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30-35,
*arine2
writes:I need some help. My bf and me have been together now for 2 weeks now.We love eachother very much. I would want to do a move but im so scared.I would love to have the guts! Do you guys have any tips to help me through this?
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reader, ggunit  +, writes (7 January 2009):
you are 13 and dated the guy for 2 weeks, dodgy to want to have sex. apparently the best age to have sex for a woman is in her twenties, she will have much more powerfull orgasms and enjoy sex alot more.
if you have sex when you are only 13, youcan damage your uterus making you not being able to control peeing and even getting discharges that you cannot control. not worth having sex in your teens. plus being emotionally ready for it is another issue.
at 13 - 15 just think about boys in the way of kissing and holding hands. for your age, that should be really exciting. at that age, just holding a girls hand, or talking to a girl i liked was so scary and exciting. it will be a waste if you skip all the steps in between.
if you do have sex with him now at that age, things will just feel weird between the 2 of you, you won't really be able to be together without feeling it.
so if you really like this guy and want to be with him, then just have fun and no need to think about sex.
NOTE: if he says you 2 must have sex to show how much you 2 love eachother.. that is a SCAM. they all say that. even though you might feel that it is true. if you guys really love eachother then neigther of you will mind waiting.
if i really loved a girl, i wouldn't mind waiting 5 years for her. before you have sex, you feel the excitement every single day of being together.
hope it helped
GGunit
i know i focussed on sex, but give more info on what you mean by make a move.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 What kind of move are we talking about? Sex or just kissing? The question is unclear... If sex, then if you are unsure don't do it. But the pleasure each other in other ways is a good idea.
If kissing then just take it slow and steady. No one says you have to rush. At the right moment it'll just happen... Or just grab him and pull him towards you... Yeah. :)
Wishing You The Best.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): Don't even masturbate like that guy said. You're still young, you've got a long time to go before you're anywhere near ready for intimacy. Please wait and you won't regret it. For now, treat your relationship like a friend but with a boy.
25 year old who knows what she's talking about.
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reader, MichaelS2  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Well if you don't have the guts your most likely NOT READY! Just take it slow! If he loves you he will wait! You can always masturbate together or pleasure eachother in other ways.
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