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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do all guys find it sore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does every lad find it sore when the skin at the top of their thing is pulled back....iv never done it to my boyfriend but he told me before i started giving him handjobs that it would be sore!! But wouldnt that kinda go back if we were to have sex? im a bit confused...is it ... (62 words)

She's off limits to me but I really like her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem....i like girls...and i have fallen for one who is..well lets say forbidden, she has a boyfriend and shes not gay, i dont want to love her but i cant help myself shes just so beautiful, shes nice and sweet, we never really spoke much in school but when we ... (128 words)

Was this mean or well deserved?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - In high school I used to be teased because I was overweight, wore glasses, and quiet. As I went to college I started to go to the gym and is a ripped 200 pound running back. When I came back home from college one of the girls that teased me now wanted me and I turned her I ... (86 words)

Do I keep waiting for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 25 my g/f is 24 we have been together for 10 yrs we have two kids an 8 yr old and a 3 yr old. In august she decided she wanted to leave didnt say anything to me just left for 2 weeks i finally convinced her to come back home and try to work things out. Well we never worked ... (167 words)

Broke up because of my mom but we still care about each other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been broken up for the past 6 months. However, im still crazy about him and i know he still loves me too. We have been broken up for 6 months we have never gone without talking for more than a month. He either calls or i call or he comes to my ... (161 words)

She just doesn't have time for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently engaged in a new relationship with a wonderful girl. She is 17, a senior in High school and I am currently a sophomore in College. The age difference really doesn't affect us that much. My problem is that this girl never seems to have time for me. She is ... (436 words)

I can't get over his past

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - OK this will be really long but I feel I have to give you the full story so you can try and help. Me and my boyfriend are both 24. We have been going out for almost 8 months. We told each other we loved each other after about 3 months. A month or so later we were getting ... (1344 words)

He's hot I like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hello. I need help. I am new to this so I'm just testing it. I like this guy. He's hot but I doubt he likes me back. Any advice?... (29 words)

Pregnant using a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl are wantin to have sex, but she dont want me to use a condom. She takes pills, can she still get pregant, if i dont use a condom... (32 words)

Body language and prayer request....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a request and a question, what does body language has to do with getting a gal? Secondly, this is not a question actually, its a request to all readers. my prayer to all readers is, whether u r all da religious type or not, pls pray for me. Pls just say once from heart ... (108 words)

I like this girl that's my friend, but she doesn't seem to like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i like this girl in my last period(class) and thats the only time i get to see her in school. we sat pretty close to each other. we have just met this year for 4 month now but the first 2 month we talked alot with each other,we always made each other laugh. ever since we had a ... (152 words)

How do I make a move on my boyfriend when I don't have the guts to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. My bf and me have been together now for 2 weeks now.We love eachother very much. I would want to do a move but im so scared.I would love to have the guts! Do you guys have any tips to help me through this?... (48 words)

Why do I feel bad for telling them off when they deserved it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have had someone in my life who has made me feel awful about myself, pointless and very lonely. At every opportunity i have offered my friendship they have ignored me or made short excuses in order not to see me or speak to me. We have been out of contact for a while when i ... (238 words)

Will the love come back? Will I want to be intimate with my hubby again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 38 years old. I have been married to my husband for 4 years, we have two beautiful children, they are the loves of my life. However, I feel like I don't love my husband anymore and I am not physically or sexually attracted to him. Not sure what to do.....should I try to ... (231 words)

Should I continue to cut him out of my life even though I miss him like crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am driving myself crazy thinking about a friend that I really like. We established quite a few weeks ago that he does not feel the same way, and I've been waiting to get over it and it doesn't seem to be happening. We spend pretty much everyday together, so I thought some ... (107 words)

Was he trying to tell me something with his hand holding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A friend of mine, recently held my hand and started softly playing with it. Was he trying to tell me something with the way he was holding my hand or am I thinking too much about it?... (38 words)

How long does it usually take a guy to say I love you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my bf and i have been together for over a month and he is a little less than 3 years older than me. he is a juinor in highschool and i am a freshman. he has never said i love you, and we talk on the phone alot, and i get to see him about once every other week (he and i live ... (127 words)

