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Turning 30 soon and dreading it...

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Question - (6 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2009)
A female Finland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm turning 30 and feeling old. I have nothing to look forward to. I am scared of turning 30. I really feel so old, unmarried and still living at home.

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A female reader, huneygyrl United States +, writes (7 January 2009):

huneygyrl agony auntYou are not the only person feeling like that. Some are turning 40, 50, 60...and feel the way you feel. I am getting ready to turn 30 with my second child due on Valentines Day. I am also unmarried because I left the relationship because he cheated on me. There were plans of marriage but not anymore. Yeah..it sucks. But check this out, he's getting ready to turn 41, still doesn't know what to do with his life. He's teenage son from his first marriage is getting ready to be a dad. He's not sure if he'll be graduating from high school. Neither is the sons girlfriend. His daughter and son from his first marriage have a learning disability but is in denial about it. He doesn't want his kids to get tested and diagnose with it. I can go on with this.

Where I am going with this is be happy with what you have and where you are at for right now. It can also be worse.

If you're not happy, get up and do something about it. You are the one that needs to make that change if you feel

Do you know where you want to be in life? What are you currently doing with your life now? Are you going to school? Are you working?

Do some major thinking. You are still young.

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A female reader, Nimmie United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2009):

Don't worry I think this happens to all of use! But age is just a number! Its a New Year set a goal for yourself like I will find myself a partner or a house, What do you want most and just little steps to achieve this anything is possible just take little steps to get there. Goodluck!

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A female reader, linzokins United States +, writes (6 January 2009):

age is only a number dont let it get you down. if your felling insecure make a goal for yourself like within the next couple months im going to find a place to live on my own or a new job or making a new friend. i've realized life is short dont fret on the small stuff go balls out and try new things you'll probably be surprised at what you find out about yourself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009):

Age doesn't matter if you are flourishing! Find the most beautiful, sexy, exciting alluring self in you and you will feel ageless.

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