A
female
age
36-40,
*luerose
writes:hi!there's this cute boy in my class..actually first i don't used to like him coz all girls only used to talk about him which used to irritate me alot.but slowly slowly i don't know how i began feeling something for him and we became friends.he shares everything with me.i share mine too.we have really good rapport.but the problem is i think he is attracted to me or i feel like he started talking to me after our 1st terminal exam's result.i stood 1st in college.i think he started talking to me coz he was impressed with my intelligence.well i feel so.now our 2nd terminal exam is going on but sadly my performance hasn't been that good and i fear that i won't score 1st or 2nd or even 3rd this year.and i am worried that if my grades fail,he might not be interested to me anymore and i'll lose him.oh,i'm so scared.plz help! Reply to this Question
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female
reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Hello sweetness,
Firstly, you need to start studying right now for your test!! If you are striving for good grades, do it for YOURSELF not for some guy! You should be doing well in school so that you can be proud of yourself, not so someone will be impressed.
Secondly, if this guy will really stop liking you because of your grades, he is not worth it!! A real man loves you no matter what letter you got on your paper. Your fella may be impressed by your smarts, but everyone knows that your intelligence isn't based on how high your scores are, but by so, so, so much more!
If he thinks any less of you because of a test grade, then he's the real dumbass!!
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