I've fallen in love with my best friend's girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi got a real dilemma! me and my best friends girlfriend have completely fallen for eachother. theyv been going out for 6 years. they started going out the same time as me and my ex. i didnt know her that well when i was with my ex because they really didnt like e... (382 words)

Am I just wasting my time with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend don't have the greatest relationship.. but i wish we did. i really feel very strong feelings for him and i just want to be with him all the time. but stuff bugs me.. i know he likes me a lot and always has but i always think about other girls.. like what if ... (235 words)

He has time for smoking with his boys, but none for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - lately i've been feeling a little lonely. my boyfriend always says he's busy and barely asks me to hang out. i try to wait till he asks so it seems like i don't care. but i do.. and whenever i ask him to hang out he's always doing something. but he has time to go smoke with his ... (192 words)

My GF loves giving oral sex, but she's horrible at it - how can I tell her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, im jo and im 22 years old. i have a very beautiful Gf AND She is 19. We have been dating for 3 months or more. My problem is that my gf is crazy about (Oral sex) i mean we have never spent more than 3 days without doing it for at least 1 time,anyway when it comes to... (313 words)

He's happy with his new girlfriend... how can I stop the jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I loved this guy for 7 yrs and 2 yrs back i came to know that he loved someone else while we had a relationship. And when i came to know about it i said i dint want to continue the relation. He said he liked me but never felt committed towards me. I asked if he never loved me ... (219 words)

How can people talk to new people so easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi id really like to know how some people find it so easy to talk to new people? I really struggle talking to new people, literally anyone, yet I am friends with a lot of people who find it soo easy. it is really frustrating me because where i am so shy, a lot of peop... (209 words)

Isn't it fair that I start paying rent when I actually move in?

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6 January 2009 (F)

- My bf and I are planning to move in together by march. He moved into a bigger apartment and we both paid for the 1st payment (I paid $1000 and he $674). We talked about me paying about 65 - 70% of the rent since I make more money, which is fine with me. However, I am still ... (181 words)

Is my ex trying to break us up, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex bf is good friends with my bf i have now, and as soon as he knew we were goin out hes wanted more to do with my bf, and he always trys to make sure he rings him and asks him to come out first before i do, i know this because it is really obvious weneva he knows me and my ... (83 words)

I'm 30, how do I get a boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there This may seem like a completely stupid question, but how do I get a boyfriend?!!!!! I can't believe I'm asking this! I'm 30 years old! Basically I've had 1 serious relationship which ended several years ago (not too badly) and since then I've been looking for... (223 words)

Part of me wants to keep the baby, but my partner want to have an abortion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im 20 and have recently just found out that im 10weeks pregnant.I have also only been with my partner for 4 months who thinks i should have an abortion. I have always said that i wanted to have a husband and proper home before i have a kid, but part of me wants to keep it... ... (60 words)

How can we stimulate a MMF threesome with just the two of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok i am engaged and i love my partner deeply, she is the love of my life. i have a fantasy, i would love to have a mmf threesome with her, the thought of watching her oral perform on another man, or having another man in here excites me alot. now i do not wish to just watch ... (137 words)

Why is it such a crime for a woman to be insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Why is it so wrong to be a bit insecure? It seems like it's a crime if a female is insecure. "Dump her, she's too insecure". Usually that's what people advise when someone feels insecure. Yesterday I was watching TV with my boyfriend and a lot of stereotypical "hot" women... (230 words)

Did he mean he's just another frog or my Prince Charming?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Have recently got back in touch with my ex boyfriend form high school and we've been talking loads on the phone and catching up. We havent seen eachother for 4 years. I was telling him that I'd been in a few bad relationships and used the term, "kissed a lot of frogs". I ... (90 words)

Turning 30 soon and dreading it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm turning 30 and feeling old. I have nothing to look forward to. I am scared of turning 30. I really feel so old, unmarried and still living at home.... (30 words)

With exes, we could talk forever... with my new BF we can't find much to say.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - With all my exes we could chat for hours on the phone - about nothing really. With my latest boyfriend (1 year) our conversations are only ever short. Are we just too different and not suited. I know Im more carefree and he's more sensible than me... ... (56 words)

He says he hates living with me, should I stay and take this or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for over three years we live together. recently he has been really crabby towards me because times are slow at work for him, and he says i am lazy because i dont do enough house work, even though i work two jobs and make more money than ... (134 words)

