Has anyone turned this kind of situation around to be civil?

A female age 51-59, *obbit22 writes:

Hello: I work with someone who I was in a 'fantasy relationship with' though we did express being crazy about eachother, after nothing went further then our feelings, i got pissed and realized I need to end this. Yes he is a co worker and yes he is married! Nevertheless, the natural attraction is there, he is not good looking, its what he brought out in me that attracts me, he knows this, and feels the same. Neverhteless I have pulled away, it is very hard. He threw a tizzy when i ignored him or kept my distance. Well, now it hurts cuz he ignores me back, yet we have to work together, and I respect all orders of course...but yet, I have been laid off for a while and he says call him anytime to keep in touch, and when I told him to find me cuz I'm working tomarrow he just glanced back at me and went on his way, mind yo my facial expression was not flattering, cuz i'm pissed and hurt at the mid game i went threw and the effort it takes to reverse myself and keep him a friend and get the lover potential out of my mind cuz its wrong. well... al this crap said.. has anyone turned it around to be civil. Because whenI ignore him he comes closer, then he ignores me then i want him 'back' its so fricking odd, these behaviors???

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A female reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 January 2009):

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