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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you cope with getting old???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you cope when getting old. I get so depressed I am facing my 30s and even when I was in my 20's.... (25 words)

Ready to live with my boyfriend and become estranged to my parents... HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm so desperate I've resorted to asking over the internet. My parents told me they are never going to accept my boyfriend. He is 36 and I am 20. We've been dating for 2 years. He is a nightclub promoter and has been having money problems lately (who hasn't in t... (343 words)

Torn between ex girlfriend of almost 3 years and best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically I'm torn between 2 women. One is my ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years, we had alot of problems mainly to do with trust, but I was so in love with her I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. I was even planning on asking her to marry me on her 20th birthday bu... (415 words)

My boyfriend's mates are teasing him and it's spacing him out...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Again. Well, My boyfriend and I are still going out. Just to re-cap he and I have been going out for a little over half a year. He was a player and I had not dated many people. Well, this is the longest relationship either of us has been in. Well, things were going... (236 words)

I don't want her to think I'm a lousy lover...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I need help.. I'm feeling kind of worried. I'm about to have sex with a girl I've been going out with for over three months... she's cute, sweet ect. and I'm a pretty nice guy, but I'm afraid what she'll think when we have sex, I'm afraid making the wrong move at the wrong ti... (126 words)

My own mum makes me feel unwanted and depressed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, sorry but this is a little long. I'm realy wanting some advice as I'm feeling like I'm going out of my mind at the moment. I'm 21 years old and I still live at home with my parents. The thing is they both drink a lot. To get to the point I would say they were alco... (506 words)

How do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So yes I have asked this question but I want to know how do you get a girl you have been dating for over a year to have sex with you??? It's gotten to the point where it's like hmmm shouldn't we have already done it like a dozen times???????... (50 words)

I don't want to mess everything up like I did last time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

- Hey everyone, I need as much advice as I can get please! Basically, ages ago I wrote about a stupid thing I did (met a boy on the internet, fell in love but I was using pics of some random gorgeous girl instead of myself) I deceived him and went to unbelievable lengths to ... (714 words)

Lately I've been off my game and I can't stop thinking about my ex what should I do?

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend moved away to texas and I live in new hampshire and I was pretty devastated when she moved so I tried to move on and get another girlfriend but lately I've been off my game and I can't stop thinking about my ex what should I do?... (49 words)

Should I leave her because I feel she betrayed me.

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me. There is this girl who is my close friend. I love her and told her so and that I want her to be my girlfriend but she said she was not ready for a relationship. Later she told me she had gotten a boyfriend but that she loves me. We still talk but how do I ... (95 words)

How do we strengthen our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for four wonderful drama free months - at least until now. before I got with him I had a lot of guy friends and was a big flirt. but since then I've stopped flirting with them and made it known that I wanna juss be friends. there was ... (285 words)

Even more period problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had my period for two years now (I don't know how far along that put me puberty-wise) and I've felt my hormones amping up for some time now. When do they usually start to calm down?... (37 words)

First time sex for girls hurts, but how does it effect the guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This may sound a little silly, but it is something that just makes me wonder. Basically we all know that first time sex hurts for us girls and can make us feel alittle un well after. but how does first time sex effect guys? do they have any wierd sensations,etc? Yes I h... (98 words)

I don't know what to think... Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, the thing is at college, there is a girl who I really like, she's nice, sweet, good looking etc and I don't know if she likes me back. We get on really well as freinds, she laughs at my jokes, she smiles at me like all the time and we always pretty much hang out when we are ... (196 words)

Baby mama drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just wanted to know should I be concerned if I'm dating a guy who has a daughter with his past relationship and he says that he has a close relationship with the mother of his child but she be acting like their back together like when she calls him and I'm there in his presence ... (115 words)

My ex boyfriend today called me a cling on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, my ex boyfriend today called me a cling on, yes I still do like him but I'm no way like that, Anyway I rang him 2 confront him and I said comon then what do you really think of me, he said that I was annoying sometimes but I know that any way as we have always said tha... (119 words)

I can't get my feelings straight.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had this thing with this guy for about three months. we aren't going out but we have this commitment thing to not hook up or get with other people. i love being with him but i see him maybe once a week. and we are never alone. he isn't the kind of guy i normally go for. ... (179 words)

