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He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!

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Question - (6 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom, *iordana writes:

I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go.

Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that keeps happening and I'm just wondering if it's normal or not...

Recently when I stayed round my boyfriend's house I was woken up in the middle of the night by the bed being shaken slightly, when I turned around my boyfriend was masturbating... now I don't have a problem with this but when I tried to talk to him he wasn't answering, so I went back to sleep, when I told him in the morning he said he didn't remember any of it, not even the masturbating! Now this has happened another 2 or 3 times and I just wanted to know if this is normal????????

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2009):

i think it is normal. there was a programme on a while ago about a guy who tries to have sex with his wife while he is asleep.

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2009):

hannah76 agony auntHello,

Yes, it does sound normal to me. I sometimes get woken up by his rubbing the thing and he really is asleep doing it. I've come to accept it and just giggle or help him out!

I probably do things that wake him up as well that I don't know about! xxx

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (6 January 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntTotally normal. I know my boyfriend sometimes will get carried away in his sleep. If I feel up to it, I'll generously help him out - and he wakes up to his girlfriend all over him - it's thrilling! But, if I'm sleepy, I just let him wear himself out... usually he won't finish. Sleep masturbation is often half-assed.

So you're boyfriend isn't an abnormal perv (or else mine is too)!

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