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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really don't want to get hurt...

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a while and I really really like him, I've fallen too deep and that goes against everything I've ever wanted and stand for. When we started for the first 2, 3 months we seen each other all the time like 4 - 5 times a week and I noticed, while I... (350 words)

Will I ever be able to trust him while she is still in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 10 months still has regular contact with his ex, he dated her for 5 years, she is 23 he is 40. A few week ago he went to meet her and she stayed the night at his, he told me he was going home to watch the footie with his neighbour and have a few drinks and ... (240 words)

Am I over reacting? Is it okay to be so realistic about marriage? I really don't want to be naive.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. When we started dating, I never thought we would be together as long as we have. Well, I had a problem trusting him (needless to say). But I can honestly say I'm madly in love with him. He seems so serious about the ... (245 words)

I get uncomfortable whenever we get close but I'm longing for intimacy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been together for more than a year and a half, never really kissed, I avoid any form of physical contact with him yet I long for some form of intimacy. It's because I get uncomfortable whenever we get close but I completely trust him. I know it sounds strange but is there ... (65 words)

Is he making excuses or is he just not ready for a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old and there's this guy, he is my best mate and I think I love him, the problem is I don't think he feels the same way. I've asked him out but he says he doesn't want me to hate him if things don't work out. I really wanna give it a go! Is he making excuses or ... (72 words)

How can I help my fiancee deal with her grief???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - HI, I was curious if anyone had any advice to help me both with helping my fiancee and with my own issues dealing with this. A few days ago my fiancee's brother took his own life. Since then my fiance has obviously been not feeling that great and has been very detached at... (353 words)

My boyfriend won't finger me or do anything sexual for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well my boyfriend and I have now been in a relationship for over 4 months now; I am 17 and he is 18, and we both love each other very much. Yet I'm worried something is wrong because he won't touch me in any way more than touch my breasts. I have both given him a handjob ... (139 words)

Is there hope for us? He wants to have more children and get remarried....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have 1 son. I found out on his phone he had been cheating while working out of town. I divorced him but, we never legally separated. He's here. I am trying to deal with the pain. It's been several months. He thinks all is ... (83 words)

Why do we like what we do on the opposite sex???

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The question to end all questions..... why do we like what we do on the opposite sex??? Why do you guys like boobs or asses legs anything else??? And girls why do you like what you do??? Please and thank you in advance... (43 words)

Can you make love for 5 hours and NOT be in a loving relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it possible to make love constantly for 5 hours and not be in a relationship that is based on true love?? ... (22 words)

I'm really concerned about the chance that I might have HIV or Hepatitis and could use a little guidance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I'm really concerned about the chance that I might have HIV or Hepatitis and could use a little guidance. I realize that this isn't a replacement for medical advice, but I would like to know if anyone can share some advice with me. I'm really ashamed of wha... (375 words)

Should I give the bracelet back to him or should I keep it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend gave me a $700 bracelet that has his name engraved in it. The only problem is that this bracelet was given to him by his ex. He says that he loves me and he wanted to let me know how serious he was about me. I thought it was sweet but it kind of felt awkward. ... (79 words)

I want out, but I fear it will hurt my daughter.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I live with my fiance of 2 years (we been together for 6) and our 4 year old daughter. We own a house, live a quite life. I have recently realized I am not happy! My entire family lives 14 hours by car away. He is an only child with only his father living. I want out, but I ... (111 words)

I don't understand why my ex still wants to be friends.

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 2 months, broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself (his family, studies etc). For many of these months I was constantly... (554 words)

My friend is in trouble... any suggestions what I can do to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I became close friends really quickly with this one girl who has a nine-month old daughter (my friend and I are both turning 19) and she and her boyfriend recently broke up. Now this is the kind of guy that goes crazy under stress. I told her to leave ASAP, but she just never ... (130 words)

Stretch mark help?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have like stretch marks in my boobs and sides and arms and you cant see them unless your really close but its embrassing and I hate my arm being out im not fat but I use to be Im kinda scared because I like doing it with the lights off because of this my boyfriend is tried of ... (87 words)

She says nothing happened but I still doubt her...