Should I go for it with my older, world traveler?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everybody Don't know if you'll be able to give me advice on this one... but here goes :) Basically, I went on a cruise over Christmas, and on one of the formal dress up nights, some officers were invited down to dance. Because I'm a keen dancer, I was introduced to... (222 words)

All's fair in love and war? I'm one of his TWO girlfriends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a three-month sexual and romantic relationship with a guy i thought was single. He called me his girlfriend. Out of the blue, a woman contacts me online saying that she is his long distance girlfriend of 1.5 years. (He had kept this secret from me, and I never ... (151 words)

How can I tell him I'm not interested without being rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Firstly i am 29 yrs old.I have been talking to a guy online who is widowed and has a younge child, we have been chatting for about 2 weeks now. He wants to meet up and keeps telling me how much he thinks of me and im just not interested. How do i let him down gently as he wants ... (116 words)

Is it too hard making LDR's work when you don't see each other for weeks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii, i just wondered if anyone has or is in the same situation i am soon going to be in. my boyfriend attends university about 2 hours away from home and has a place there in the halls of residence. he has recently been home here since the start of december but has to return ... (222 words)

She says she loves me, but will never see me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, Im 16 years old and my girlfriend is 15 and i have been going out with her for nearly 6 months now, but for the past two months it has not been going so good. I want to see her badly but she will only ever see me with friends, and for the past month not at all. I offer to... (273 words)

I'm bitter from financially supporting the both of us, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 18 months and now it is really difficult to carry on with the relationship. When we met he just resigned from his previous job in order to finish his masters degree. I was hoping things would work out sooner for him. I dated him for 6 months ... (550 words)

Cold feet boyfriend can't commit to living with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seen my girlfriend on and off for 6years. I do have a commitment problem I know. She has been really good to me all these years. I need to move out of my current place and she needs to move out of her place by the end of the month. We found a perfect place perfect ... (133 words)

Two close brothers that I don't want to come between!!!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupids... Basically i'm with a my new boyfriend about 5 months or so. It's lovely. Initially it was a light hearted sort of affair, but now we're very into each other and it's great and as each day goes by i love him a little bit more, and i know he feels the s... (304 words)

Should I move with my BF or find someone who is happy living where I live?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help, My boyfriend wants me to move and live with him (he lives 5 hours aways from me). We have had a really rocky year as he can be a very unreasonable person and is never wrong. Strangely though I do love him very much. He has had a transfer and will be working ... (226 words)

How can I prove to guys that I'm not after their girlfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a lot of girls that are friends, I mean like 60% odd. I think guys feel threatened by me because of this, im kinda confused about my sexuality right now to be honest and i'm not sure how I can show these guys that I dont fancy their girlfriends and that i'm not going to ... (179 words)

How much is the foreskin supposed to cover up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How much is the foreskin supposed to cover the head of the penis when erect? Mine only covers half of it, is this normal?... (24 words)

Are there any home remedies to remove ingrown pubic hairs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 17 years old and I have a feeling that I will become sexually active with my girlfriend soon. However, one concern that I have is that I am a virgin (which means it cannot be a STD) and I have TONS of ingrown hairs on my penis shaft and base. I tried removing some but... (111 words)

How do I deal with the kids picking on me at school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 years old and feeling really depressed. I am currently talking to a teacher but I can't tell her everything. I am one of those kids who get picked on daily and has no one to stick up for me. I can't talk to anyone else and I am very protected by my parents. Please tell ... (62 words)

Kissed a player at a party and now I can't get him off my mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i've known this guy now for around 1 year. we only ever say hi because we just see eachother when some of our friends talk to eachother. he is a bit of a "player". we both got drunk two nights ago and ended up kissing but i stopped it. now i cant stop thinking about hi... (104 words)

He's feeling me and his ex, should I be feeling him? Feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wonder should I like that his his feeling toward me because hes tryin to get over his ex, ... (66 words)

Perfect first date, horrible aftermath. Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am fifteen, and recently went on my first date with a really nice guy from school. I have known him for almost 5 years, and have liked him on and off, but never told him as I thought he was waayy out of my league. then, last week, we went out to the cinema, just the two of u... (221 words)