I talk to other guys on the phone, should I tell my BF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend been together for 2 yrs now and i really love him and everything but i like to conversate with other guys. i never technically cheat but i talk on da fone wit them late @ night and go out with them places and thats where it stops! i never tell my bf cuz i no ... (187 words)

Is he in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When a guy looks you in the eyes for a long time and doesnt want sex until later and he says theres enough time for that does that mean hes in love with you? ... (34 words)

Is he being serious or just messing with me? What's his motive?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, here's the basic story to this. There's this guy. I have to sit next to him in a class where it's very free-form and we can talk quiet so long as the teacher doesn't hear us. And he talks to me about um, the dirtiest things! And then there's this friend that sits on the ... (173 words)

If he cups your face when he kisses you, does he really like you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When a guy kisses you for the first time and he cups your face with both hands does that mean he really likes you?... (24 words)

What's with the eye contact when I'm masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I masturbate in front of my man he just looks me straight in the eyes and he won't even blink. Why does he look into my eyes and not pay attention on how I masturbate?... (36 words)

Is this only friendship or could there be more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ** I had ask this question already, but I only got one response. I would like several people to answer so I can get an idea** had been chatting with this guy for 4 years and I decided to go meet him. I went over to his state to meet with him, he was working so the time that... (404 words)

Do his text kisses mean he wants to be more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am wondering what the kisses at the end mean when the text is coming from a guy, as i know that when girls text, they nearly always put kisses so dont mean as much, but when ur getting like 8, 9 or 10 kisses at the end of a text from a guy is he just being really friendly or ... (83 words)

When guys flirt like this does it mean they're interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - just wonderin wat does it mean wen a guy coms wit his friends behind u kinda pokes u then keeps walkin but hangs next to ya and him and his friends r lookin at u then the next day they come to the same place and look at u wen u pass by? basically the question im asking is wen ... (76 words)

My boyfriend never wants to see me, but always has time for his XBox!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend never wants to see me. We only ever see each other at school. I ask him if he wants to meet up on a weekend but he always says he's busy, and half of the time I know he's not busy because he'll be on his Xbox all day. I feel like he doesn't care about me, but deep ... (133 words)

Is it possible to have true love for the wrong person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to have true love (I don't think that's grammatically correct :S) for the wrong person? You see, there's someone who makes me smile and blush just when they look at me. When they talk to me it feels like my heart will burst out of my chest. When they're happy, I... (154 words)

I hate the idea of sex, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate the idea of sex. I haven't had any bad experiences with it or whatever (I've never even been kissed) but I just hate the idea of sex. Is this normal?... (32 words)

Should you shave your arms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should you shave your arms? It's just I have some quite dark hair on my arms, and I wondered if it's normal to shave your arms. It's not like super-dark, so I don't have to shave. I just wanted to know.... (41 words)

Did he want to see me on Friday? Why didn't he say so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here's the thing..I just started dating this guy and he says, "We can go to play pool next weekend if you want." I had mentioned it to him that I can play it fairly well. He asks, "Do you want to go Friday or Saturday?" I immediately said, "Saturday." I don't have plans for ... (132 words)

Creative thoughts on where to hold the wedding??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

- Hi Creative Cupiders, My fella and I are planning on getting married sometime in the next year (hooray!)... here's the issue: we met when I made an impromptu move to the West coast (without the intention of staying, but love happens where/when love happens). We've been livin... (244 words)

Follow-up: Does he plan to stay married to her?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question in regards to my previous post I'm 18 he's 28, and he's married. Anyways the back story for those of you who don't know is that he likes me everybody knows, but he's married to an evil 50 yr old lady who has recently been arrested and sent to another state to ... (149 words)

I need some insight on Virgo men... any Zodiac experts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently gone on a date with a Virgo man and was wondering if anyone can give me some insight on them. We had a wonderful time and a lot of fun and he has called a few times since the date. (It's only been a week since the date). I am an Aries, but I don't have all ... (102 words)

Will it affect my health if I stop masturbating for a long period of time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Lets say I stopped masturbating for a year, would it affect my health in anyway?? I want to stop not just because I feel guilty after I do it, but I feel weak just giving in just because my body wants. The longest I've ever stopped was about three months. I'm confident that I ... (79 words)

When is it more than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known my friend for a couple of months now and have started developing feelings for him. Somedays I think he feels it too, but I can't be sure. I was wondering how do guys show their female friends of a long time that there feelings have changed/developed? Are there ... (90 words)