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I started dating a person in August of last year. We had a wonderful time together. However, she had an ex that she still loved. By Christmas, I was head over heals. Then he came back in town and poof, they were together. Now that he has gone home again, I see that she ... (214 words)

He won't date me because I had a small fling with his friend last summer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so theres this guy I like, and I've been watching him and I'm positive that he likes me a lot too. So, I asked him out. And he turned me down. See, I had no idea he and this guy I had a bit of a thing for last summer were best friends and despite the fact that he really ... (203 words)

She has boyfriend and I love her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I met someone and when I first met her it was love at first sight. Unfortunatly she had a boyfriend already. When they broke up I was too shy to ask her to be my girlfriend. Then when I finaly got the guts to ask she already had another boyfriend. I asked her that if I had ... (88 words)

Is it time for me to leave him and move on with my life and try to make things better for me and our son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband works, I'm the mom/housewife. He never hardly ever gives me money, we hardly ever communicate like we used to, we've been together 3 years and married one year, we just got some taxes back and he's spent his half and most of mine that we agreed upon. Every week we ... (115 words)

I tried a threesome and hated it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had a boyfriend for about 2 years and recently I found out he wants to watch me have sex with another man and he won't feel jealous or anything. We tried to do a threesome but I couldn't do it.. I couldn't stand another person touching my boyfriend so I stopped it. I ... (65 words)

How do I tell him that I don't feel the same way any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have got a new bf and hes a really good guy, we have been together for a few months now. We have been getting on so well up till now. We have been arguing over stupid things, like music, films, even games, if I don't like somthing that he does he goes off on one, then the ... (217 words)

Is it a bad thing if I can only cum once?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it bad if I can only cum once during any sexual activity? I hear most girls can cum a lot more than once during sex, is something wrong with me? After I cum that one time, it gets sensitive down there and doesn't really like to be touched at all. I can cum again if I get ... (88 words)

I Think I may like girls but how do I tell my boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I heard the song by Katy Perry you know the taste of her cherry chapstick and I think I may like girls. Yeah I kissed a girl before or girls and stuff I dont want God to punish me because Im a strong believer in God. So what do I do? Hide the feeling? Tell my Boyfriend ... (76 words)

Afraid of giving a blow job!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been sexualy active for about 9 years.... but have never been able to bring myself to give someone a blowjob. It has almost become a phobia.... the reason I can think of causing the fear are: 1. I have issues with texture and food, which is obviously linked to putt... (244 words)

He seems to have dropped me like a hot potato... what's going on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been seeing someone been out on dates, he paid for everything night on drnking, meals etc. He even came and picked me up and dropped me off at home. Been back to his for relaxing night and even invited me to his mate's party new year eve. Then mentioned us going on... (101 words)

He knows how I feel so why is he still pushing for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for around 2 months now. When we where friends he didn't want to rush into any thing like sex, he just wanted to take things slow and at a time, he didn't seem like all the other boyfriends that I've been out with, that's one of the small reasions ... (177 words)

Tips on how to make your eyelashes grow longer?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have any tips on how to make your eyelashes grow longer, and quicker? I'm fed up with lash lengthening mascaras cos they end up clumping my lashes together which are short anyway then some fall out when I try and pull the lumps out. I want nice natural lashes ... (55 words)

Help!!! Pregnancy problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! I'm 13 weeks and 4 days pregnant with my first child. Recently I have been experiencing period like cramps that last for about a minute or two then go away. They occur about five times a day. There is no blood or clear fluid coming out, but they concern me? My mom says ... (102 words)

What are the pros and cons of giving a baby up for adoption, and the pros and cons of keeping it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I waited until I was 18 before I started having sex with my long term boyfriend of two years. I made that decision, because I did not want to leave any burden upon my parents if I was to become pregnant. My now fiance and I plan on marrying in about a year, and began having ... (389 words)

I am in love with him but he doesn't respond ..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was happily married for close to 10 years till I saw my dentist. I haven't been able to sleep or eat after I met him. The way he cupped my face to work on my tooth and his deep eyes - all is making me crazy. He is married and has kids. I know his is a troubled marriage but he ... (102 words)

I want to feel my girlfriend's boobs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I was just wandering I'm still a virgin and I've never felt boobs. What do they feel like and what would be the best way to feel my girlfriend's tits that would make her happy?... (36 words)

Has my husband been unfaithful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married and have not had sex with my husband or anyone else for months. Last Friday I had sex with my husband and 2 days later I had a white discharge, itchy and sore vagina. Did I get it off my husband? Has he been unfaithful?... (48 words)

My fantasies...