How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Honestly, I want a guy's opinion on this one! How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date? And how fancy of a place or settle for a quick bite to eat and not let her super size?!? LOL. Say you both met online (dating site) and have been talking for week... (102 words)

I don't want to say "I love you" yet, but he gets mad when I don't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a situation this boy that I talk to on the phone, he says that he loves me but i don't say it back to him n he gets mad when I don't say it. I don't think that we know eachother that long to say that to eachother. He says he don't mean it, he just for me. Should I say it ... (82 words)

What do I do about this guy (he's coming over in 5 minutes!!)? Need your help, quick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY liked this guy that was 4 yea... (1552 words)

Hormonal? Yes or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just recently made a doctor's apointment regarding depression. Nearly every day I feel like crap. There are some influences like friends, school and stuff but my life is rubbish, it gets me really down and I feel like I have nothing to live for. A family friend died ... (99 words)

My boyfriend of 10 months has left me saying he doesn't love any more...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice, my boyfriend of 10 months has left me saying he doesn't love any more, I'm 4 months pregnant and my daughter calls him daddy. I just found out he had a one night stand 6 months ago when he was drunk and that destroyed me, I forgave him and have been completely ... (166 words)

Meant to be alone forever...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Are some people meant to be alone and unloved like me? I really do feel the old maid vibe. I have never had boyfriend not even for a week and I never been kissed either. Girls my age are married. Guys can get married to girls even if he knows her for a year. That won't be... (171 words)

We're dating but he's still contacting other girls from the dating site!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend 2 years ago on an internet dating site. Just before xmas I went to log into my emails and found he hadn't logged out of a messenger service. I had a look and it was all girls names, and when I went into the emails I saw that he had been contacting people ... (100 words)

Why has he changed so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend is totally confusing me. When we were dating we had sex and I told him he got a little in me so don't be surprised if I'm pregnant and I told him I found out I was and he thought I was lying so my best friend called him and told him I wasn't lying. He called ... (204 words)

If you start taking viagra when you're young will your body become dependant on using it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If you start taking viagra when you're young will your body become dependant on using it and will the dosage need to increase? ie. will your body become immune to it?... (31 words)

Should I wait for her to call me or call her later on and she how she is doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night my girlfriend got really upset with about something she messed up. Everything prior to the incident was going well. She spazzed out about the whole situation. Once again it has nothing to do with me. (she locked her iphone, and has to pay additional money monthly ... (176 words)

He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

- I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go. Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that keeps happening and I'm just won... (156 words)

Does anyone know how to turn a one night stand into something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have any ideas on how to turn a one night stand into something more or if that is even possible please? I spent one night with this guy and it was really great. I already knew him through a mutual friend, but I only ever see him once a year when he visits my hom... (201 words)

Can this kind of chalk and cheese relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age - I am recently divorced after being married for about 15 years. The divorce was not something I wanted but my ex husband met someone else and wouldn't try with me any longer. Anyway I have now met a really nice man who I was friends with for years and years who has 3 children by ... (281 words)

Why has my girlfriend's friend always hated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so my girlfriend has this friend and for some reason she hates me. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and she has hated me pretty much all of that time. Would you say that the friend fancies me or is just jealous that my gf has a bf and she doesn't?... (58 words)

Is 2 years a long time to be single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi Just a quick one. I'm 22 and I want to know is it abnormal that I haven't had a girlfriend for over 2 years?! I was going out with a girl from when I was 16 until 20, after we broke up I found it really hard to go out chasing other women like my mates who didn't have girl... (358 words)

Revenge dressing! Make yourself irresistible to your ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you do it? What do you wear? How do you look like the breakup didn't hurt you and you're flourishing, on the market, and he's replaceable?... (31 words)

Dumped my guy... now want him back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just dumped my sexy boyfriend because he I found out he had a long-distance girlfriend. Deception! But we had been having wonderful sex for months and I miss it. Now to punish me he says he has to cut me out of his life completely. I want to make it impossible for him to ... (67 words)

Arguments about anal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance is always getting sexually frustrated with me and it is always about the same thing -- him wanting to perform anal sex on me!!! I'm not down with that. We've kind of tried before. Last night, we had a slight argument about it. Of course I satisfy him sexually. But ... (88 words)

