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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: me and my boyfriend, we've had a lot of problems during the last 2 weeks , everything started when we went to a club 2 weekends ago, I got a little drunk, but i felt he was pushing me away to dance with another guys, at some point he told me to my face he wanted to dance with another guys, so i got out of the club and called my best friend, he was so mad callng me and i didnt wanna pick up the phone, so after some time i went back to the club and he was dancing with another guy, so i separated them, i have to admit that i was jealous, so then we argued a lot, and he said we were over, so as i was supposed to sleep over his house that night i left my stuff at his house, so during the week, he hurt me like u dont have idea, those text messages i will never forget, each one of them was really heartbreaking, so I said i wont text him back and argue, and I did so, so a few days ago he texted me back telling me that he wanted to see me and all that, I felt so strong and really angry at him after all those words he told me, but when i saw him i fell back to him, we talked and we seemed to fix the problem, so on saturday my best friend called me up we hung out and at night he calls me saying, hey! where are u?, i said im in the city with my friend, he was like what friend? i said lara, so he was like u never hang out with her, why r u lying to me, he got so mad, and since then he has changed and he said he doesn't talk to me anymore, i never lied to him, i was always loyal cuz i love him and even all what hes done to me i still love him, so last nite another fight,he was like were not going out anymore, theres nothing left to talk about, and then he said he was gonna text me in like 3 days, and told me, dont think because i text u that i love you, that made me think a lot of things, and now im really brokenhearted and i really dunno what to do, i love him so much n i dont wanna lose him :( what u guys do in a situation like this one, i really need help, i feel really depressed...
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reader, rickandthemachine +, writes (1 July 2009):
i forgot to say that im gay sorry
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (1 July 2009):
You dont want to lose what he is treating you like a piece of dog poop he is playing games because he knows he can make you jump through hopes he sounds like he is bi why would he be arguing with you to dance with men give me a break you need to wake up and smell the coffee honey move on what is your problem you must like getting your heart broke then he says straight up "I DONT LOVE YOU " what does he need to say i would change my number and move on because he isnt serious about you he probably is gay and just wants you around so he wont be alone your story is so strange it doesn't make sense but i guess it does to you so good luck and please get a back bone for all us women out here stop being a door mat
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