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writes:My mother died when I was real young and my dad never really got over her but about two years ago he met another woman and they ended up getting married. She has two, a boy my age and a girl a bit younger. You see, me and her son (let's call him M) where made to share a room and I don't know when or how the hell it happened but we started fooling around with each other. I know it's perfectly legal and my and dad and step-mother know I'm gay (they don't know M is into dudes though) but I really don't wanna mess things up for my dad if he finds out but I don't want to end it with M either, help? Reply to this Question
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reader, homerhelper  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 you both need to think it over and decide to let your family know what's going on between the two of you, if you want to continue your love for each other then spill the beans or find a friend that will help you out.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 You need to stop messing around with your step brother. That's just really going to mess the whole family up. I know you have feelings for him, but you have to realize just how much this will tear the family apart. I don't think the problem is so much that 'M' is gay, but that you two getting involved is just going to cause a lot of drama within the family. Especially if they don't know yet that M is gay (or bisexual, whichever), when that comes out that could be hard to deal with for his Mother (I don't know what sort of Mama she is and how she'll feel about it), but to find out that you two are involved will really cause a rift in your Dad and step Mom's relationship.
I guess I would let this lay low for awhile. And I would stop messing around with your step brother for now, see if you can switch up sleeping arrangements (being in the same room all night, talk about temptation!!! Not to mention, convenience!) and hold off on the action for a while. Maybe M should come out to his Mother and let that bomb drop before coming out with his feelings for you. First things first!!
A relationship may be possible in the future, but while living as brothers in the same room... it just seems too awkward for me. Too close to Jerry Springer. It's not incest by any means, it's totally legal and really, it's completely okay... but it's an awkward situation and one that I would probably avoid for a little while.
Good luck!!
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reader, lovnlife +, writes (2 July 2009):
wow thats a pretty messed up place you got yourself into and i wouldnt say anything about it to my parents beause its not like you are the only one involved you have to think about youe step bro too i mean if his mom dont know he is gay then its his place to tell her not your and once you pass that mile stone the rest hopfully comes a lil easier
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