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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2009 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my BF got into an argument.. he got really angry and started saying horrible things to me.. he said I am always whining and..(f*king about with other guys).. he said I am not having sex with him so someone else must be getting since he ain't getting it.. I asked him why ... (275 words)

Would I ever find love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What am I doing wrong.....? How many times did you get your heart broken before you found the right guy your with? I've been hurt by 4 guys now and dont think I can take it any more.. I am a nice girl.. am not clingy or needy.. I give guys their space and am very caring..... (98 words)

Looking for a light at the end of the tunnel...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been single for a while now and I'm quite sick of people flaunting their boyfriends around in front of me. I'm fine with being by myself. I love who I am and don't have a care in the world, but my friends are so annoying when that's all they think/talk about. I recently ... (114 words)

Is love enough...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is love enough? I had been waiting to go out with this guy for ages, he was my best friend! but recently we seem to have nothing to talk about, we used to be on IM and the phone all the time talking , but recently we don't talk and when we do talk its in dissagreement! ... (506 words)

I'm going crazy thinking about her, and want to call her, but I don't want to invade her privacy, because I know she wants space

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically they broke up but she's still not over him they never had closure in their realtionship, now I have jumped in the picture and she really does like me and wants it to work out, but now she realizes she catn ignore the lover of her ex, and conintuew with me in a ... (156 words)

I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok... I'm back again, I have forgave her for sleeping with my friends who are not around any more. I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this. We might not have been together when she done this, but if your not together then dont go and tell the person you ... (92 words)

Should I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and have just broken up. The main problem in our relationship was that we never had time for eachother because of our demanding jobs. He got a relationship with someone at work, and that was when we broke up. We didn´t exactly part ways as friends, and he made ... (170 words)

I constantly want to be with him and talking to him when before I would get sick of him and feel smothered...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy have been dating on and off since may of 08. We have dated a total of 3 times, once in mmay, once in september and we are dating now. Both times i was the one to break things off and for different rteason each time. The first time it was becasue i didnt think ... (451 words)

Is it too soon to contact her? I'm not at all the needy type, but have these butterflies in my stomach since the kiss

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had my second date with a girl I really like last night. We also shared our first kiss, which makes me feel like a kid in high school again. I can't get her off my mind. She sent me a text after I dropped her off saying that she enjoyed the night, which I responded with I ... (138 words)

If I happen to see him there should I say anything to him?, and what if I'm his intern?, how should I act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I feel really dumb writing this but here goes, I used to have this massive teacher crush. I actually think I loved him, and we had this unspoken bond. My friends used to tell me that they saw him staring at me. We couldn't even say each others name, too weird. Although I may ... (162 words)

How can I build a friendly relationship with him without seeming like I'm flirting with him?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm attracted to this guy who has a girlfriend, but I'm all right with simply being friends. How can I build a friendly relationship with him without seeming like I'm flirting with him of whatever?... (35 words)

Why do I feel like CRAP after finding out an old friend is in Playboy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, this is probably kind of a stupid situation, but I just found out a girl I went to high school with and was friends with is on the cover of the new Playboy lingerie magazine. Ever since I found this out (it was just yesterday) I have felt so shitty about myself and ... (573 words)

I have to ask to have sex and when I do he goes off saying he doesn't need me pressuring him or wanting sex on demand.

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love sex a lot, everyday if possible! but I wonder what I've done so wrong to get none at all. My husband and I used to have sex daily and for months, now it's like he's lost intrest in me. He doesn't tell me I'm beautiful any more, he doesn't whisper to me I want you. ... (170 words)

I feel like I deserve being treated like this "no love just sex" coz I have no good qualities.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was abused as a child and every relationship I had after that was purely the men wanting to have sex and once they did they dumped me in the worst possible way. Now I'm dating someone who has never satisfied me during sex and he only wants to see me if he gets sex. There is ... (119 words)

Her period isn't due for another 5 days, can she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time on Saturday. We used a condom and were really safe. I did'nt even cum. Now my girlfriend has cramps and her period is'nt due for another 5 days. Can she be pregnant?... (44 words)