Why am I so nervous about going to see my girlfriend again after a month and a half?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some help. I am going to go see my girlfriend tonight, the first time in a month and a half since she went back home for the holidays. I am so nervous. I have no clue why I am so nervous. She is an amazing person and I can't imagine my life without her. I keep having to ... (68 words)

Misunderstood...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend needs some money for an internet connection, while he is overseas. He tell's me, that since we are in a relationship, that we should be there for each other. Yes, I understand that... but he thinks being there for each other means, I should give him... (199 words)

My girlfriend always seems too busy to talk with me these days...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are together for over 6 months now. I am 17 years old and she is 15 years old. She acts very diffrent towards me these days, and I'm very insecure about it. I can't stop thinking that she is cheating on me or something like that. I tried to talk to her t... (128 words)

I'm looking for advice on my boyfriend's attitude towards me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm looking for advice on my boyfriend's attitude towards me. About a month before Xmas just gone my Grandma fell very ill and sadly died, the funeral was 2 days before Xmas. I became very run down and fell ill with a cold virus over Xmas and New Year which has laid me low ... (371 words)

We don't get along the way we used to, I need your advice here!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has just hit a milestone birthday in his life, I am nearly two years younger and I think this is affecting us and the way we get along. He has started going out with his friends drinking and I'm left behind. I don't know what to do any more because it's really ... (101 words)

I now want out of the relationship. How do I do it?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Started seeing a guy at uni a while back and we're now dating and basically I now want out of the relationship. What happened is this. We got to know each other and maybe rushed in to things a bit quickly. We slept together. That was fine. We went out a couple of times,... (241 words)

What do I wear???

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help, it's my 18th birthday very soon, and I don't have a clue what to wear, I'm going for a meal with my family and then going to pubs and clubs afterwards, I want to dress up but really don't know what to wear, I don't want to over do it but then I don't want to undersress, ... (93 words)

Advice from experienced taller, big foot skiiers wanted please!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are going skiing for the first time. We have a package that includes rental hire which includes boots. My husband is 6ft 7 and wears size 14 UK shoes. I am very concerned that we may get there and there could be a chance they are not going to stock this size ... (323 words)

My boyfriend is friendly with so many pretty girls!

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6 January 2009 (F)

- My bf has A LOT of girl friends. In fact, all his friends are pretty much girls, apart for two of them. He is 20 years old and I am 19. Him having so many girl friends doesnt annoy me too much, its more so the way he acts around them that upsets me. If he treated these gi... (417 words)

Are there certain questions you can ask to see if I guy is true?

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6 January 2009 (F)

- Are there certain things you can ask a guy, to test if hes being true and honest and not putting on some fake act? I'm 19 years old, and have had two boyfriends, both who made me believe they were these nice, caring, respectful guys, but in the end, they only really wanted a... (240 words)

Am I just intrigued by the same sex? Or is it more than that?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone!! well this thing is....I think I might be bi sexual or more likely bi curious....all my life there's always been something at the back of my mind that I always ignored, like I used to some times feel like I was attracted to my old best friend but I would freak ou... (369 words)

Lack of intimacy

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known my boyfriend 6 years - we were good friends on and off throughout the years. There has always been a spark between us, but our timing was always off, one of us would have a partner, or various other reasons would keep us apart, not to mention worrying about ... (245 words)

Will it make me sound needy if I tell him what I want

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I’ll start off with saying that I’m a 21 yr old virgin, not because of religion or because im waiting for the right guy to come alone I just work to much and really don’t have a social life. So the thought of having a boyfriend and how it all works is rather foreign f... (507 words)

Should I try to salvage what once was?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.soo i've known this boy since i was about 10 years old. he was my 1st kiss and my 1st boyfriend. for years me and him was real close. i am a huge flirt. and he knew that. i went out with and liked a lot of boys he knew over the years and it was the same for him. we were like ... (624 words)

Pregnant, Unhappy in relationship--try to make things work or leave?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship of two years and have a one year old son. I am now pregnant with my second and feel unhappy in my relationship. I don't know of it's just hormones but I feel like all we do is argue over the silliest things. I have been wondering if I would be happier... (89 words)

I don't know what to write on facebook

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. On facebook. I want to write a message to this guy. He is a musician. I don't know what to say. Please help... (24 words)

