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writes:I am in a relationship of two years and have a one year old son. I am now pregnant with my second and feel unhappy in my relationship. I don't know of it's just hormones but I feel like all we do is argue over the silliest things.I have been wondering if I would be happier without my partner and also wondering what it would be like being in a relationship with someone else.Should I end this relationship or keep trying? Reply to this Question
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reader, Adee1  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Girlie .. I'm 10 weeks pregnant also, with my first kid, and I'm in the same situation. I hear it's not safe for the baby. If you ever need to talk then contact me here at Dear cupid, I'd love to hear from you.Just hang in there!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Is child number 1 from this guy and is the current one as well? I wouldn't end your relationship quite yet, as it very well MAY be the hormones that are making your fella extra obnoxious. If you have the chance of keeping a family intact, please do so.
Maybe just tell your fella, "honey, I absolutely adore you but you are bugging the hell out of me. I will be 526752x happier if you go have a guys weekend and let me be hormone-y in peace." This way he doesn't feel like you're kicking him out to suffer cold in the street... you're suggesting that he will be happier out of the house rather than inside. Take a little of the blame on yourself. Admit that you're moody and pissed off. He will appreciate the honesty and run for the hills.
Fights happen. I think I'd stick it out for a little while more.
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reader, wrhillgil +, writes (6 January 2009):
 are you pregnant with your husbands kid? if you're not happy in a relationship then why are you having another kid? i dont know i say try to work it out. Everyone fights, thats just a stage to get over. Talk to him and if nothing happends make him want you, make him want to be in that relationship with you. hit me back
~Hillary~
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