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When I have sex with my husband, I tell him of my fantasy of watching him **** another women. I usually go into detail. I am so into it while we are having sex and if he brought someone into our room at that moment I would let it happen. I also tell him about my fantasies of a ... (121 words)

Would I hurt a girl with the size of my penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 16 years old and I am still a virgin and I want to know... I have a penis a little over 7 inches long and about 5.5 inches in circumference. Is that big and would I hurt a girl by having sex? Thanks... (46 words)

Would you ever go back to an ex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya people, One quick question when a guy says he doesn't go back to his ex, does he mean it even when people say there's a connection between you both? That's what my ex has said to me, but he's gone back to one of his ex's before and it hasn't worked, but I'm different to... (101 words)

Cheating and found out!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been having an affair for about 2 years with a former co-worker (I recently got a new job). He's married with kids, I live with someone. We spoke everyday, multiple times a day, on our way to and from work, sent each other goodnight emails and saw each other whenever ... (229 words)

Guidance needed please...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this may sound really really confusing but I'm just looking for a little guidance. I am female and a senior in high school. Up until this point, I have had no real relationships, which makes me feel almost like something is wrong with me because everyone else I ... (483 words)

Help needed... I'm so screwed up at the moment I feel exhausted.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok me and my ex split in october just gone, he dumped me to go back with the mother of his daughter, anyway that didn't work out, and we started sleeping together like once a week, as like fuck buddies. We still remain friends but, he's now sleeping with these girls he's met ... (318 words)

Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls? I'm in a relationship with this guy and sometimes I'm like 'What a jerk' Either that or has no manners. Ok, I hate, hate, hate it when guys walk in front of me and leave me behind. He does this sometimes. Oh, and the waiter comes to ... (171 words)

It's coming up to our 5 year anniversary and I want to do something nice for my boyfriend, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It's coming up to our 5 year anniversary and I want to do something nice for my boyfriend... Any ideas??? Male and female answers welcome!!... (25 words)

It's really over and now it's hurting so much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up. I'm so hurt. I really fell in love with him. I know I'm young and I never thought I could fall in love this young and share my feelings so strongly with another person but this boy was amazing. We were so close and everything. It was perfect ... (328 words)

My friend and this guy are being total assholes!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I really love this guy and my best friend or I mean who was my best friend is now going out with him and that really fricken hurts me like you would not believe!! But I don't know if he does but I don't think that he really likes her, I think he is just doing it to make me ... (172 words)

My girlfriend's dad is behaving very strangely!

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27 January 2009 (M)

- I'm sure one of my friend's dad fancies another one of my friends. She is 16 and he is 59. Do you think it is normal that a man of his age would say to his daughter he will unground her if her 16 year old girl gives him a hug? Also when is planning to drive us all home he ... (120 words)

Is it ok that when I ejaculate it doesn't shoot? It just kind of "dribbles".

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

- Is it ok that when I ejaculate it doesn't shoot? It just kind of "dribbles". I know that this is definitely not "normal" but does it effect me when I want children?... (32 words)

Can you have a healthy relationship without sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is an awkward thing to be asking strangers, but i don't really know what to do. My Boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years, and man has it been a ride. But we don't have sex. We don't have sex because he doesn't like vagina's, but he isn't attracted to men either. ... (202 words)

Every time my teacher smiles my heart skips a beat

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my teacher, i know what your thinking, but this is seriously the real thing. He is double my age, im 14, and when i'm at school i go out of my way to see him. Everytime he smiles at me my heart skips a beat. He flirts and he told me i was his favourite student. He also ... (133 words)

Dumped? Or he just needs space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi was seeing some for couple dates started shifts sayd hes too busy to see me at the minute etc. Does this mean that i've been dumped or does he just need space and time to adjust?... (37 words)

I broke up with my g/f but its killing me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend and it is killing me but i dont let it show. I didnt want to but i felt like god told me to, and i did. I have suspicions on her cheating on me but ill never know, im hurt by all this, i am sure its for the best. She didnt want to go to prom ... (139 words)

