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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met the most amazing guy three years ago and fell hard for him. He was my soulmate if there is such a thing. I felt like I knew him all my life and he was everything I ever wanted. We broke up because of his drug problem two years ago. We still love each other but it still hasn't worked out. I have had some serious relationships since and tried to move on, but I am still in love with this guy. Should I just move on and marry someone else? even though I still love my ex? I know I can love someone else and be happy, but will always still love my ex.
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reader, Maverickjuniper +, writes (24 March 2011):
from what I see is that you are sold out to this guy. You have put so much into him. I can tell that you have passion in your heart and that you would really like to go back to the first time you met him.
But- What I also see is a man who is struggling to overcome addictions. Addictions in which you do not support. Does he love you? Care about you? Himself? If he has any care whatsoever about what could be a magical love story then he is going to have to compromise and find the strength to chose a wonderful woman like you or the dope... whatever the drugs might be. Be safe and just be transparent showing him respect and he wil then give you the love you deserve. (Love and Respect) it is a book and I highly suggest getting it.
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