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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend don't have the greatest relationship.. but i wish we did. i really feel very strong feelings for him and i just want to be with him all the time. but stuff bugs me.. i know he likes me a lot and always has but i always think about other girls.. like what if someone comes and messes it up.. i just can't see that happening and i don't want it to.. i just wish everything was perfect with our relationship. we also fight a lot.. over the littlest things. and sometimes i just want to end it but i think about it and i can't imagine him with another girl.. i just wanna be his forever. i've broken up with him before then we disliked each other but this time that we're going out my feelings are so much stronger. i honestly never felt like this before.. i feel so good when i'm with him and especially when we're holding hands/hugging/kissing/holding each other. sometimes i feel like i like him way too much and i need to calm it down a bit. we tell each other we love each other.. but sometimes i just feel like he doesn't.. i feel like i like him so much more and i hate that. i don't know if i'm wasting my time or what but can somebody help me? am i insecure or what?
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reader, anna*belle  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 First of all, not relationship is perfect, and everyone feels at some point that there are things bugging them about their partner, that's just the way it is. It's normal to be worried about if another girl interfers with your relationship, but until you actually experience that someone is trying something with your boyfriend, don't think about it. It's easy said I know, but try thinking of the good times.
About the fighting, well if it's just small issues like you said, before losing your temper and starting a fight, just stop for a moment and think to yourself if this is something you really think is worth fighting over? Most of the time it isn't and things get said in the heat of the moment, so you can also just take a moment where you don't talk to your boyfriend and think it over. Less fighting will automatickly make your relationship better.
Hope this helps
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