Losing the friendship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age - Me and this guy named Joey used to be realy good friends then we stopped and so now we finally started talking again a little and I brought it up with him that I wanted to be good friends again because I missed being good friends. He said okay, sounds good and stuff but then I ... (142 words)

And oh, the kids and all the crappy divorce war, I just don't know how to go on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) age - How long can a marriage hold on? Do most marriages fail? I keep reading over and over again too many miserable stories and mine is on the rocks too, after 25 years. I have an unloving, gloomy husband... No affection. I'm so scared, I feel I should just get out and get a life. ... (179 words)

What should I do about this mystery caller?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hallo, i think u can help. I am a single guy of 19. Um so shy n introvert. Had never been in a relationship before. Well da thing is for last two weeks i ve been getting friendship texts n miss calls from an unknown number. I did never reply cause i cant deal good wid things ... (185 words)

Do his feelings run deeper than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 and since I was 14 I've had it rough. I was diagnosed with a medical condition that is incurable (non-contagous) and I decided that I had to accept the condition myself before expecting someone else to accept it as well. Therfore I have never dated and up until New Years ... (799 words)

I always text him first, does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, okay..theres this guy...liked him for agggges, and Im pretty sure he might know (i may have drunk txt him a few times-not admitting it, but surely he'd question why i was texting him?) and also..when we text...its always me that texts him first he's real quiet and s... (130 words)

Why didn't he just invite me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy invited me and my daughter to come over and hang at the pool. I told him my little one was in school he just said "ok"...why didn't he just invite me at that point? Weird? ... (37 words)

I want to comfort my ex, but don't know how to go about this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend (of 6 yrs, we split up 3 years ago)just called me from the hospice to tell me his mother has just passed away. I was so close to her and am so upset. He gave a message to my brother the other day asking if i wanted to go and see her as she only had a few weeks ... (173 words)

Why am I always falling for "taken" guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that the guys I like either already have girlfriends or get them as soon as I realise I like them? Is there something wrong with me?... (29 words)

I need an attack plan for this break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My and girlfriend are on a break, how do i give her space? SO basically she really wants to be with me and likes me but right now she didnt get over her ex before we initated this realtionship so right now she said she catn get over him because she then feels pressure by me so... (170 words)

Moving on after teenage heartbreak

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i weren't together for long, but i cared for him deeply.i was naive to the fact that he had played girls before, and he said the sweetest things. i noticed a couple of days after we began dating that he was becoming uncomfortable around me. he said he didnt... (233 words)

Can we make it work when we can't see each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a good 5 months now. Recently he got kicked out of the house by the lady he was staying with which was supposed to be his mother that took him in to help him make a better life. Well being that his real adoptive family lives in Lake ... (176 words)

Am I his girl or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a man for the past 4 months... We usually spend time at his place. We eat together, and cook sometimes,watch movies,t.v., talk and spend quiet time. We are intimate, and have amazing sex. We truly enjoy each others company I believe. We spent Christmas a... (419 words)

My husband is very irresponsible

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married for a year now. Our marriage was against my husband's parents wishes. We fought even while we were dating but after our marriage its gotten worse. My husband is a very irresponsible man. I literally run the house. He always ends up putting us in a ... (164 words)

Fear of commitment?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I think i have a fear of commitment. I am currently with a man, and have been on and off for the past 4 years, however there is another man whom i am very attracted to, and am tempted to try a relatinship with. I do feel i have a lot to lose in giving this a go... (130 words)

Living in the past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can i move on in my relationship, when i still think of an ex all the time, i feel like im living in the past.. ive been with my current partner for 4 years, everything is good..but every so on i will go back and think of an ex of my nearly 9 years ago, i believe i l... (100 words)

Why does my husband spend so much money on the family? We can't afford it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband spends too much money on his kids and grandkids. How can I get him to stop? Our finances (along with most everyone else's) have took a severe hit this year. We cannot afford it! I've tried to explain this to him and at the time of our talk, he seems to understand ... (380 words)

Why are guys so quick to start talking about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Dear Cupiters! I'm wondering why this is happening.. I talk to guys just fine. But when they start to mention sex a lot in the conversation, I make it clear that I'm not an easy gal! And this happens when we're just getting to know each other.. So, I'm thinking "geez take ... (208 words)

