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writes:HELP "/ my boyfriend is 18 and acts like a idiot and goes out drinking with his mates (im 16)and he has no job and lives on his own he always has people around his flat and in his car i want him to get his act together and start acting like an adult as he tells me that he will look after me and treat me "/ im really upset as he now will put his scanky friends before me.what should i do as i really don't see us having a future as we have been together for 4 months now and i don't feel like he cares "/ Reply to this Question
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reader, scorpion  +, writes (23 March 2011):
You say he doesnt have a job, hes out drinking with the friends, hes 18 and acts like an idiot well he probably is. 4 months thank god is all you have put into this relationship. You may not realize it but you have already answered your own question. If you want a future with him you are right, he needs a job, needs to acknowledge that you exsist, leave out the friends once in a while, and become responsible. Your 16 and much more mature than your 18 year old boyfriend who is most llikely 5 years behind your maturity level. Give him his q to get his act together and if it was meant to be it will be.In the mean time continue living your life and accomplish the things you need to succeed without him in your life just in cas.
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reader, scorpion +, writes (23 March 2011):
Always remember that your 16 years of age does not equal his 18 years of age. In fact your much older than he is. You already know that you dont want him drinking with the buds, that he needs to get a job, that he needs to pay more attention to you, and that he needs to get his act together. These are your words, sounds like you have your answer already. Life is to short to hope and dream about a future with someone who doesnt consider their own future.
Just a thought.
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