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writes:Hi,I need advice fast... I worked for a rail replacement company called First group for 3 years and left recently to start a new job... My parents continue to work for First... one of the contract coach operaters they use often has a driver called Ray and when he is working for First he always has his Daughter Tj with him and she's 18 and I'm 20, anyways over the last few months I've started talking to her a bit more than I used 2... we're on each others facebook as well and she has become really good friends with my mum... at first I wasn't too sure if I liked her or not because I hardly knew her. I now work in a hotel and my mum has seen her loads of times, the last few weeks and she has been asking my mum stuff like, where's Chris... how is he... when is he next down here etc.. anyways my mum said she is really smitten on you and at first I couldn't see it.. but when my mum mentions my name to her she really blushes and smiles and stuff... when my mum mentions her name to me.. I react exactly the same and try to deny anything is there.Her dad said he would prefer her to focus on college first... which is fair enough and I respect that but the more and more my mum an dad have told me the things she been asking about me has had me wondering what she really feels and if anything for me? I seen her last night and we drove on the coach for 30 minutes together and I kinda didn't know what to say to her so I just chatted with her dad about Xmas NYE. so then her dad and her dropped me off and they went to see my mum at the other end and I rang my mum and in the background she said he didn't even say much to me so I said to my mum I honestly didn't know what to say... kind of lost for words. Then when me and my dad got to my mum's station to pick her up she was on the coach with Ray and Tj and I walked over on my own.. Tj sat at the front of the coach my mum got off and Tj was then stood up and my mum said look he's here and she looked at me then smiled... then I turned for a moment then turned back at we both looked at each other and it felt like a moment between her and me with us both smiling only at each other... I literally wanted to kiss her.. which sounds crazy but I'm so sure she feels something for me and I feel something for her.. we're just both kind of scared to admit it because she doesn't know what I'm thinking and I don't know what she is thinking!Then when I got home I left her a message on facebook say Hey, thanks for looking after my mum tonight. It's really appreciated and I hope your well, speak soon write back sometime then she wrote back saying it's no problem and your welcome and after put stop being so shy lol (changing the subject of the convo slightly) with 3 kisses at the end whereas I put one on the first message then 3 kisses back to her reply.Then her Friend Jess who I have met but couldn't remember off the top of my head text me on nye to with me happy new year from Tj and Jess.. so I'm guessing she has told her friend jess about me at some point?She wants me to talk to her but I'm unsure of what to say then we lock eyes for a moment and stuff.. I know I don't want to stuff this up.I'm a little bit puzzled about the signals here.. but surely she thinks about me? I just need someone's help in working out if it's good or bad?Any advice would be really good thanks.
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reader, HerionNiki  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 she totally digs you if she smiles and blushes at the sound of the name you should ask her on a few dates and hen if you two hit it of ask her to be more serious if thats what you want..
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reader, Hobbit22 +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Well Kido: it's obvious you both are interested in eachother, as she always asks of you, you wonder of her, and now send eachother kisses. Just ask her out with a chaperone if you must, talk with her, ask her questions about hobbies and interest, school pursuit, whatever, find out about eachother... Write her a note sometime, she likes you and you her, so get to know eachother, to see if you really do LIKE eachother after all.
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reader, metalsman +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Hi there,sounds like you've got a potentially really nice girl there.To me, from what you've written, i'd say that she is very interested in you and is being a total lady in not being too forward and so on. You'd be a fool to miss out here..she sounds ideal for you...So.......Don't be shy, be courteous, polite, honourable and ask her out with you..i'll bet she's bound to say yes..And if you're a bit tongue tied with her in conversation then there's nothng wrong in you telling her that you're a bit shy..so long as you treat her like a lady she'll respect that. Think about what you're going to say beforehand..otherwise a case of verbal diorheaia is nothing worse..I think you'll do just fine there...Best regards
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