View on helping grown children with post secondary education

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) age - I was wondering , what is the general attitude about helping a grown child in post secondary education? I have 3 children ,and they all waiting for us to pay for their education. I see it in other families, that kids take student loan,and working. Is it better , when kid... (127 words)

He's sweet but sucks in bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for the last few months and we started having a sex just before Christmas. He is a really sweet guy and I get on with him so well. But there's a but. He's crap in bed, and I mean that in the nicest possible way, but its really bad. At first I thought ... (132 words)

Is it wrong that I like to "tease" guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really like to hook up with boys any more but I like to have fun and the attention they give me. At parties, I dance and flirt with guys all the time and they think they will have sex with me but I don't even give them a kiss. Is it wrong to lead on and tease boys like ... (66 words)

Problematic friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I had this funny curious episode. A guy added me on facebook. As a rule I don't accept friend request from strangers and he was not my type but I chatted a bit and I liked him. Then after reading his profile and finding him to be a regular guy I accepted his request in ... (494 words)

EX Factor problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I know that this may sound strange, I've gotten what I wanted but am afraid it will have the opposite affect? Now that we are getting over the fact that he emotionally cheated with his ex girlfriend, one of the boundaries I set was that he must have no more con... (116 words)

Should I stay with my new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - First off, I have a daughter with girl 1, she's my ex now for 2-3 years. At first things were good then the baby came, I understand that she needs some time but after a year she was really slacking on us, so I became lonely being with her, I tried talking about how I felt like ... (191 words)

Activity day...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys (: I was just wondering what kind of activity days you could think of for my boyfriend for our year anniversary? Thanks in advance (: x... (31 words)

If you stop masturbating for too long can it hurt you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and I am sick of always having sex with him, sometimes if were just laying there watching a movie its all he can think about and I don't wanna be mean and then I feel bad when I say no so usually i give in..*tst tst, ... (202 words)

She really is an incredible girl despite a few "quirks" but I don't "want" to end it by being confrontational.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I could really use some advice. I'm seeing a girl, a very incredible girl who's almost changed my life. I'll admit it is an open relationship, but we've always been honest with each other. So naturally, we've developed a great amount of trust. And the one thing she has ... (466 words)

Do I tell him? I cheated 6 months ago!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off. i'm 18.the thing is...i cheated on him about 6 months ago when on holiday. and really dont know whether to tell him. it wont happen again for sure, im not sure why i did it to be honest because i love him so much.nothing ... (118 words)

I don't want to throw away 20 months of my life, but should I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had a long discussion the other day. He said he felt empty with life and that he hates his life at the moment. He says he doesnt like living a black and white life and doesnt feel like he has control over his life. He then look me in the face and says he ... (439 words)

Has anyone else noticed an change in eye colour when horny?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of weird question, but my boyfriend's eyes turn from a light blue to a deep green when he's horny. It's a real turn on but just wondering whether anyone else has experienced this? :) He's not realised this change until I pointed it out but it's a real drastic ... (60 words)

Need help for a virgin relationship with no sex, and very little foreplay.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, story time. My girlfriend on I have been dating since high school for 4 years now. We were both raised highly on morals and have remained virgins throughout these 4 years. BUT, we do manage to play around and have fun, but it's gotten really old on her part and she is ... (416 words)

How do I scare him-I'm NOT a doormat!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - in the time that i've been with my boyfriend which is nine months, he's cheated on me three times (only kissing) twice with the same girl, i've forgiven him obviously, not easily but he's still gone and done it again, he doean't think about the consequences of his actions and ... (263 words)

My husband's ex charges her children when she does things for them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband's ex-wife charges her adult children to do things for them. For instance, she takes one of the grandchildren to school each morning and they must pay her to do so. She also buys things for them and expects to be reimbursed. Her gifts for them are always "cheap". ... (161 words)

At what age do you stretch your foreskin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i m 18 years old i dont know whether to streach my foreskin or not? at what age should i pull my foreskin... (23 words)

