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writes:ok i love the man that i am with he is amazing and i am completely in love with him. But lately its like he is bipolar. one minute he wants to spend time with me and love on me and hold me and the next he doesnt want anything to do with me and back and forth and back and forth and i love him so much that i dont care what he does as long as he comes back to me but he doesnt see how hard this is on me. and i dont know how to tell him what this is doing to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 well you never know, you can develop it.
Otherwise mabey he's not sure about falling in love yet, he's just being a little cautious, maybe this is his way of dealing with that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know he is not bipolar for sure but just the way he goes up and down lately seems like it and he was raised my his mom and older sister
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reader, Griffo +, writes (6 January 2009):
Talk to him about it.
Some people believe that doing this cycle it keeps you keen by running away then coming back and so on (a common players game, by never giving too much. its like fly-fishing luring them in till you fully make a catch) but he seems pretty young going by your age to fully know all the rules. Does he have any older brothers? i find it funny if he was playing some type of game and it came accross as bi-polar symptoms, thats funny!!!
You also need to see if he really is bi-polar to distinguish between the two scenarios. Have a chat with him ;)
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