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writes:my girl wont believe me that she is beautiful she just says that shes not beautiful and shes fat and that i have other girls and idk what to do at this point she wont stop its just nothing but bad talk that she says how can i help her see that i really do think that she is beautiful Reply to this Question
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reader, shnookims  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 She has low self-esteem. I have the same problem. My bf constantly tells me I'm beautiful but I think that he's just saying it to make me feel better and not becasue he really means it.It didn't help when he used to only say it when I was feeling really crappy.
Say it randomly and don't just say she's beautiful in general all the time. Point out the things that you love the most about her. Looks and personality wise... And if she makes an effort dont ever let it go unnoticed!
Tell her that you think she's beautiful but that's not the reason you with her anyway, it's just a perk. If you wanted other girls you7 wouldn't be with her, remind her of that.
Hope I helped and she feels better about herself.
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