Why do guys expect but don't return the favor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - why do some guys expect blow jobs, but they won't ever go down on the girl? ... (20 words)

How do I break this cycle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My question relates to breaking destructive relationship patterns. I am gay but this is not a gay-specific issue. My typical short-lived relationship begins with my attempting to make everything perfect and impressive. Eventually, say by the third date, my partner will begin to... (198 words)

What was it?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf was fingering me. and while he was this white liquidy stuff came out. but it couldnt have been cum because ive read up about it and it says it should be clear. and it didnt feel 'all that' so what was it? ... (44 words)

What do boys like in a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well its a reallly simple question basicaly what do boys like in a girl or find attractive? even if a girls not amazingly hot... (25 words)

Is my paranoia sabotaging my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right well let me just start with something about myself. I have cripplingly low confidence. Seriously, it is abnormally bad. I am so harsh on myself that it's crazy. I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety and I am on antidepressants to try and help and on a waiting ... (488 words)

Is it legal to marry your first cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Would it be right marrying my first cousin??? We don't want kids but is it still right ... (17 words)

I feel I'm being bullied and I'm in my twenties!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - A guy down the local keeps on starting on me - getting in my face and demanding I do stupid things for him and coming over and interrupting my conversations by taking the piss and he's really threatening. I've never spoken to or seen the guy before but he's friends with most ... (126 words)

What do you think is wrong with me? I feel so run down...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am always extremly tired, I bruise very easily and bleed from my stools and am very moody over the littlest thing lately. This has been happening for a month. Can anyone give me suggestions as to what this might be. Of the top of your head or by searching online. Thanks. ... (52 words)

How can I hint at her to give me a blow job?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I recently started fingering my girlfriend and was just wondering what I could say to get her to start giving me bj's. Weve talked about it lightly and she said she would rather give bj's than handjobs. I kinda think it's fair that she should, seeing as though I'm finge... (78 words)

I can't stop seeing prostitutes...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi agony agony aunts and uncles, I have a problem which is really getting me down. To put it bluntly in the last year I have had sex with more than 20 prostitutes. I have no problem getting women the normal way (one might even call me a player) but despite this and the fac... (533 words)

I don't wanna be seen as coming between best friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am very much in love with my boyfriend however there are a few things which really upset me and I don't know how to approach him on these issues as I don't want to lose him. He would rather go out with a load of people and get drunk on valentines than spend it alone with me... (220 words)

What can I do to make him an offer he can't refuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age - Hi - There's this guy at work that I'm attracted to and he is to me as well. Recently he's been sending non-verbal messages that he wants to have sex with me. I missed the opportunity last week and he seems upset that I didn't "get the message". Now I "get the message" and ... (100 words)

Is there any way that I can prevent myself from falling for him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been the type of girl to fall for a guy pretty easily. The thing is, recently I have been hooking up with one of my best guy friends, who also happens to be my ex who I was in love with. I know that he really liked me, but he never truly fell in love with me the way ... (292 words)

Is he playing me or trying to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a few days now got off work early yesterday and wanted to hang out. But I had to work late. Plus, I had school work. We talked throughout the night. Then, I said let's hang out on Friday...due to my busy work and school schedule. He said, "ok" Later on at... (209 words)

We've been together 2.5 years but now I'm questioning our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2.5 years, and we have had our many ups and downs, but lately I've been questioning my relationship. We live together, have come through many arguments and problems, have lost and regained trust, pretty much anything you can think of, ... (228 words)

Why do I get a bad feeling about this guy? What are the signs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice, Big Time! I just got into a relationship a few days ago. I met this guy thru an online dating site. He told me time and time again, I forget sometimes that I have that profile until I get mail from them. I thought 'Yeah right, I'm 27 not a dummy' Any... (189 words)

Am I wanting too much? too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met the most wonderful guy through a mutual friend, who is intelligent, caring and makes me feel wonderful. He doesnt want to rush anything, and is not ready for a serious relationship, as he had a bad experience last time. This is fine with me, as I am not the type ... (183 words)

I want her back, I know she still loves me! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age - I am 44 and met this lady who is 28 at my sons baseball league. first time we both seen each other from first day we fell for one another.. she was in an unhappy marriage. she fell in love with me and thru our relationship she had gotten divorced.We met in April and started to ... (1627 words)