He changed his mind about wanting to marry me when his parents said they don't approve!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, I am in a major predicament. I met my boyfriend in the UK, and we have been dating for sometime. I am 30, and he is 35 and we are both Jatt Sikh (same caste and religion). We are also both divorced. I am madly in love with him and he tells me he loves me too and we bo... (207 words)

I'm married, but still feel like I'm not ready to have sex with my husband.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, am 24 years old and I just got married 4 months ago. I married my husband after 3 years of a love story and finally now am with him but am having a problem that is affecting my marriage as I think! I always liked to be a virgin until I get married, that ho... (144 words)

Is my boss opening up to me emotionally so that we can have a closer relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with my boss and we have worked together for quite some time, we both shared personal details of how we had been mistreated in the past which resulted in both of us crying openly and at length in the privacy of his office, I told him I could relate to him and he ... (172 words)

Is there a chance that my guy will fall in love with me after all this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with this guy for four years. We have been seeing each other for 4 and a half years. Everything is good we don't fight we get along. On news years eve of this past year he told me that he was not in love with me. He told me he loves me and cares about me but ... (88 words)

Is it normal to feel this sick after losing your virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it normal to get really bad stomach cramps and feel sick after losing your virginity? we did use protection and it didnt split so i cant be pregnant, im just kinda worried.... (33 words)

Would a man get offended if a woman told him his penis was beautiful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lol just wondering, would a man be offended if a woman told him that his penis was beautiful? Or would he be flattered??... (23 words)

Advice Please... Should I tell him how I feel or just be there for him as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well this is my problem... there's a guy and I have liked him for about a year now. At first we weren't that close but this year we have gotten a lot closer. A while ago I was talking to him on msn and when I asked him how he was he said he was depressed. He started to tell ... (129 words)

He just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like it. You can be a whore, out ... (219 words)

So confused about this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently joined a dating site and got talking to a local guy we exchanged mobile numbers and he invited me through to his for a meal. All went well we text a bit and we were due to meet again but something come up, the texts stopped. I sent him an e-mail online saying hope ... (247 words)

Why won't he have sex with me until I express my feeelings to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was supposed to be friends with benefits with this guy but the guy doesn't wanna do anything until I tell him how I feel about him. He says he's sensitive and that he's not like other guys. Why won't he have sex with me until I express my feeelings to him? ... (52 words)

It seems impossible. How can I get him to cum???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for three weeks, we have a good sex life, but he hasn't came yet. I've asked if he's nervous, but he says he doesn't know what's wrong. He's never been like it before. He did say he hasn't always used condoms with his exes, they were on contraception, but I ... (115 words)

I want my boyfriend to ask me to be his valentine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.. this is a stupid problem but it would help all the same if anyone wants to give me some advice on this. I want my boyfriend to ask me to be his valentine, we've been going out almost 4 months now so it's acceptable.. right? I know him and he thinks these kind of tra... (103 words)

What can I do? We both want to have sex but I can't ejaculate yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have got a girlfriend that I have known for 3 months now. We both want to have sex but I can't ejaculate yet. Is there anything I can do to change this? I have heard about eating different foods but I don't think that would help. Help Please?... (50 words)

The walls of my vagina have collapsed, (what do I do? )

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, I'm 15, but 16 on Monday, I have become sexually active for 1 year, my periods have always been regular, not much menstrual pain and recently the walls of my vagina have not collapsed but like closed together. I have ... (168 words)

High sex drive !!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Well I am 14 and let's just say my sex drive is very high but is that wrong because I'm a girl? When a boy has a high sex drive it doesn't matter but when a girl does it's vile and disgusting, am I the only girl who has a high sex drive? Is there something wrong with me? I ... (81 words)

I can not reach an orgasm while having sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My big problem is that I can not reach an orgasm while having sex. When I am masturbating, I reach my peak in not so much time, but having sex is completely different. I haven't had much experience; had sex four times without any orgasm. We do indulge in foreplay and even ... (106 words)

My g/f hates my ex wife and its almost destroyed our relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm a divorced father of three girls. I have known my ex wife for over 18 years. We vowed to stay friends after the divorce for the sake of the kids. We talk on a daily basis about the goings on with our girls. They are in many activities and we are constant... (278 words)

