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writes:I'm going to set the scene here, and I'm sorry if this is a lengthy question! Okay, so I am a freshman in Highschool; I started a couple of months ago, but two months before school began, I was enrolled in Marching Band. I loved it; every day we practiced in the heat on the football field, and played our instruments together as a family. I was in the wind band, but I started to notice a percussionist. He was a senior, and a section leader. You could say I admired his responsibility and personality. I practically spied on him for five months, asking his ex girlfriend about him. She told me he would never tell me to back off, or be mean to me. I messaged her over Facebook and asked that she talk to him for me, while making it look like I had no clue she was. I never got a reply, since she had said she rarely got on Facebook. Now, I don't know if he knows or not! Marching band is way past over, and I barely see him except for before school and lunch. There are only two months left of school, and I'm thinking of giving up on it. I haven't spoken to his ex for about a month, and he seems to only notice me once a week. If that's real and I'm not imagining it. Should I just call this off? He's graduating very soon, and I'm a freshman!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): If you really want it, you can only get it yourself - his ex can't do all the legwork. Whilst I'd say that near graduation certainly isn't the best time for this, if you see him at lunch I'd just try catching his eye from across the room every now and then. Just give him a short, side-long glance, and hold it for just long enough for him to notice. Also, if he's on Facebook, maybe you could like his status every now and then - just dropping subtle hints you like him.Good luck! :)
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