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writes:hi ok ive been in a relationship 4 almost a yr. in the beginning it was up and down and we fought alot, then we had a huge fight over something really small and then a month later we made up because we both couldnt live without each other.anyways now its really cool we are in a open relationship. the only condition is that we both keep safe and dont be stupid. anyways he has started talking about marriage and living together. he says that he wont restrict me that whilst we are married. ill still be able to enjoy freedom but then he said that when i go somewhere he would at least like to be outside in case i need protecting or help because i have had a close call last month, and i dont know what to think. i love him terribly and i know he does too and the expression "love hurts" is true in this case, but im so afraid that even whatever he says now about being open he'll just get jealous and not want anymore an open relationship and im not ready for that. i know whatever he says he means it but how do i know thats gonna hold true if we marry? and hes prone to being jealous specially around me he can be quite protective. thanks.
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reader, jesi_bear  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 Then stop seeing other guys ?!?
Being in a open relationship is a fancy way of saying that you dont really care about any one man inparticular. But if this is how you want to live I have no objections. You could also try just talking it out to him about your feelings.
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