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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone!!well this thing is....I think I might be bi sexual or more likely bi curious....all my life there's always been something at the back of my mind that I always ignored, like I used to some times feel like I was attracted to my old best friend but I would freak out and quickly push it out of my mind. Then I worked with a gay girl for a while and one day she was fixing my head set and it really made me blush but more recently I met my boyfriends sister who is gay (she was in oz for a year) and I felt really attracted to her, I couldn't stop looking at her and actually found myself wishing I was with her!! I think part of this was because she looks quite like my boyfriend and she has a lot of the same mannerisms and same sort of personality traits, anyway this quickly passed (a couple of days later).I often find myself fantasizing about women, wondering how it would feel to.. you know, more now than ever before and I started working with a gay girl quite recently and I keep daydreaming of kissing her...and of people knowing that I am 'bi' or what ever.I'm happy with my boyfriend (most of the time lol) there's no doubt in my mind that I am still attracted to him and I would never cheat but why do I keep having these thoughts? I've never kissed a girl before and maybe I'm just nosy or it's a faze I'm going through or something....oh I don't know. I don't walk by a girl in the street n think " aw i'd do her" lol It seems to be more when I know they are gay, they intrigue me or something.Has anyone else experienced anything like this before and what do yous think? cause I just don't know! lol Do yous think I should do anything about it?Thanks for reading, I know its a bit of a rant lol any input would be appreciatedXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): Bi curious so maybe that’s what I should call myself LOL you are attracted to girls because they are so goddamn good looking, woman have curves and soft skin a nice smell they are soft and gentle, when you fantasize bout doing it with a girl, is it more like making love exploring her beautiful body bringing her pleasure and receiving pleasure from such a beautiful being… lol I know what you going through I go through it all the time, I told my boyfriend about this a couple of years ago (been together for 6 years) and well a while ago he suggested a 3some with another girl at first I said yes coz the thought of finally being able to softly run my fingers down a girls spine while shes got her back arched drove me crazy… but soon things changed I didn’t want to see my man with another woman, I don’t want to share him, but I still want that experience with a girl, I thought bout just letting him watch at times, but I don’t want to do anything to jeopardize our relationship as I love him to pieces, tell your man how you feel, I bet you he will like it, don’t feel uncomfortable about this attraction just like people get attracted to pretty cars clothes and shoes, we get attracted to pretty girls, we are not gay that much I know, but don’t suppress a side of you that you think you have to be ashamed of, and don’t ruin a good relationship only coz u not sure what to do with these feeling, have fun girl, but do it safe….
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