A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: I've been a relationship for 6 months.he's 15 yrs older. Its been great. Until friday nite. Please don't judge me to harshly but honestly. My relationship is with a married man and a musician (he doesent drink anymore, 14yrs sober) but I was drinkin.talkin with friends having a good time.(No one knows about us but my best friend who was there and the bartender who see's my best friend on the side also. (I know u probably think I'm a slut but I'm not I love this man.) During the nite I was talkin to many people. Guys were buying me drinks wanting me to dance(never did) one of the guys is his son, the other is a member of the band who was paying me a lot of attention. Needless to say my boyfriend was very very upset with me. I admit I was drunk. But I didn't think I was doing anything wrong.now he tells me his son told him he wants to ask me out and that he is infatuated with me. My boyfriend tells me that I humiliated him. And hurt him deeply he told me he was ready to leave his wife (they have no kids at home they are all grown with kids of their own)but has seen a side of me he doesn't hates. I've told him I'm not gonna drink anymore not for him but for myself.how can I make him believe how sorry I am and that this won't ever happen again. And what do we do about his son. I'm so messed up, I've not eaten or slept since friday. I'm really just ready to end it all. Please help
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