How do I rid myself of feelings for him and move on?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - uhm. im jus soo confused about what to do. soo on a cool summer night. i met this guy. me 2 of his friends and 2 of my friends were chillin one nite and we wound up having sex. i am down south in school but i visit where he lives about 4 mnths out of the year; so we wuld chill ... (350 words)

He wants a threesome doesn't care if I'm involved with another man

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has broken my heart, l don't feel for him anymore. Have caught him so many times texting other woman, even my friends, he dates on-line. We talked about it and he promised he was going to stop all that, but l still do not trust him. Now he is pushing me into having a ... (115 words)

I'm just not feeling her love anymore

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some help on this one please... I'm having some trouble with my girlfriend. I haven't seen her for 2 months on Friday because she keeps saying her work and family are keeping her busy (she's doing her GCSEs so maybe that really could be why?) but she hasn't a... (390 words)

I'm feeling left out

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My previously not very sociable close freind has in the past week met this new guy and it seems that they are dating. We used to spend a fair bit of time together, as neither of us have a big circle of freinds and relied on each other a bit, she has one one other good friend ... (124 words)

I'm afraid no one will care so I exaggerate things

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need help with something quite badly. have you ever thought to yourself that when something bad happens no one will care? and so you end up exaggerating to make it all sound much worse for the attention of friends and loved ones? please help... (49 words)

We want to participate in an orgy

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6 January 2009 (M)

age - I am 40 and now my wife 38. I was attracted to a girl because she was very very pretty absolutely gorgeous and an easy lay ( by anyone). That turned me on so much that I fell in love with her and we married and have been so for the last 6 years. We both love each other very ... (164 words)

He says no "labels"--is that another way of saying FWB?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone. I'm 24 years old and I've had a crush on a close friend for awhile. He is 33 and recently divorced. I finally worked up the nerve to share my feelings a few weeks ago, with some help from my friend Pinot Grigio. And, the results were good... i was pretty ... (914 words)

Why do couples get divorced?

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6 January 2009 (M)

- Why do couples get divorced? I'm at the stage in my life where I'm looking to settle but I'm a little worried about all these divorces. No one wants to divorce but it does seem to happen. I've been reading up on why that is and would appreciate any advice from any agony a... (80 words)

My grades are slipping and now I'm afraid he won't ask me for help

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi!there's this cute boy in my class..actually first i don't used to like him coz all girls only used to talk about him which used to irritate me alot.but slowly slowly i don't know how i began feeling something for him and we became friends.he shares everything with me.i share ... (153 words)

My lover & I are both married & now he's backing off because of his wife

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my colleage have been in a relationship for about 6 months.We have been good friends for 3 yrs. we are both married, he has been married for 25 yrs and i have been married for 15 yrs. He claims his marriage has not been a happy one for about 15 yrs and that his wif... (591 words)

How do I make her see that she is beautiful?

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girl wont believe me that she is beautiful she just says that shes not beautiful and shes fat and that i have other girls and idk what to do at this point she wont stop its just nothing but bad talk that she says how can i help her see that i really do think that she is ... (60 words)

My g/f isn't over her ex

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am confused help with girlfriend? So basically my girlfriend has told me, im almost perfect and its weird almost unreal that i have came into her life so shortly after her ex,she says she likes me alot, and she doesnt want this to be a rebound, and we both want to make it ... (137 words)

He wants a threesome with a chick that has big boobs!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend of about two months has created a bit of tension in our relationship.... Recently our relationship was taken to a physical level and I couldn't have been more happier, however, along with sexual activity comes the sexual talks; We decided to get into the who... (321 words)

We can chat for hours on MSN but not in person?

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, how are u guys? I got my ex back after the breaking. but I never been in this situation before I can't think .. (1) our phone conversation last for 3 mins max, when she is with me .. we can hardly start a conversation. the only way we can chat .. is on the MSN... (140 words)

Family movement crisis

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and i moved form a neworleans to bradleyville a microscopis town and i was very much loved in new orleans and since i moved to bradleyville everyone hates me including my mum and sister who are with me but my mom and dad are divorced and i was wondering if i should go ... (86 words)

Trouble wearing a condom

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Every time i try to wear a condom, i have a hard time with the skin that cover my penis. its the second time i try to wear a condom, the skin wont go the whole way down, which i guess is alright, but when the condom gets to the edge - where the skin goes - it becomes hard to ... (92 words)