We're breaking up, getting together over and over..what is wrong with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Been with her for a 1 1/2 years. She has broken up with me at least 12 times. I leave her alone and she comes crawling back, calling, texting, emailing, until I agree to see her. We end up back together everytime. Then when we are back together she gives me a hard time about ... (191 words)

Friend seems to think I am gay and is following me around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, well ill get straight to the point, i'm 15 and have a friend (i wouldnt call him a friend but he would probly call me his best friend) who i think may be gay (not that theres anything wrong with that) but he seems to be following me litterly everywhere (he even came to... (152 words)

French kissing & oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Would you french kiss a girl who engage in oral sex with her ex boyriend 3 years ago? Next question is it true that if you kiss a girl that engage in those things it will come in like you kissing the guy private part?... (45 words)

Do I break away or give it a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Im very new to this - infact this is the first ever time i have posted a question but im really interested in an outsiders point of view. Basically i met a guy 2 years ago now and i fell for him hook line and sinker, we were only together for 4 months and i fell... (487 words)

Fight? Or give up hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - me and ex went out for 2 an half years we were both really in love but we let relationship get boring and she ended it. i have since went with other girls but they dont appeal the same its been 9 months should i fight for her even if she wont talk to me or give up hope? i did ... (76 words)

Will I hurt her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is yet another penis size question folks! Well, I have been dating a girl of over a year now and we have not had sex yet because she isn't ready, but, I am scared I may hurt her since she is a virgin and I am also. My erect penis length is 6 inches and the circumferance ... (74 words)

Triangle of confusion

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) age 51-59 - i broke up with my boyfriend 7month ago. i met another man. he is nice but 2 months after that i met up with my ex-boyfriend and we have been having sex ever scence. my love for him is stronger now then before and i am scared to loose him. the reason we broke up is my daughter ... (137 words)

Her ex has porno of her/him on the internet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This one is very complicated I could use some advice on how to proceed. I found pictures on an internet site of my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years having sex with her ex and this has created a tonne of problems. First off we haven't ever really discussed what she would think o... (288 words)

G/f & I broke up and its a pretty big mess

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody. I'm actually new here so I hope u all can give me the best advice y'all can give. Ok I'm actually 17 yrs old n my gf, L, is also 17. We've known each other 4 actually a month now(I know it sucks) n we love each other very much. To tell the truth I and L had 2 ... (538 words)

Now he's "damaged goods" I should have went out with him when I could have

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The boy I like now, liked me back in High School for 3 courses in a row. He asked me out several times but I never went out with him. I didn't want a boyfriend back then but now I started to like him. Unfortunately, I came to like him too late bacause he just found a girlfriend ... (133 words)

I took my ex back, he lied has another girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there i need advice I have a problem with my bf, we have been together for 2yrs now, we having our ups and downs, last year it happens dat we break up but he asked me to come back to him and tell me that he does'nt have gf. i found out that he is seeing someone else. i ... (109 words)

Ex still cares for me and wants fwb..I am unsure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling a bit lost and confused. My ex Doug and my ex best friend Lily went out behind my back soon after we broke up. This was quite a while ago. It took me a long time to forgive them but i realised it was better to let go of the anger i had and just let the pain sort ... (415 words)

Unhealthy to immediately kiss after oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've heard that it can be really 'unhygenic' if you have oral sex and kiss immediately afterwards. Obviously I don't need an explanation as to why lol, but was wondering if there's any risk of catching something (not neccessarily STDs) and if there was anything in particular ... (53 words)

G/f & I want to live in different countries & neither of us wants to give in

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been with my g/f for the last 18 months now in UK. All is great but I have an issue of her wanting to live in the UK when I want us to live in Oz. Seems that neither of us are willing to budge. Seems that she expects me to let go of everything (friends, family and ... (82 words)

His ex is a friend of mine but sometimes I questions her motives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. My boyfriend and I have a mutual friend, who is a girl, who happens to be his ex from about 4 years ago. We have been together for 3, and have lived together for 1. The thing that upsets me is that a long time ago, I know that when he first started talking to her a... (223 words)

Should I marry him? Or wait?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm divorced with young children and engaged to a man I love very much. We've been engaged now for over a year and I haven't set a date for the wedding. He recently found out that some members of my family think he is too controlling and he may not be the ray of sunshine that ... (339 words)