I spy on my mother and think I'm going to advance on her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I know this probably isn't normal behaviour so I am hoping someone will assure me it is fairly common. See, although I have a girlfriend and have had a few girlfriends down the years, I cant help feeling sexually attracted to my mother. Every opportunity I can, I spy on her in ... (160 words)

Do older women have bad smells "down there"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age - Hi, I was wondering if someone could help with this possibly strange question: I am late 40s, divorced 8 years and have had a string of affairs with ladies of all ages since. Now, for the most part, women my age and younger, have little or no vaginal smell. However, I have had ... (114 words)

Is love enough if you're opposing magnets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

Could she be pregnant with twins?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 22 years old i live with my partner who i have been with for 5 years we have a lovely little girl who is 2 n half and a lovely set of twins boy and girl who are 5 months old. well she is pregnant again and we are over the moon cant wait im going to be a daddy again lol. ... (245 words)

Is he worth taking a risk for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 21 years - two children 17 and 19 - one at university , one at home, Husband is good provider , lovely man but we don't talk, not had sex for months , just can't seem to say two words to each other without one of us snapping. Have tried to get him to go ... (158 words)

Not sure what these feelings mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm confused. I've dated a few guys but never felt an actual attraction to any of them. I tried dating a girl once and I thought I felt something, but I just figured that it was more the desire to be with someone than an actual attraction to her. Since then, I've ... (346 words)

Why do I still want contact with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very unhappy in my marriage of 14 years and have three gorgeous children. I recently met another man who is in the same position as me married with three kids... do u think I should break it off with him as he wants just sex and i need some emotional attachment too... we ... (120 words)

Does anyone else put up with this kind of treatment from b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - do any one out there put up with what i have been doing for the past year and half my boyfriend of six years wont move back in with me and my daughter he lives with his mother he works as a taxi driver and dont take time off to take me out we meet up once a week on a sunday go ... (169 words)

I'm facing the life of an old maid now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - life as old maid facing into now .never had boyfriend not once not even kissed once either. the most of the guys i have ever liked wasn,t in me 70% and other were30% were taken. any thoughts... (39 words)

Is my wife lazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have met my wife in 2003 and we got engaged in 2005 and married in 2008. When we first met she had a very bad temper and she was verbally abusive, but she would cry and apologise soon after we argue. I tried all my best to help her and things got better but never... (363 words)

He doesn't believe that I am a virgin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a girl of 23 years old. i never have sex before one day i was with my boy friend kissing each other he now then put his finger inside my vergina and told be look you are not a virgin why are u lieing to i started crying because i really know that i never have any ... (98 words)

Does anyone understand this dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I HAD A DREAM THAT MY HUSBAND AND I WERE AT A STORE AND THIS GIRL AND HIS PARTNER PASSED BY AND AS HER PARTNER WONDER AROUND, MY HUSBAND AND HER WERE FLIRTING AND THE HE ASKED ME IF HE COULD HAVE SEX WITH HER AS THEY WERE GETTING NUDE AND HE WAS GETTING ON TOP OF HIM. WHAT DOES ... (62 words)

How do I stop being nervous around guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i was woundering how do i relax arounds guys if a guy touched me i go weak in the kness and get nevervous and tense up.the last time i was in nightclub a guy had his arms around my waist and i felt very nervous and shy.i was weak in the kness.the guy told to me relax and i ... (118 words)

I'm dating my g/f and her best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - since xmas i have been seeing my girlfriends best friend behind her back. it started as sex but its started developing into more - we hang out all the time (without anythin happening) i love my girlfriend but she is really possesive and paranoid (long before she had a reason... (130 words)

My b/f says he has never felt a connection with anyone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

14 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I need help. My boyfriend recently informed me that he has never felt a connection with anyone - including his family. I have been with him for almost five years and I feel terrible that he should feel this way. This lack of connection also includes myself. :( I have sh... (357 words)

I don't know what our status is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a man on the internet and originally it was just for slightly kinky sex which neither of us had tried before, this didn't really get started as we soon were contacting each other daily and seeing each other weekly.over the past 2 months, and I always let him contact me ... (289 words)