Am I making a fool out of myself and looking stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice. I recently met a friend of a friend who I am very attracted to. I am just out of a long relationship so I am a little out of practise at the dating game! The first time I met this guy was when I went to a club with my fr... (332 words)

Jykle and Hyde caused by ADD/ADHD

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

27 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some opinions. I'm dating a man that has severe ADD/ADHD. He's a beautiful man inside and out. Here's the problem, he's going to be diagnosed next week with ADD/ADHD (How do we know he has it already?? we are both familiar with the signs as we both have children that ... (191 words)

My ex is acting strangely towards me and I think we need to talk. What should I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - After breaking up three weeks ago, I'm already sick of being the "ex". Me and my ex are at university together, and since we broke up things are completely different. I assumed things would change, but I can't understand why it seems to have changed in such a dramatic way. Be... (188 words)

I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties. Is this ok because I think she suspects something?... (20 words)

Period problems... caused by the morning after pill?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend ended up getting her period yesterday which made us both super relieved but there is a problem, after a while she stopped bleeding and now she's not bleeding for a while. Could this be because of her illness or because of the morning after pill that she took? ... (60 words)

My girlfriend jokes around with friends but then is so quiet with me?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there ive been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we are very much in love. I love her more than anything and she is the most improtant person in my life. Thing is recently she has started becoming grumpy and crabby quite a lot. She has said things to me like I dont ... (369 words)

My gf played spin-the-bottle and kissed 7 people in a night. Now I am confused....

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How would you feel if your girlfriend kissed 7 people in a night ? Well that what my girlfriend did and i feel very bad on that and it was a spinning bottle game and i felt like people who play that just don't pay respect to their selves and right now what she did is just con... (64 words)

My mom thinks of my g/f as a "fatal attraction"

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a girl for 6 months. To full understand this situation perhaps a brief back story is needed. She was involved with one of my friends for a period of time, while they were together he encouraged her o begin becoming friends with me, as he felt that it was ... (519 words)

I'm scared he's going to cheat on me (maybe with a girl?)

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently foundmy perfect boyfriend, and although it doesn't seem long we are celebrating 3 weeks together tomorrow. However pleased I am (as normally people get sick of me by now) I am sometimes worried as I think he is going to dump me at anything, i don't know what to do ... (216 words)

Any romantic ideas for welcoming hubby into bedroom?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im recently married to my wonderful man and im having a great relationship.im a very romantic person and sometimes i feel like im run out of ideas . my husband has a very exhausted job "a journalist and correspondant " and i would like to welcome him home in a very ... (133 words)

Chocolate shop in UK that does engraving for a cake?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need some help for my bf's birthday i want to get his face engraved in chocolate by a professinal.. Howver, i cant seem to find people who do it even though i've searched the net doesanyone know of someone or a chocolate shop that does in the uk? Would really help. Than... (63 words)

I want to let go so we can be friends in the long run

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so my ex (21) and I (22) were trying to do the friend thing. it was difficult because the relationship was brought up frequently (on my part more so). he would keep on telling me how much he loves me, misses me, and wishes he could be with me and have a emotional ... (320 words)

If it werent for our infant daughter I wouldnt even be trying to save this marriage

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Do I stay or go? My wife and I got married in April 2008 principally because she was pregnant - we had a daughter in september. Before we married we both lived in our own houses about 50km apart. After our marriage due to location of work etc I moved in with her. Our marriage... (445 words)

My girlfriend wants to be able to kiss other guys

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I am 19, and my GF is 18. Basically, my girlfriend loves me says I am perfect for her, says she wants to marry me and everything. Prior to this, I guess our lowest point is when she kissed a guy out clubbing drunk (i know no excuse but yea ) I forgave her... (334 words)

Ever since we got caught having sex we argue about stupid stuff

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i'm losing my boyfriend. We met on holiday and i just fell in love with him and ever since then we spend hours on the phone every night and meet up with each other when we can. The last time i saw him we got caught having sex by his mum. Ever since then i feel s... (102 words)

I am considering having an affair with a married man

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've known a guy for about a year through some other male friends, and have never been that bothered with him. Last time I went to see my friends I spent most of the evening with Mr X and we found that we had a similar hobby, exchanged numbers and promised to make contact to ... (601 words)

Do girls like being stared at?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I stare at cute girls practically all the time... do they find it perverse/repulsive or does it make them feel good?... (24 words)

I texted my boyfriend, but he didnt answer

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i texted my bf last night saying whats up but i got no answer. i started to worry like...does he not want to talk to me, is he ignoring me, and stuff like that. Do you think he probably forgot to check his phone or his phone is dead and stuff....Should i not text him back ... (76 words)

How do I impress her without looking like a dork??

