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writes:hi everyone. i used to ask question on this site before about a partner just live like friend.Now i kicked him out as i found out that he send flirting msg to other women,they met on face book and was class mate long time ago.My ex texts that women has a nice breast and he still remember about it and that women said if she wre on his bed tonite she would do this or do that to him. I found out these texts but my ex deny them all. He said that they just class mate and just friend talk.Now he went away with my baby,i still waiting for court processing.meanwhile we share care for our baby but evrytime i drop baby off to him , he always tried to make me feel bad as he said i made up all the story and claim that i'm a bad mum to look after my children but he know im a good mum.He broke my heart evrybit as he know i still love him. can i ask why this guy so evil to me?i tried to do evrythings to please him but he always put me down.i feel so sorry for my baby ,have to move from place to place and can't be with me all the time,she only 11 months old.i review myself and think i never do wrong things to him.he cheated on me and now turn out he made me feel guilty for kick him out as i still love him and i have to see him evrytime i hand over my baby.how i going to heal my heart when i have to see him evry week because of the baby?please anyone have anycoment for my broken heart and soul. i feel this world have no good man for me as they all bad to me.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 March 2011):
The reason he treats you this way is because it's easier for him to treat you badly than accept he is a failure as a man. That's why. He's a failure as a man and a father, but can't face that so just takes it out on you.
However, there might be something you can do about it. I would speak to a solicitor and see what can be done.
Please, please try very hard not to take his comments as personally as you do. Every time he says something, just think in your head that the reason he is doing it is because he is a pathetic cheating failure of a man.
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