Why does my b/f let his ex control him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I will give you abit of background and then ask my question at the end; My boyfriend 32yrs and myself 28yrs have been together for 1.5yrs (we dont live together). We both have daughters, my child 9yrs lives with me (lone parent since my daughter was born, father doesnt wa... (414 words)

What must I do to keep him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm a gay guy, aged 23 and i fell in love with this guy, aged 36. i really, genuinely love this guy and would do anything for him. however, he is the type that looks around, not only to other guys but women also. last weekend he broke up with me and i was shattered, i tried ... (111 words)

How many people go back to their first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age - I am really curious to find out how many people go back to their first love/ X friend after many years of separation and are really 1.truely happy with this decision. 2. Live without fear of rejection 3. Start the affair all over again because they are unhappy with a curre... (216 words)

Anyone had a relationship with a chatmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi , i met this female on a social networking site. it has been almost 2 years we have been talking on the phone.we do like each other a lot and she has also said that to me a lot of times.the only thing is because of our college schedules we have not been able to meet up ... (115 words)

Should I stay with my b/f or go for the other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guyz,my case is, i have been in a relationship for a year 6 months, i loved ths guy alot but he things are sometimes not good between us,he lied to me about somethings but i stood by him after he explained his reasons and never did it again. we leave in diferent towns but ... (327 words)

Best way to keep a man's interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is it that men will call you at first every day and then miss a day and you don't hear from them? Are they just busy or does that mean they aren't that into you? Should I call or send a text? What is the best thing to do to keep their interest?... (54 words)

He says he doesn't want to be with me but acts weird

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew that .... over course of our ... (387 words)

Anyone had sex on a first date that turned into a relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

14 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I just wanted to know if anyone has ever had sex with a guy on a first date and it turned into a relationship? Men and Women please both answer. Thank you.... (32 words)

We have a son, but he acts like a child himself!

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I have a big problem; I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. I got pregnant only 3months after we met. At first things were fine but soon they started to change, he is only a few years older then me (26yrs old) but he acts lik... (254 words)

Caught between ex boyfriend and old ex

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I desperately need help, I am caught in the middle between my ex and my ex ex boyfriend. I don’t see any way out. I need some advice please from as many of you as can spare me the time. I posted on here end of November as I was with a boyfriend at the time and happy, but then... (550 words)

We want to marry, he's muslim & his family is against the marriage

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 and I am in love with a Muslim guy(I am not). We were classmates in University and have been friends ever since. We are very serious about each other and plan to get married. However, his family is conservative and is dead against marrying outside their community. My ... (133 words)

He treated me as a doormat, broke up, now I wonder if I did the right thing?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i have been going out with my partner for six years we have a four yr old child a year and a half ago we had a arguement because i wanted to do things as a famaily cause we never done anything it was always just me and my daughter,so i asked him to leave in temper not ... (237 words)

How can I convince her the trouble is only for short time?

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - we have been dating for the last one year. this relationship has had its own valleys and hills. the girl is a secondary school dame and i an in my final year in college. sometimes back, i had been posted to a town far away and our meeting was lessened. on one occasion a lass at ... (181 words)

Try again?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 9 months, we where very much in love and he asked me to leave college so we could be together. I took a year out and came home to be with him. Within a week of being home he ended it. He said he didn't love me and promised ... (223 words)

Valentines Gift Idea...

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, I know its fairly early to be thinking about gifts for valentines day but I'd like some of your opinions with regards to my gift idea.. Its mine and my boyfriend's first Valentines Day together and I really want to get him something different, which none of his ex's h... (152 words)

Choices choices choices...

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guyz, My case is, I have been in a relationship for a year 6 months, I loved ths guy a lot but things are sometimes not good between us, he lied to me about some things but I stood by him after he explained his reasons and never did it again. We live in diferent towns but ... (351 words)

I thought I could move on but I can't... I'm still in love with my ex.