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I like a girl at school who is the girl of my dreams and I can't stop thinking about her. She has almost got a boyfriend and they seem to be getting closer and closer. He's got that "killer smile" and I need braces. He's good at soccer/football and I'm not. He's got ... (92 words)

DON'T share your wife with anyone!!!!

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was married with my wife for 3 years we had no children. We went to the doctor but of no use, they said my my sperm was not fertile, my younger sister and I are the only "children" of my family and my mother is dead. My wife suggested we adopt a child but I wanted someone ... (314 words)

I dropped him off at the bus stop and left him stranded with no money.

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Today I made a harshest decision. I dropped my boyfriend off at the taxi rank and he didn't have money for the bus fare. I left him there to find his way. I know it is mean, especially for someone who has zero cents in his pocket. I have been dating him for 2 years now. Six ... (413 words)

Is it fair....? Help with age difference.

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27 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Is there a big difference between 1980 and 1982 in years because I feel big difference. I'll be turning 30 and someone in born 1982 will still be there 20's so is it a big differcne. 30 years old is very depressing and I feel so over the hill. I am scared of turning 30.... (60 words)

I like this guy but we have absolutely nothing in common.

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy but we have absolutely nothing in common. I hate the music he listens to, the books he reads.(all that stuff) and to top it off his friends dont like me. What do I do?... (38 words)

I hate condoms, will mini pill protect me?

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27 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok so i have been with this amazing boy an we have started to have sex .. it has been both of our first time. i hate using condoms and we never use them and i think it feels way better wit out them. i am on the mini pill for period pains and spots and stuff will this protect me ... (62 words)

Date wants to see a scary movie and I don't like them!

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i asked out this guy to the movies and he said yes.but he whats to see a scary movie and i dont like scary movies (i still have nightmares after seeing the ring 5 years ago)but i dont what to tell him that.like ill go see it but i really dont what to so what do i do?... (58 words)

He's got all the traits that should make me run away

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. i'm in love with this guy but he has all the characteristics i should run away from but i cannot help myself...he is arrogant, rude and very uncaring but i love him still. lately he has been ignoring me and not even calling as he used to? i've got pride and i dont want to ... (69 words)

He wasn't able to perform, is that normal?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Ive been seeing this guy for a few weekes now, last weekend he invited me over to his place to cook me dinner..and invited me to stay the night..which i happily accepted..lol Anyway so we hop into bed and talked for a while and then he told me hes not really in the mood to ... (234 words)

He says suggestive things..does he like me?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am confused as to whether a guy likes me or not. we know each other though a friend but suddenly recently he has started talking to me alot more and says suggestive things that make me think he likes me but im not sure?? he has said things like what would life be w... (126 words)

Am I the father?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been seeing an ex and having sex on a pretty casual basis for the last year. She has always been on the pill. I last slept with her on the 1st January. A couple of weeks later she said she couldn't see me anymore as she had met someone she liked. I didn't see her a... (183 words)

A hell of a lot going on here!

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27 January 2009 (M)

age - Dear Agony Aunts, Uncles, and Whoever, Been some time since I was on the blog here and could use some good good advice. If there is any one out there with legel knowledge, please let me know and add your info too. We settled for the apartment we are in so we could help our [... (312 words)

Emotionally isolated and sexually frustrated

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have an embarrassing problem, well maybe two. I'm a guy in my mid 20s and I can't seem to cum unless I am in love with the person I am sleeping with. This wouldn't be a problem but I have not been in love in almost 18 months and since my last long term relationship I s... (119 words)

Was he just drunk? rude? After one thing?