How do I make him not feel pain from last relationship?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - how to release his pain and suffering from his last relationship? i went out with this guy, but he loves someone else that he just recently broke up with. now he has that pain and hurt he can't let got and i really love him and i don't know how i can make him feel better.... (59 words)

He got me nothing for Christmas or our 1st anniversary?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK!..so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months.Hes my first real boyfriend n i think i love him.For our first month anniversary we didn't eraly do anything special just hung out all day with each other.I was expecting maybe some little gift ... (507 words)

My ex's SO is trying to be my friend

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Well Maybe I can Make Sense as I write this .I am coming out of a marriage after 25 Years .I still have feelings for my husband , but he moved out almost a yr ago .He is now seeing this woman who is about 3 yrs older then him who acts as she wants to be my friend but doesnt ... (206 words)

He's bipolar and very confusing!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i love the man that i am with he is amazing and i am completely in love with him. But lately its like he is bipolar. one minute he wants to spend time with me and love on me and hold me and the next he doesnt want anything to do with me and back and forth and back and ... (109 words)

Do I let him give me oral?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im 15 and im thinking of letting my boyfreind eat me out. Can you catch anything from doing this? If he does this will he keep wanting more? By the way my boyfriend is 17 thanks so much... (45 words)

We are in a FWB but there is no sex?!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here is the deal.. i have this guy who i am extremely interested in.. though i agreed to be friends with benefits with him. I developed feelings for him, and at times i feel like he has feelings for me. I had gone to spend new years eve with him, got hammered, and he ... (247 words)

Men have menustration cycle without bleeding?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think men go through a menstruation cycle just with out the bleeding. Cauz geez when they have their spits its just like a woman when their ragging. So what do yall think... (33 words)

I don't want our friendship to go over the line, but he likes me!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently going through a separation/divorce as a result of my husband cheating on me. I have a male friend who is married, and is just that... a friend. He always seems to step over the line when it comes to our friendship. In the past, I have just stopped talking to ... (182 words)

Shy! Does she like me?

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl but im not sure if she likes me im clueless if shes flirting with me and she acts shy around me so does she like me?... (30 words)

I want to be the reason he stays! I just don't know how to tell him!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My heart is just breaking. I've wasted to much time not fighting for the man I love. I'm young, yes, but I know my love for him is the real thing. I found out today that his job will be transfering him if he doesn't have a reason to stay... I want to be that reason, I just ... (85 words)

Is it okay for someone else to tell your man they love him?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive been having problems with this girl my Boyfriend went to highschol with, shes in a relationship and lives like 200 miles away, so im not worried about him cheating on me with her, plus i look better, anyways this girl has been telling my bf she loves him it makes me ... (101 words)

We started a romance, I didn't know he had a girlfriend! What to say/do to him now?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm living abroad for a year and I fell in love with a man I met here. He's 32, I'm 22. We were seeing each other for about three months, and it was wonderful. He called me his girlfriend, introduced me to all his friends as his girlfriend, wrote me love letters, emails, and ... (1114 words)

What would be the pitfalls of a fling or affair? We're only together because of the kids.

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6 January 2009 (M)

age - Hi all. Been married 20 years; have two great kids (11 and 8). My wife says she no longer loves me but she wants to stay together for the kids. There is no affection or intimacy but we get along and have fun together and talk etc. I don't know if it's enough for me. I am ... (100 words)

Does he still care or is this a tactic to reel me in again??

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had an 'emotional affair' with a guy at work, who is is really brought the best out of me, a part i let go of until I met him. He reeled me in, I never found him attractive, but now I do, we felt for eachother no doubt, but I could not take the pain of his being married ... (300 words)

Does this technique work?

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been wantong to make my penis bigger. Is Jelqing bad for you? Does it work?... (18 words)

They're wrong about me but the damage is done!