Do you think he'll want me tosleep over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy i met online, We have been talking online and on the phone for 3 months now. The last 3 weekends we have seen each other and gone out...after the first date i still had the impression that he was still keen as he would make an effort to speak to me ... (261 words)

Am I worrying for nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok last month my period was laste for 5 days but then I gain I always do that but never later than that. The first 2 to 3 days I had enogh to wer pad but then it wasent enoght to we're a pad it was like that for 2 days.I had never done that so I took a test thinking that I was ... (110 words)

To have sex? or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and my boydrien is 20, we have been 2gtr for 7months should i have sex with him or wait longer?(im still a little scarde) In if so how much longer?... (32 words)

B/f upset--pastor says no fornication!

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my pastor says i should not commit sin of fornication(sex between young ones) and my boyfriend is really pissed off cos wev neva sexed since we started dating for 10months now. am 20yrs and he is 26yrs working in a company.... wat do i do i really love him and dnt want to loose ... (67 words)

Am I just reading too much into his actions?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, im really confused by the mixed signals a very good guy mate "tom" is giving me...and i dont know how to respond. im a very out going and friendly girl who never stops talking, ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and i am very happy with him, whereas tom... (167 words)

I'm 16, he's in his 40's what to do if he asks me out?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a bit of a problem that I am VERY confused about. There's this guy at my gym, he's (I guess) in his late 30s or early 40s. Anyway I like him, a lot, and he seems to like me as well, but I am 16. He doesn't know that. (Most people seem to think I am in my early 20s ... (152 words)

My boyfriend says I whine

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boy friend says i whine but i dont believe i am when he says i am we use to be like best friends now i feel like were barley friends i feel like all he care's about is playing video games and smoking w/ his friends i no im kinda clingy but thats cuz i am very insecure ... (103 words)

Will I be making a mistake if I dump him now?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys, my boyfriend of almost 2 years hasn't really been treating me well, we have been in along distance relationship but calling and messaging has been my responsibility alone he calls only when he wants,alot of things and i mean alot of thngs have happened btwn us, he kept ... (251 words)

I seem to have lost all my friends...

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone hope you can help me. 2008 was a particularly hard year for me, I split with my husband with all intents and purpose of the relationship ending. We have got back together and are working on our marriage its going really well now. I have had other personal problems... (481 words)

If I was to go get the morning after pill would Social Services be able to find out I'd taken it?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend last night and the condom split. I'm on no other form of contraceptive like the pill or anything, so I need to go and get the morning after pill. Thing is I'm having some problems and home at the moment and social services are on my family's case, ... (88 words)

He left me for another woman but I'm not convinced it's over

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21 January 2009 (F)

age - my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years for another women he met one night after getting drunk he told me he been seening her for 3 wks before at least he been honest with me there. he moved straight in with her she has chidren too he still has some of his ... (179 words)

We always fight and I feel like he doesn't want me sexually anymore

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my bf have been together over 2 yrs and we are always together we live together and everything we always fight over the stupidest things i hate fighting with him and he says it's cuz i whine all the time and cuz im to clingy what should i do and on top of all ... (78 words)

I don't want to lose her but she's not ready for a relationship now. What do I do?

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have recently met a girl n we have been talkin for about 6wks now n we get on like a house on fire and have met up a few times aswel. we both enjoy each others company cos we have so much in common n feel we can tell each other everything. the problem is basically she has ... (234 words)

How do I tell the guy I like that I'm pregnant to an ex?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am pregnant from an ex and have since moved on. A friend from the past just showed up back in my life and I really like him. Unfortunatly, I am not showing yet and he has no idea that in three months I am going to pop. I don't know how to tell him I am pregnant since I ... (75 words)

Does she like me, or are we just good friends?

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've liked a certain girl for 2 years now. When we met, we were always arguing through emails. Half a year later, we became friends because one of her friends (who now lives in queensland) had a crush on me. The girl i like began to be very friendly towards me (helping me w... (142 words)

I don't love him 100% but I want to settle down with him. Any tips?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I have been in a relationship with a guy for three years now and we are planning to get married soon. the problem is i dont love him 100 %. plz help with tips to improve on my love life because i feel he is the right guy for me and i want to settle down with him.... (60 words)

Is this considered cheating?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on my bf of 1 years my space account and saw that a girl emailed him something called a hubby appliction. On it he said that he wants to have sex with her, kiss her and stuff like that. He has never met this girl and she lives across the country. He said he was just ... (74 words)

How can I regain my libido?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex for the first time quite recently. It hurt a lot the first time, but I feel it's getting better. Before having sex I though once I start, I will want to have sex all the time. But I have found out it's not the case. I have a feeling maybe I feel this way because the ... (176 words)

Anybody who can show me the way in the right direction is welcome to reply.

