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He has time for smoking with his boys, but none for me!

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Question - (6 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

lately i've been feeling a little lonely. my boyfriend always says he's busy and barely asks me to hang out. i try to wait till he asks so it seems like i don't care. but i do.. and whenever i ask him to hang out he's always doing something. but he has time to go smoke with his friends.. i absolutely hate when he does this. well i'm not trying to be a hypocrite cuz i smoke too but still. after school i saw him in a car with a bunch of people he screamed hey out the window i was like whatever.. it just bugs me so much. so he has time to go smoke and get high with his friends but not any time for me.. yesterday he was supposed to come over but said he got busy. and i asked him to hang out tonight but that's probably not going to happen.. i'm just so sick of it and he says he misses me and shit after when i finally see him.. but it just sucks and i just feel like we're not even dating.. what do i do?

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A male reader, *$Maurice$* United States +, writes (6 January 2009):

*$Maurice$* agony auntIt seem like the guy likes 2smoke then u cuz he is always smoking when he should be wit u if he was really in2 u he wud smoke wit u kuz that is the rite thing 2do its like ur not dating but jus saying each outher here and there and like jus sayN hi.... and u shud tell him 2pick between smoking or u which 1 he likes more and accept his answer unless he picks smoking

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A male reader, MichaelS2 United States +, writes (6 January 2009):

MichaelS2 agony auntDUMP HIM!If he rather smoke than be with you he is not the person to be with!You should be his drug!You can and will find someone better,He doesn't deserve you if he rather get high than spend time with you!

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