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 25 year old guy. I met this girl when I was 21 and it was love at first sight. We worked together and eventually she left her boyfriend so she could start seeing me. She was everything I wanted; cute, smart, funny, loved me to pieces. I had her on a pedestal and would ... (697 words)

How to get even with someone who played with your heart- guys perspective

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - There was this guy who really played me, though i don't think it was his true intention, it happened at work, we were friends and then got too close, he expressed being crazy about me, hung out with me etc... but its crap, cuz it has to be, so now a guy told me, with people ... (83 words)

Has anyone turned this kind of situation around to be civil?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: I work with someone who I was in a 'fantasy relationship with' though we did express being crazy about eachother, after nothing went further then our feelings, i got pissed and realized I need to end this. Yes he is a co worker and yes he is married! Nevertheless, the ... (242 words)

I act badly when drunk, my b/f's son likes me, what a mess! Want to end it!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been a relationship for 6 months.he's 15 yrs older. Its been great. Until friday nite. Please don't judge me to harshly but honestly. My relationship is with a married man and a musician (he doesent drink anymore, 14yrs sober) but I was drinkin.talkin with friends having ... (285 words)

Will I ever be able to smile again?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long and i have left out some personal detail so bare with me, but i feel so down and out. I didnt have a great childhood, it was stolen from me when i was very young, my mum and dad thought they could trust this guy to look after me but they were sadly mistaken, he ... (426 words)

Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... and after that I was ... (79 words)

I'm sure she likes me but I'd like your help... what do you reckon?

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6 January 2009 (M)

- Hi, I need advice fast... I worked for a rail replacement company called First group for 3 years and left recently to start a new job... My parents continue to work for First... one of the contract coach operaters they use often has a driver called Ray and when he is worki... (710 words)

How can I talk my parents into lowering the time away from each other and letting me go to her house again?

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend gave me a handjob a few times; we also made out. Well, my parents found out and said that we couldn't date for six months. They eventually said that I could date her in 2 months and go to a dance with her (it's one month away). However, that's it for two months. ... (137 words)

I tried to walk away but he gets so upset and it just kills me, please help!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I really need your help. I'm 18 and in college. I'm an attractive girl and party a lot. I live in the moment and keep my grades up and everything else is just about being happy and having fun to me. I don't like relationships but I am in love with my ex boyfriend. ... (294 words)

What is going on with him? Is he seeing someone else?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he seeing someone else? or why would he start acting this way? I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now and he started standing me up, and when I call and ask him where he is he very calm, when I ask him to bring the stuff I left in his car he says he can't come for at ... (144 words)

I cry most of the time his indecisiveness is driving me insane.

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me end it for good.... I need some emotional support. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 1/2 years. I'm 44 He's 47... I have broken up with him before only to take him back after he begs and makes promises he cannot seem to keep. I have been with him through his ... (465 words)

Is there any possibility I could be pregnant?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I where messing around and things started happening... he fingered me and I gave him a hand job, this was happening at the same time. I then had a nightmare that night that I might have got pregnant from this if he had cum on his hand and he fingered me. ... (90 words)

How to make it last longer?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to get very sexually frustrated here. I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I started to have sex a little over a week ago. We've done it tons of times so far, but I've never gotten any satisfaction from it. At all. It's just that he lasts about a minute, if even that. We've ... (151 words)

Tatoos

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Not a love question but I bet there will be someone reading this who can answer! My dad and I are really close and have decided we want to get tattoos together; he's going to get a design right down his back. I'm not that daring yet and want something smaller. I'm also a bit ... (149 words)

Should I take the plunge or wait it out?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been hanging out with this guy for a while and my feelings are starting to grow more and more for him. We aren't going out yet but I can't wait till the day we do. Now I know that if i wanted to have sex with him that he would want to to but he is not pr... (162 words)

Can you love someone you've never met in person?

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6 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry, this questions a bit wordy but I feel like the full story is neccessary. I met this girl on a band's fansite forum last summer, and we started to get to know each other. After a while she asked for my number so I gave it to her, and we started texting. Then we pluc... (281 words)

I don't need sex as often as my husband and it's breaking us up!

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for nearly 18 years, we have two teenagers, we have had sex issues for almost 16 years of our relationship, me being the one who doesn't want it. I love him dearly and don't want to lose him, we have nearly split up in the past but now we are at the ... (127 words)

How can I tell my boyfriend to stop talking/seeing his ex?

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6 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28. I have the feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex. (she is my age). I know his ex, she was once friends with my older sister and she can be very intimadating and very sneeky. When I look through his cell phone every once in a ... (146 words)