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Rite here goes. I've been split up from my ex for over a year and a half now. We were together for 2 and a half years but have remained friends. But now he has a girlfriend and won't talk to me. I am also with someone. But to be honest I have never really gotten over my e... (181 words)

I'm worried about my g/f & I at the university

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 2 years now, we are both on our way to university this year although i'm really worried about it. I do really love this girl, but whenever were both out say at a pub or a nightclub we always fight, the main reason for that is ... (141 words)

She keeps saying she loves me but then goes back to the ex

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I am really stuck and would really appreciate some help. I am in a really tricky situation with a girl who I work with. We were both in long term relationships and got together around 7 months ago both leaving partners after we cheated on them. When we first got tog... (312 words)

I'm with my fiance in a scary living situation

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14 January 2009 (?) - Please help, Me and my fiance have been together 3 years and have got a house/mortgage last May. The main reason we got the house was that I was unhappy where I was living. I was renting a property near to my University where I am studying. Our relationship has always be... (318 words)

Should I try or is it in vain?

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Since the other night she has come to me asking to move back in and now wants to take time to see how things can go. I understand things will be different for awhile from what happened. I dont think anyone would be able to excuss there partner grabbing someones grion in publi... (169 words)

B/f still good friends with his ex

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im so confused and dont know what to do... my boyfriend is still friends with his ex and this is killing me and affecting our relationship. i started dateing my boyfriend 6 months ago, and its the first serious relationship iv had. when we started dating i didnt mind as i... (443 words)

My b/f brags about girls to see if I'm jealous

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14 January 2009 (F)

- How do I know if my bf is just trying to be honest with me, or if hes really bragging and trying to make me jealous? My bf constantly tells me about all these girls who are flirting with him, trying to hook up with him, making moves on him, wanting to have sex with him, be... (404 words)

I have a new girlfriend who is a virgin, how do I know she is ready for me?

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have A girlfriend who is a virgin. Shes 6 years younger than me. We've been going out now for about a month and I like her a lot. She plays with me and stuff but she's kinda shy when it comes to me playing with her(By that I mean fingering her) I Know she obviously likes me ... (133 words)

What to do now. Where do I go from here.......???

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend for a year and a half had a great relationship. We had dated most of our junior year and all our senior year in high school. We had talked about splitting up only because we were going to our respective colleges and we thought it would be best. After a few ... (334 words)

Am I just being too clingy in my head? Is this normal?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am trying not to be clingy and so far so good. I have been with him for about 9 months. What I don't get are two things. The first thing is we have not had that relationship discussion yet I have heard him call me "my girl" on the phone... What does that mean? 2nd thing is... (189 words)

I wonder if it's possible to be pregnant and still kind of get your period?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder if it's possible to be pregnant and still kind of get your period. I had sex with my ex boyfriend on Dec 15th. The very next day I felt nauseated, the day after that I felt nauseated and had sore breasts, then I got a cold so the symptoms are all mixed up. I was ... (147 words)

I don't want to hurt one girl and the other not talk to me...

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I recently met these two girls Sam and Sky, when we first met I hit it off with Sam really well but now when the 3 of us are together I get mixed signals. One minute Sam is flirting with me and the next day Sky is, I'm 16 and get really nervous around girls, I don't know ... (125 words)

My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex!

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend loves me but he still loves his psycho ex! I don't know how to get rid of her. What should I do? My boyfriend doesn't want to give up one of us, he doesn't even want me to give up on him but how can I get him give up his ex?... (57 words)

Is there a connection between yoga and sexual satisfaction? How can yoga help improve your sex life?

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14 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Yoga is good for you, has health benefits and it can make you feel better. Is there a connection between yoga and sexual satisfaction? How can yoga help improve your sex life? Any advice for making yoga seductive? Any advice for using yoga as a part of sex? What yoga m... (78 words)

My girlfriend wants me to see/date/sleep with other girls.