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27 January 2009 (F) - I got chatting to a guy who i am seeing at a school reunion on a social chat network. We got on quite well, just friendly and then started texting, some of it flirty, some of it not. On Friday night on my way home from an evening out he rang me for a chat and we chatted for ... (510 words)

Lovemaking is painful for my girlfriend

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for 4 or 5 months now, we've probably had intercourse 15 - 20 times. She told me today that every time we've done it, she feels pain - she still wants to do it, because sometimes it feels good or she thinks it will when we do, but ... (292 words)

We can't be an item, it'll ruin the band!

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I play in a band and have been involved in music for many years; it is my life and all my energy goes into it. Recently, another bandmate (female) and I (male) have developed feelings for each other; through hanging out, sharing problems, enjoying the same things and being... (142 words)

He's married, so why does he need a girlfriend?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been married to my husband for two years.. but seems like i still don't know who is he.. i found quite several time that he with another girl.. even bring the girl to the house when i'm not arround. i try to forget and forgive. coz i really loves him.. and don't want to ... (316 words)

After 18 months I still think of my ex

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in love with this man, 1st love, you know how you think you've been in love before but then you meet someone and realise you never were? Well this was it. After a while he broke up with me, I was absoloutly heartbroken, couldn't eat, felt physically sick all the time, co... (220 words)

Fantasizing about my girlfriend, me and her best friend

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a awesome relationship. I love my girfriend but lately ive fantasize with having a threesome with her best friends. why? is this normal? finding your girlfriends friends atrActive?... (31 words)

He just doesn't feel like a boyfriend!

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,hope someone out there can give me some advice. I am in a relationship with a man who has been in the British army for 9 years,he is a corporal and is currently training to become an officer at sandhurst. We have been together on and off for about a year and 4 months. ... (545 words)

How can I be happy and stop bringing people around me down??

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm so sad all the time and i don't know how to be happy. I can't think of one thing in life that i want that would make me happy and i'm really worried i'm bringing those around me down too...... (41 words)

I am confused... Please suggest

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old, mother of 2 kids. I met my husband about 8 years ago. He told me he loved me, I didn't feel like that initially but after 1 year, I felt I had met the love of my life. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. Everybody used to say we are th... (353 words)

How to ask him out?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me or if he's single. He says things like "we have so much in common" and jokingly "you're the most exciting person I have ever met" so I don't know if I should ask him out or even how to?... (52 words)

Quick solution for love bites?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Is there any quick solusions to getting rid of love bites any help would be greatly appreciated... (17 words)

Can his problem be fixed or Is it his age?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old women and my boyfriend is 46.my boyfriend was real sexualy active and big.up til about 2yrs ago he has not been so active his penis has gotten small.when we do have sex his penis gets hard for a few minutes then goes limp.what can he do to fix this problem? ... (61 words)

My neighbor thinks I still like her and I don't

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - About a month ago my neighbor found out that I liked her. I have moved on and an completely over her by now. But sadly she still has this crazy notion that I still like her. She has a boyfriend that lives with her, and they constantly talk really loud over the fence. ... (121 words)

After sex does he still want the same thing?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so here's the thing... i've known this guy for about a year now, but we just started "talking" about 6 months ago. and ever since then we have only hungout about 5 times. it was nothing big, no intimate contact was involved just hanging out and talking.he is a freshman in ... (331 words)

Why am I not considered girlfriend material?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every single guy that I have been with treated me badly and I dotn knwo why. Im smart, fun, tall and pretty (people tell me I look like a model) but not like fake tanned blonde bimbos, I harldy wear any make up. Im also interesting to talk to (I think lol) I was born in Europe, ... (124 words)

Should I stay? OR should I go? I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop!

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mom of a 17 year old who's father passed away when he was 3 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend on and off for about 4 years now. I spend most of my free time with both my son and my boyfriend. My boyfriend says I am close to perfect but always seems to ... (615 words)

I'm in a relationship but want to experiment with men--is it wrong?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old male with a crossdressing fetish. I have been interested in crossdressing since childhood, and as i hit puberty, it became much more of a sexual thing. I don't get to enjoy this fetish of mine very often however, due to the fact that I have to keep it ... (330 words)

Can anyone give insight on hormone therapy treatment for prostate cancer?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend who has been diagnosed with Protate cancer (PCa). The cancer has spread to his bones and that has limited his treatment options. He has been placed on Hormone Therapy - which is supposed to halt the cancers progress but will not cure him. I am wondering if ... (115 words)

