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writes:Hi all, im jo and im 22 years old. i have a very beautiful Gf AND She is 19.We have been dating for 3 months or more.My problem is that my gf is crazy about (Oral sex) i mean we have never spent more than 3 days without doing it for at least 1 time,anyway when it comes to me i always do my part of it perfectly and i can tell this because she is always and whenever we are alone takes my hand and puts it there (you now what i mean).And im very sure she enjoying it .But the thing is that im not enjoying it at all because honestly she is (SUCK AT IT) i mean evry time she is giving me a blowjob she hurts me so bad with her teeth and when i say bad i mean (so painful) and what is worse than this those sounds i make you know trying to handle the pain while she think like (oh my god my bf is having a good time),i tried to tell her about it but i just couldn't cuz it is been a long time since doing this and she thinks that she is actually good at it, especially that i heard from a friend that she is boasting about it in front of her friends and to tell her now after all this time it will upset her,but i can't take this any more i mean (God) the last time she did to me she scratched my penis with her teeth without even noticing what she did, i feel like if there is a (terrorist tormenting me) evry time she do it please help me (specially girls) is there any way to make her get the message without hurting her feelings, thanks all.
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reader, kristianna +, writes (1 April 2010):
just say simply baby your hurting me thats all. if she loves you she'll stop watch porn with her and let her see how the girls do it.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 January 2009):
 This occurred to me once, resulting in a deep scratch (more like a teeth mark) on the shaft that required medical attention. It was quite obvious and would become more irritated (almost infected) every time this former girlfriend gave me more head, but we both enjoyed mutual oral so much. When I finally went to a doctor, he asked how that peculiar sore happened. You should have seen the doctor's face after I told him that the sore was caused by my girlfriend giving me a blowjob. My explanation was that she had bitten me when I released - his eyes popped and his jaw dropped open! LOL
Well, there is still a tiny scar on the shaft after some 35 years, but I regress. My solution, which the doctor recommended, was to ask my girl to just suck the very tip for a few weeks so as not to irritate the sore which was about three inches from the tip. Funny thing is that I quickly learned to love just the tip suck, and she liked taking the load that way. The sore quickly healed okay, but we occasionally continued the technique for at least another year more. I've enjoyed it with subsequent girlfriends and two ex wives since.
So, my suggestion is to tell your girlfriend that a recent session left you quite irritated from her teeth - and to please just suck the head and be very careful this time. That's a subtle way to let her know that those teeth can be a problem. Maybe she will get the message and realize that she's supposed to use lips more than her canines. Hope it works for you as well.
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reader, Jillybean234 +, writes (7 January 2009):
 The PERFECT thing to do is say something along te lines of "you know what would be really hott when you blow me?..." and then put something in like use more tounge and lips hahaha. and then share stories with her andn say somethinglike "yikes this one girl i went out with used to scratchme with her teeth when she blew me." then she will make sure not to do it when she is giving you oral. :) all better.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 ok i skipped alot of the whiney post..your gf LOVEs ..."GIVING" oral.this is a good.. no. actually This is a Miracle.now. as for her "sucking" at it. a little direction woulnd't kill you. or her. Help her out tell her what you like and what you don't like..i'm sure she's have something to say if you kept fingering her with a cheese grater.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): You really should have told her at the start! how is she suppose to get better if you don't give tips and advice along the way? I feel bad for you that you put up with the pain because you couldn't bring yourself to tell her the truth, but tell her! Don't say she sucks, just say she should not use her teeth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): That really does sound painful. Next time she is giving you a BJ gently stop her and tell her you want to try something and then guide her through it the way you like it. she might feel a little hurt at first, but that will change when she see's how much you enjoy afterwards.
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reader, daarling. +, writes (6 January 2009):
if you dont feel like the 'telling her' approach is going to work, tell her that your going to play a game. whilst she is giving you a horrendous blowjob - get her finger and suck it the way you would like her to do it, and she will soon pick up the hang off it.
best of luck, and if this dosnt work your best off telling her.
hope this helps.
maria (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): Instead of confronting her, give her tips as she's doing it. Once she starts just try saying 'curl your lips around your teeth' or 'go down further' or whatever. My boyfriend did this to me while I was going down on him and I've improved a lot, he has cummed every time except the first time so far!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): you just gotta say something.. even if it's gonna hurt her feelings. i remember i was doing it (it was like my 2nd or 3rd time doing it) and my boyfriend told me what i was doing wrong.. it made me feel bad but i got over it and did it right. she will get over it too. i mean if you want her to keep hurting you then don't say anything.. but just be like "you're kinda hurting me with your teeth" or something. she'll be glad you're honest and open with her. if you guys are close enough and trust each other and stuff you should be able to talk and be open about it. don't worry about her feeling bad, she will get over it.. just worry about your penis! i mean you're the one who feels worse than she ever can.. good luck and take care.xx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Jeeze Louise, Buddy! I'll have to get back to you on this one. my legs are wrapped around each other so tight I've cut off the blood supply to my brain. And I'm not even a guy!
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