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend wants me to see/date/sleep with other girls. She says she wants me to be sure that I want to be with her, and that she doesn't want to restrict me or drive me away by being jealous or possessive. I love her and want to be with her forever. I dated a lot of girls ... (152 words)

Can someone truly be forgiven?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a one night stand while in a relationship. It wasn't planned and in no way could be considered an emotional betrayal. The following morning, having realized what I had done and what I stood to lose, I confessed. Fortunately for me, my boyfriend said he forgave me and ... (150 words)

Poll question: What is the YOUNGEST age you think two people should get engaged?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a poll question of sorts... What is the YOUNGEST age you think two people should get engaged? (ie. 19, 20, 25 etc) And how long do you think you should have been with your significant other before you get engaged? (ie. 1 year, 2 years, etc) And what is the LONGEST y... (136 words)

How can I get what I want even though I'm clueless and guys don't have the you know what to come and talk to me themselves?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't get it. All my friends say that guys are always staring at me and that some say I'm pretty and what not. Yet, I'm single. Not that I'm desperate to have a boyfriend but it comes to the point that you envy those who have the relationship you want. It would be nice to ... (85 words)

He said that he'd been thinking for a few months about dating other people... I'm in shock!

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. We were high school sweethearts, and I was his first. We've also been living together almost the entire time, and now go to college together. To me, our relationship has been a life-affirming journey. We've be... (526 words)

Stoned, raped and now pregnant...

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a weird question. I was partying with a guy a while back and we preceded to get very stoned with a joint he had. I was pretty tired but he wanted to party. He started to kiss me and I said I had a boyfriend. He kept on till I slapped the shit out of him, so then he ... (218 words)

I want my girlfriend to drop some weight.

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 my girl is 18. I'm feeling like I'm starting to fall for her but she is starting to get on the overweight side. I still feel attracted to her but I want her to be healthy. I have told her that I love her how she is but the weight is starting to get in the way a little. ... (71 words)

BBW needs Fashion Tips!

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a BBW and I'm stuggling with fashion and since of style. It all started some years back when I was 19-20 years old. I put on 100+ Lbs within months. I was going through my first family death and I lost my job all in the same week. SO I went on depressed mode, and foun... (207 words)

I am a high school student and I watch gay porn.

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a high school student and I watch gay porn. 85% of my porn watching is of gay porn and the rest is of gay and straight. I have a girlfriend whom I love very much but I am still attracted to men. What's wrong with me???... (48 words)

I've had this on-again off-again physical relationship with this guy since I first met him...

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had this on-again off-again physical relationship with this guy since I first met him at the beginning of the fall semester. It's a friends with benefits sort of situation. He's gotten a steady girlfriend during the time we've been together and I've been the "just friend" ... (118 words)

Parental dilemma!

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14 January 2009 (F) age - I have a parental dilemma about, using information, about "bad signs through facebook." I have access to my daughter's account, and I see alarming conversations. About drinking sex, and many very inappropriate behaviour, I don't ever hear from her. I know now, that she is in tr... (125 words)

I just hate single life and I want to get over my ex as soon as possible...

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands...and it has everything to do with my heart and mind. My ex and I broke up just over a month ago after a two year relationship and I still feel so angry and hurt about what he did (he cheated on me). I'm definitely not letting it interfere ... (249 words)

While having sex it felt like I had to pee?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex for the first time recently. At first it was painful but after a while it became incredibly good. The feeling was so strange. It was as if I wanted to pee. ( actually i didn't and there was no urine). but the feeling was such. It was a strange but a very intense good ... (78 words)

She doesn't want to be pressured

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so bascially we started to go out about 2 months ago the first couple weeks were great but then she started to act weird, and this was because she felt we rushed into are realtionship, she said shes not over her ex ( of 3 years) they broke up in summer and she needs to ... (287 words)

Fitness advice for thighs

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Fitness question! I'm currently a student having a bit of a fight with the fat on my thighs. I love my body everywhere else and am worried if I start trying o loose lots of weight, I'll loose weight form the parts of my body I'm already happy with. My friend suggested ... (72 words)

Sis doesn't like my boyfriend, how do I get her off my case

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14 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My sister doesn't like my boyfriend because he's three years older then me (hes 17 my sister's age and I'm 14). she says he all wants is to get in my pants and yet she's with a 23 year old. Honestly I don't think he'll ever pressure me to do anything I wouldn't want to do cause ... (99 words)

I'm 14 and think I have cancer

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help!! I need some reassurance. I'm afraid that i might have cancer. I know i'm only 14, but i heard that you can get cancer at any age and i'm terrified of getting it. In health class at school, we watched a video on self examing, and it taught us how to do it, well, before... (313 words)

Husband had an affair!