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello everybody I'm a bi-curious male, married and seeking a bisexual girl as my trusted Mia-noi (minor wife) to have fun with, and later to have swinging adventures with Looks easy, you think,...? well forget it, it's not! I really don't understand that in a sexual lib... (141 words)

What is this horrible creamy discharge?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is kinda embarrassing. Every day I have this creamy white leakage coming out of my vagina. I don't know what it is. Is it like chick cum? cause I don't feel aroused. I'm not pregnant and I'm a virgin. So yeah, and sometimes so much of it comes out I think I'm ... (70 words)

Is it okay for a guy to give me oral sex but not kiss me? I'm getting turned off, what do I do?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm seeing a guy for 2 months now, he seems quite ok, but my worry is I noticed he doesn't like kissing me. He has been on vacation for a month and came back 4 days ago, we met and he just hugged me, I spent the night with him, cuddled no sex coz I didn't want to. I told him ... (105 words)

Why don't I have a period now?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think there is something wrong with my periods..i was going good until last year when it just stopped..and i am worried to death please help! i still haven't had my period again! why don't i have my period!?... (39 words)

My husband doesn't like engage in sexual intercourse

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,its not even a year that i have got married.we had a love marriage.my husband does not like to indulge in sex.we hav sex once in three months,which is again initiated by me always.there is absolutely zero intimacy between us.he does not like to smooch,no caressing,never ... (124 words)

Girlfriend doesn't dress classy

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21 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend doesn't dress very classy (she like to show off her body). When I first started dating her (we been together for a year now) she wouldn't even dare to dress like a slu*. She wears clothes leave a little imagination and its really bugging me. I want to say ... (78 words)

My step-mom's brother likes me but its causing alot of problems

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused and don't know what to do. My step-mom's brother likes me and i like him, but he is clingy My step-mom doesn't get along with her brother, and my dad hates her brother. My step-mom knows were talking to eachother and doesn't like it. Since we started talking ... (499 words)

Is this finally my chance with her?

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - There is this woman who has been a friend of mine for 10 years. I'm not sure why she told me about a good sex dream she had with me a while back. Today she planted a very nice kiss on my lips. Todays kiss was way more than the usual quick hug and kiss hello or good by. It was ... (194 words)

I've lost my sex drive

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21 January 2009 (M)

age - I am a 46 year old male. Happily married for 25 years. I love my wife and she loves me. Sex was great until 3 years ago, when I first started to experience erectile difficulties, then loss of sex drive, and now I have no desire for sex, not even masturbation, no reaction... (270 words)

I've been crying myself to sleep at night overthis

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, iv been with this guy for WAY over a year, but we arent dating like boyfriend girlfriend thing. He's 17, im 14, and I know how adults think us "kids" are to young to be in love. But truth be told, I defenitly know I am. He's generous, he makes me feel like were the only ... (193 words)

Can anyone tell me what the hell is going on?

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i cant understand whats wrong with me. im not like other people who have a bad outlook on them selves. i dont nitpick about my appearance, i know im not a bad looking guy, i work out hard, im strong and in top physical condition. i have a good job as a diver and the pay is ... (223 words)

What is he talking about? What does it all mean?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age - I met this guy online, we talked everyday on there and then on the phone. After several weeks we met and it was good. We talked here and there, He told me he likes my bubbly personality, i am very attractive and he would like to date me. Well he set up 2 dates and cancelled ... (147 words)

I allowed her to fall out of love

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - 10 days ago I found out my wife is having an affair. We've been married for 20 years. She just turned 40 and I am 43. Yes, we got married very young, never had a chance to experience so called "single life". Life was not very romantic with me over stressing about providing, ... (146 words)

Why do girls always fall for the bad guys?

