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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I really need your help. I'm 18 and in college. I'm an attractive girl and party a lot. I live in the moment and keep my grades up and everything else is just about being happy and having fun to me. I don't like relationships but I am in love with my ex boyfriend. We were best friends for about two years and we turned romantic about a year ago. We dated for about two straight months of that year. I love him so much. He really cares about me and I know that but he left me for no reason and then didn't talk to me for a couple months then started slowly texting me every week or so. Now he will text me and call and email me non stop every day for a week and then just stop a while later do it again. It kills me every time. For a week good night I miss you and then nothing? and he tells me I'm amazing being with me was amazing it was stupid of him to leave me, he never wants me out of his life he loves me. Lots of things like that. Why does he do that? It kills me. I can't move on. I get other guys but they don't mean anything. Nobody means anything compared to him. I love him so much it hurts so bad and to think of him with another girl, kills me. I tried to walk away from the situation and just cut our losses and not talk any more... twice but he gets so upset and I just can't hurt him, even though he kills me. What do I do? please help.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 I think you should have a serious chat with him and tell him how you feel. You should give him a chance in my opinion to make it up to you. Tell him what you did not like etc...set your conditions with him if you want to get back into a relationship. He should not let you drop all of a sudden if he does it again you should then take your distance and end the relationship. Good luck!
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