A
female
age
30-35,
*WantHer
writes:I have a huge problem....i like girls...and i have fallen for one who is..well lets say forbidden, she has a boyfriend and shes not gay, i dont want to love her but i cant help myself shes just so beautiful, shes nice and sweet, we never really spoke much in school but when we did it was great, every time i seen her in school i couldnt speak to her, i would mumble and it wasn't a very good thing... anyways, i just need help with trying to get over her because i dont want to love her no matter how much i want to or no matter how hard i try i can't get her out of my head.Can anyone help?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Just be her friend thats the best way. Try not to get confused in your mind between being a friend or a potential lover just relax and be her friend. After all if shes takn thats all you can be.
Good luck!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): This sort of thing happens to us all,regardless of gender or sexuality. As hard as it sounds you need time to get over her. I would suggest looking for other girls who are looking for girls, locally. Even If a relationship doesnt form, youll have someone to talk to who can understand where you're coming from. If you pop into your local connexions centre they may have contact numbers you can use.
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