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21 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im having girl trouble and i need your help..i have to questions... 1-ok there this girl i really like and we're really close friends and i think she likes me too..but tthe thing is she has a boyfriend and she's always flirting with me and seems to be really in to me...wha... (164 words)

How long will a guy wait?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wndrn how long can you make a guy wait b4 he gives up and looks for someone that will give him what he wants?... (26 words)

What does he want from me? I'm confused

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am baffled by this man's behavior. We are friends but recently I've grown rather fond of him and begin to see him in a romantic light. He is a rather unusual 24 yr old, deep in academia and frankly, one of the biggest nerds and social recluse you'll ever meet. We get... (273 words)

Best friends boyfriend

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He tells me that he loves me and sounds like he means it, he says that he has never felt like this before, that he would do anything for me and never wants to loose me, he says that this is the first time he has been in love untill now.. The problem? he is one of my best ... (138 words)

If I lose my virginity to a guy I don't love, won't it be easier?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im listening to the advice ppl give me bout waiting for sex, but i have another theory. i know a girls first time is special and something she will remember BUT, i dont know if i can lose it to someone i absolutely love, and then lose HIM. I have felt hearaches that given me... (260 words)

I love him but his g/f hates him

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend and i have been best friends since ninth grade. He's one year older than me. i'm 16. i've recently stopped denying the obvious. i'm in love with my best friend. i've told him...and he's told me that he feels the same way only multiplied. but he has a gf that ... (174 words)

How do you tell if a hymen is broken or not?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so...i'm not sure if my hymen's broken or not. I know this is so embarrassing but like i've done...alot...but there's been no bleeding or pain when i'm...active....i'm just curious really. i'm not sure how to tell if it is or not.... (41 words)

16 and scared to have sex

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16(virgen) my boyfriend his 20(not a virgin), we have dun about evrything,but im to scared to have sex with him. His also scared he dosent wanna get into trouble, and his scared to get me pregnat. I dont know what to do, what should i do? ... (47 words)

I wantto contact the other woman!

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay I think I am completely losing my mind now. For some crazy reason I am having urges to contact the other woman. And not in a mean way either. Maybe it is the whole "keep your friends close and your enemies closer thing"? He wrote her a goodbye email on New Year's Eve. ... (258 words)

How do you know when you're tired of someone?

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you know when your getting tired of being with someone? I've been with this girl for seven months and I think starting to lose my feelings for her. Can someone help?... (34 words)

Need help in figuring out my life

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Still love ex and have tried moving on but not happy she wont tlk to me and i just want to see what others think i should do... (28 words)

Is there a chance? I like a guy with a g/f!

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, There is this guy I see around school. He's really cute. However, he's two years older than me and has a girlfriend. I'm never been attracted to a boy more then I do now. He's always looking at me. Even when he's with his girlfriend. Whenever I see them togethe... (78 words)

Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep but to no avail. have you ... (63 words)

Her inconsistencies are driving me crazy!

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21 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great time that weekend and had ... (541 words)

How to NOT be attracted to someone who is off limits?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any way to stop being attracted to someone who's off-limits? if it's not going anywhere, that would just be easier.... :(... (24 words)

I really like him but he's such a manwhore! Lose it? Or not?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i REALLY need to hear some advice and decide something. because my friend is gettin his license in a week and a half and he plans on fucking. we met over a year ago and our relationship is purely sexual even tho im a virgin. from sending pictures, videos, to dirty talkin or ... (185 words)

Are we closely related? or not?

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have something i would like to talk about and ask questions about. Okay I am in a relationship now for 6 1/2 months. The thing is that I found out that we were cousins!! But here is how it is. His Great great grandmother is my dads sister! So what does that make us? not ... (201 words)

My friend won't respond in over 2 weeks!

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - IDK, my best friend just up and left me. Ok, here's the story my best friend came into town and I wasn't able to see him. I could sense he was a little upset but that was two weeks ago. I call and txt he won't respond what happened?... (49 words)

Difference between gut feeling & being paranoid

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21 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, After a partner has cheated how to you differenciate between "am I just been paranoid" or is this "my gut feeling". My b/f cheated last year. We're trying to work things out and it seems to be fine. We live apart which dosent help me at all even though I'd like to see ... (110 words)

Is it ok to have sex & orgasm when pregnant?

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21 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Well you see i am 20 and i just got marries and i am having my first baby i am 13 weeks pregnant and i am as horny as hell. I want to have sex more than ever but my partner says he doesnt want to hurt the baby. is it safe to have sex and an orgasm while pregnant?... (60 words)