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male
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30-35,
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writes:Ok, Im 16 years old and my girlfriend is 15 and i have been going out with her for nearly 6 months now, but for the past two months it has not been going so good.I want to see her badly but she will only ever see me with friends, and for the past month not at all. I offer to go to town with her for example and she would only go if her friends would, but before she was happy to go.I ask why and all i get is "I dunno". She says she loves me loads, and im slowly fall out of love as i want to badly just be with her, but she also acts very weird, i may for example leave my phone in the car after going out then when i remember and get it there would be like 8 missed calls after one day. Also if I dont listen to every little problem she goes all weird and plays attention seeker, I do like listening to her and helping her but she never really offer to listen to me.I dont feel she worrys about me "going to far" as i have never pushed the subject and just like being with her.Its very frustrating as i just want to be with her and she says that to but never will, and she meets up with her friends all the times.Please help, I dont see us going much further even though i would like to.Thank You. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 January 2009):
It sounds like she is not happy with you and I don't think you are happy with her.
I know you want to have a girlfriend but I think your motivation is sex rather than her. Is this really all you want from a relationship? I think you can do better.
Tell her that since she doesn't want to see you then you don't think she wants to be with you and that you want to break up.
She may start making effort or she might not but I don't think she is worth hanging around for.
Good Luck!! xx
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