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writes: In high school I used to be teased because I was overweight, wore glasses, and quiet. As I went to college I started to go to the gym and is a ripped 200 pound running back. When I came back home from college one of the girls that teased me now wanted me and I turned her I don't date loser and I kissed my current girlfriend from college in front of her and she was upset. Do you think this was mean or well deserved
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reader, huneygyrl  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Right on with losing weight. Congrats!!!
Some situation can be handled better however, I think it was all of a sudden for you. It just happened. Karmas a beotch, isn't it?!
I'm pretty sure you thought of a better way to handled it after it happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): WELL DESERVED! You were teased and you only showed them what they showed to you!
Good job!!!! Damn, good for you, man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): It may have been well deserved, but it was still mean. I understand how high school kids can be very cruel and we do carry that crap around with us for the rest of our lives to some degree. So, I know how you felt and I know how you feel now. But remember...your an adult now and if you believe in karma...then it can come right around and bite you on the ass! You don't have to be mean to them to get satisfaction...the changes you have made in your life should be enough! Get satisfaction from positive things, You will feel better about yourself. If you made the effort to ask this question...you must feel some remorse over it, which tells me you're a good guy!
Congratulations on the weightloss, and good luck with the rest of your life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): this was definitely well-deserved. i was just like you. in high school, no one liked me and i hung out with a lot of hot friends. they always went for my friends. now that i am in college, i dress up and lost some weight as well. my confidence definitely went up as with you. now when the 'popular jocks' that never knew i existed facebook me saying bullshit like, "i always noticed you.." blah blah. my response, "you remember that girl with the glasses that sat next to you in second period where you would copy her work all the time? well, that was me." total burn. keep your confidence, everyone will want you! but you know what, screw them!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 "What goes around comes around" either in one form or another.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (7 January 2009):
 I know it's human nature to do what you did but I think it would have hurt her more if you had been nice and THEN KISSED YOUR GIRLFRIEND! Talk about being DISSED!!
For your question in my opinion it was pretty mean but she as they would say had it comming. Now though you might be viewed just as badly for that as what she ever did to you.
Regain your place in the social settings or you will be looked upon as a jerk by some standards. Although justified it only makes you look bad now.
If you remember that as people grow up they mature more and sometimes become quiet different people. I would say give someone the benefit of doubt and if they show you no change in their views and actions stay clear. If they do show changes as a general rule, everyone DESERVES a SECOND CHANCE. This doesn't mean you have to date them but you should at least try putting the past to rest. Allowing them to make amends and allowing you to FORGIVE
TO ERR IS HUMAN AND TO FORGIVE IS DIVINE!
My best to you in whatever you choose.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): Yeah, she deserved it! CONGRATULATIONS on your weight loss! It's so hard to lose weight when the person is already very heavy to begin with. I say that all that effort gives you rights for revenge against anyone that teased you in the past!
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (6 January 2009):
 I don't know what other posters will say but I say she deserved it. Karma is a bitch. And the nerve of her to ask you out after she made fun of you... wow. Congratulations on the weight loss!
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