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Why has he changed so much?

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Question - (6 January 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My ex boyfriend is totally confusing me. When we were dating we had sex and I told him he got a little in me so don't be surprised if I'm pregnant and I told him I found out I was and he thought I was lying so my best friend called him and told him I wasn't lying. He called me up saying that he was sorry but then my other friend called him for me cuz I'm not allowed to call his house and told him to call me, it's important and so he told her no I don't want nothing to do with her. But he still calls me to see what I want. I told him I figured you would like to know the whole story and he said no you are still a liar till I talk to your mom and I want you dead and you are dead to me then he hung up. Something is going on with him. He never acts like this. Just a couple weeks ago he was telling me he loved me and ever since the baby thing he said sorry and now he wants me dead? What is going on??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

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Well something else happend. He got me arrested and suspended from skool.But thatz not it. When i came back 2 school it seemed like he was alwayz there. Stalking me and watching me and just staring making sure i didnt do shit. And then he found out i moved on and got another boyfriend. and he went up 2 to my brother and told him since i got a new bf that he wants nothing to do with me. I mean its not like he was talking to me b4 when i was single. but its buggin me. Why would he say that?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (6 January 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntI would steer clear of him from now on. Whatever is going on in his head, he sounds like an extremely immature young boy and I doubt there's any point in trying to talk to him. I would make sure your parents knew about what he's said about you, so that they can give you extra support. I expect they are very concerned about you since the miscarriage. What did the doctor say?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009):

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I am not pregnate i had a miscarige.And ever since i told him that hez been very angry towardz me and he told me 2 die.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009):

Are you pregnant?, because if your not, or your not absolutely sure, you shouldn't have told him you were pregnant as this is emotionally cruel. You are a very young person and although I dont know your boyfriends age, by the way he has reacted, I am guessing he is also very young. Neither one of you seems mature enough to handle a sexual relationship and if your not pregnant, I suggest you quit having sex with anyone until your old enough to handle the consequences.

It seems your more worried about what he thinks of you than actually being pregnant. If you are pregnant, or you suspect you are, you need to speak to a grown up who will get you the help you need.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (6 January 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntAre you pregnant?

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