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out my husband of 3 years had an affair with his colleague. They even had sex. He promised to change but i do not how to forget and forgive him. I wanted to leave him but i have no heart to see my only daughter grow up in a broken family. She is only 1 year plus. ... (70 words)

Why hasn't he popped the questions

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for about 21/2 years. He talks about our future alot, but he has never popped the question! what is the hold up? Should I ask where our relationship is going?... (38 words)

My g/f is becoming distant

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 2 years her grandmother passed away this past friday. Since then I have told her I'm behind her for anything and I'm here to talk if she needs to. my girlfriend doesn't really like to share her emotions and feelings she deals with it by herself, she's been like ... (197 words)

I have doubts about my g/f

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'v been with this girl for 3months yesterday but yet i still seem to have doubts about her i always feel like she lies to me even tho she says she dosnt i love her i think and i dont want to get hurt but most the time i have to ring her i have to text her its me al... (251 words)

Is she prego?

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, my girlfreind might be pregnant, shes really worried bout it. and now her pants are getting tighter and that worried her more. I think its just extra fluf from the holydays. but shes really worried nad doesn't want to get a test. so how long would it take for her to ... (58 words)

I think about her all the time

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14 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just want to know if I'm the only guy like this. I'd ask my male buddies, but they'd give me a hard time about the whole thing. I am 29-years-old, and I have been dating this girl(also 29) for 11 months. I am completely nuts about her. Although I know she can't be per... (258 words)

Mixed signals after the first date

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I've been best friends with this guy for a little over a year now and the moment I saw him, I knew he was the one. We started talking in class and then eventually online and the phone. Then we started hanging out more and more. It was like I was the only one ... (218 words)

When I go pee goop comes out

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so on September 25th, 2008 i had sex with one of my friends. He had a girlfriend and we still had sex anyway. ( i now dumb move, dont tell me about it.) he wanted to have sex with me because he was a virgin and so was i and he didnt want to suck so horribly for his ... (239 words)

Caught between duty and heart

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ah the drama... The unavoidable drama. I've been best friends with this guy sense kindergarden. we moved apart for a while and finally came in contact last year. now i haven't been datting anyone for a while because im waiting for a VERY gentlemanly guy who can act with the... (145 words)

I'm attracted to a guy who has a g/f

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm attracted to this guy, but he's currently off-limits (ie has a girlfriend). what can i do? can i start building any kind of a relationship now? please help!... (29 words)

Period now late by 10 days

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to ask a question about pregnacy again; i really need help well its been almost 3 weeks since i been done sex we used a condom tho but still and i suppose to have my period few days ago and i missed it already for 10 days and im really scared soo i took the pregnancy ... (116 words)

He lost it during oral

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for about three months now. We haven't had sex yet but we've fooled around and stuff. He's given me oral and i do him, every time i've given him head he has always ejaculated. So anyway the other night, we were fooling around and he went down on me, ... (159 words)

What constitutes a stalker?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What qualifies someone as a stalker? Is it considered stalking if the person in question continues to try to contact you, even after you have left the country to avoid them?... (31 words)

When people have relationships in their 20's do they last?

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i saw my cousin over the weekend (he's 24 or 26 or something) and his girlfriend is about the same age. she's a tad annoying, but nice, and he seems to like her. anyway, when people in their 20s form relationships do they usually last? any advice? experience? thanks! ... (54 words)

I asked my b/f for naked photo, he sent and now wants one from me

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i asked my boyfriend for a picture of him naked, but i didnt think he would do it, yet he sent it to me!!! and when i saw it, i felt like i had a porn star boyfriend, lol. and he told me he would want a pic of me naked, but i wasnt likeing the idea, he he told me not to worry ... (89 words)

I don't know who I am anymore

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14 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the title pretty much explains it all. i used to feel like a big fish in a little pond. that i had big things in store for me. i still feel that way, but i feel like its not going to happen. i literally dont know who i am. i used to be, crazy, imaginative, outgoing, co... (172 words)