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writes:I'm starting to get very sexually frustrated here. I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I started to have sex a little over a week ago. We've done it tons of times so far, but I've never gotten any satisfaction from it. At all. It's just that he lasts about a minute, if even that. We've tried squeezing the base of his penis, but that only gives him blue balls that are more painful than usual. We've tried making him pull out and take a break, but we're never fast enough and he just has a less powerful orgasm. We've also tried condoms for sensitive guys. Nothing works. Can someone Please help?Side Note: Please Please Please don't feel weird for giving sex advice to a 15 year old. I love the guy very much and we are doing this very responsibly(birth control and condoms). I promise.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Ok what works for most is getting him off before you try to have sex. Like give him oral or a handjob or whatever you are comfortable with to let him get the quickness out of his system. So let him cum, wait til he gets hard again, and right after that try having sex. If he still can't last then you need to look up exercises to help it go longer. My ex had this problem and could only last about 1 minute. Even when we did it numerous times everyday for a month or so... it was very frustrating. The number one thing is don't get frustrated with him. He is most likely extremely insecure about it so you need to be patient with him. An exercise I looked up when my boyfriend was going through this said get him to masturbate and as soon as he is about to come, stop completely and let himself get soft again. Then repeat the process. Eventually it is supposed to make you go longer. I would try the first thing I said first, then try the exercise. Just work with him and support him completely. Good luck and I hope it works for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): Hey, I'm 15 and i've been having sex since i was 12 with 2 different girls (not at the same time) 1st girl we were together for 10 months and split up when i was 13 and then i got with a girl who i knew was right for me, and have been together for nearly 2 years now. So i know people will be abit weird with the fact they're giving advice to a 15 year old and it is VERY frustrating. When i first had sex, it went on for nearly 2 hours, but then went down and down till it lasted 2 minutes. Then with my second girlfriend i could last 5 mins max, then went down to 1! but then i was in school and talking to some mates and they said to think of lampshades when you think you can feel your just about to 'cum' and so then that started working and now i'm up to 30 mins coz i try to think of weird things that have no relation to sex what so ever such as bottles and lampshades and vases etc. Hope i've helped and good luck for the future.
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reader, woeizmex +, writes (6 January 2009):
Tell ur boyfriend to think about bad stuff while having sex... it would work if he thinks about fucking something nasty.... maybe he likes u so much that's why lol, and ure both kinda young.... practice will make it better
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