Why is 1st love so hard to get over?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it always so hard (so fucking hard) to get over my first love?! It’s killing me inside really. Well, not really, but it’s almost equivalent to something eating me from the inside. Is it harder to get over someone you’ve lost your virginity to? I’m just wondering. ... (69 words)

Was what I did wrong?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well my best friend is dating this girl that i really liked and he knew it to. then one day she had enough with him and she wanted a break but she wanted me to tell him that didn't though. so after school me and my best friends ex where alone and idk wat happen. we made out. ... (67 words)

He can't seem to perform and only wants oral sex

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for little over two months now. We have a wonderful relationship overall, but have been facing some issues when it comes to sex. He seems to love (almost prefer) oral sex and we do that the majority of the time. The times we have tried to ... (310 words)

How can I trust again and what is going too far?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently stopped dating this guy, about 4 months ago, we had been together for 2 years. After the relationship ended, he confessed to me that he had been cheating on girls throughout the relationship. I am quite glad that I got out of the relationship. I have a new boyfr... (289 words)

I look at bad pictures on the internet

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some serious help. I'm not sure how to put this so i'll just come out and say it. I look at bad pictures on the internet. I've never meant to start looking at them, it's just there's certain images, and i can't believe what i'm seeing, that i have to get a closer look. ... (178 words)

It really hurts to wear a tampon

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It hurts incredibly bad to put a tampon in. It doesn't feel like normal pain like it hurts really really bad and it seems like it can't go in. It seems like there is something stopping it. I hate using pads and being on my period would be so much easier without them! Is there a ... (87 words)

Why do girls think I am looking at them?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - The problem is every time I am around a girl they always think that I'm looking at them. Now, I don't know if it is just curtain girls being really vain, or if it is something that I am doing to make girls think that I am looking at them. Sometimes I am nice and smile and sa... (270 words)

Missed period has me concerned

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in 8th grade and have had my period since 7th. I've never had a normal week, so i go off last months week. This month we have 5 days left and i still haven't gotten my period. I do have stomach pain and cramps like normal. I have not been having sex, but im very concerned. ... (68 words)

I wish my dream would come true

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is wrong to wish I was going to target every day with friends that are girls and letting them dress me up to look like the best girl I could be? That the dream I have every night and I am a guy. I turly wish it was true is that wrong? ... (59 words)

Should I move on or ask her out again?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I've probably been rejected, albeit gently. There's this girl that I really like. Right now we're pretty good friends with each other. I even gave her a surprise birthday present a while back, and return she made this cute plushie for my birthday as a surprise ba... (197 words)

My boyfriend just joined the Marines, how can I feel better about this new situation?

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27 January 2009 (F)

- My boyfriend of 3.5 years just came home today with big news. He enlisted. He's a Marine. We have been talking about this for about 10 days, but he's been thinking about it for a long time. We're both liberal minded folks, me definitely more of a hippie mindset. He is ... (375 words)

Why did my GF stop while tossing me off to reply to her text message?!

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I was gettin tossed off by my girlfriend other week and about 10 seconds during, she got a text and stopped... Why? We could have perfectly carried on and got down to more.... Maybe she wants to reply to texts more than you know Haha. Anyway... why did she stop and not carry on ... (57 words)

Heaven for the trolls and immature people on the internet? the haters?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why are people so incredibly mean on the internet? I'm just really wondering. I know that people say that they don't have a heart and they are just starring at a pixel or username, but why do those immature brats keep forgetting about the person behind it? like they are so... (111 words)

Should I make her or let her go?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are usually between 6 and 10 adults ... (655 words)

Do I really want to be with her or am I just lonely?

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27 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I started dating someone a while back and we had basically both just come out of long-term relationships. After awhile it was because clear she just wanted something casual, although I had wanted more of a relationship at first. I was OK with the casual ... (391 words)

Why does he never bother to text me back?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age - When my boyfriend and I are apart and I call or send a text message to him he never bothers to reply. Why?... (23 words)

We are all human right, so there isn't a distance to love, love has no bounds, right?

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27 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help. Okay so I have been talking to this brilliant guy he is everything I am looking for in a man. This is all online on a forum not this forum this is the only place I can ask for advice without coming across a weirdo. I have seen pictures of him he's really ... (199 words)