responses so far! I just am having a difficult time understanding all this. I cant see NOT being with him but the thought of being with him now makes me sick.
You are right no contact is best.
I will try to keep busy - I have been trying for the two months - How long does it take?
Should I say anything the next time he texts? Is there ever a chance for us to get back together?
He was upset the other night about the possiblity of me going out on a date. I dont get that - why should that matter?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): what a scum bag, this woman has been there with him for 2 months and he claims there is no sex between them? you are your own worse enemy keeping in contact with him. he is playing games and he has already moved on. surely you can see this. nothing is pulling you two together. except disaster.
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