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*ackersgrl21
writes:I am 19 years old and currently 16 weeks pregnant, with a guy who wants nothing to do with me or the baby, but thats not why im here. Over a year ago i started talking to this guy i've know for a while,grew up in a small town, and we hung out once at my house, just drank and played rock band. Shortly after I told him I like him. We have talked a couple time since but nothing really. But since that night I can't stop thinking about him, i want to be with him so bad. I put myself down about not being able to be with him because im not the smallest or the prettiest even b4 getting pregnant. My cousin told me to make the 1st move but i have no self confidence to do it. How do I get him interested? and why can't I stop thinking about him?
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reader, packersgrl21 +, writes (23 March 2011):
packersgrl21 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni do have very low self confidence and have my entire life due to my father always putting me down.
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reader, Alice_on  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Don't RushJust try to be friend with himTalk about your feelings ( i mean, not what you feel about him) about your problems, your thoughts, set a emotional connection.. Ask him to talk about his problems.. Just get close to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Some people do have have connections with one another that are worth pursuing. If you did state your intentions to him, and he didn't reciprocate, or not quite to your satisfaction, it could be a good indication that it isn't going to happen. If you've known him for a while, there is no rush to make any move. It would be best to do so after the baby is born, and you're settled-in with it all. As an aside, I get the impression that your self-esteem may be a little on the low end; so any sort of positive attention from a man you're attracted to will only be exaggerated because of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): You dont,,, you concentrate on you and your baby!
For now the most important thing to you should be your baby and not chasing men.
I can't think why you would to be chasing some guy whos not the father of your baby while your pregnant.
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