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writes:Hello, i've known this guy now for around 1 year. we only ever say hi because we just see eachother when some of our friends talk to eachother. he is a bit of a "player". we both got drunk two nights ago and ended up kissing but i stopped it. now i cant stop thinking about him and when we see eachother at school its just a quick smile. not sure if he likes me..probably not because he will probably have someone new by next week just need some advice on what to do because i keep thinking about him.thanks
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reader, kliciouss +, writes (7 January 2009):
 you are definitely at the age of random hook-ups. don't stress over one guy. he is a player and he will sure have kissed way more girls. since its only a quick smile at school, he defintely only sees it as a random hook-up just trying to not make it awkward. if you really want to pursue him (bad idea but i am just saying), ignore him. if he has the least bit of liking you, he WILL be worried. then play hard to get. take it as a test to test him. if you ignore him and he doesn't care, forget about it. he is not relationship material. if you still like him, then just see it as a hook-up because thats what he sees it as. you can just hook up with him, nothing more. don't let him have you so easily though. once you become a hook-up, always a hook-up unless you mess with his mind. i hook-up with this guy and ended up being with him. but guess what, once a player always a player. once we broke up, he had a new girl right away.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 January 2009):
 If he's a player, then he's not afraid to make a move. If he hasn't by now, forget about him. If you really like him, then DEFINITELY forget about him, because players are always more attracted to ladies they can't have. They're suckers for that "hard to get" game.
But, why would you want a player anyway? He'll only hurt you and not treat you like you ought to be treated - with respect and a genuine drive to be with you and not just get into your pants!
Be cautious!
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