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writes:The first day when i was joining my gym i noticed this good looking guy who was behind the staff room door just staring at me, it was off putting because i didn't know why they were or even who this guy was!? I thought nothing of it that time really, but then every time i would sign in to use the gym i would see him behind the door staring at me? Even when i stared at him back he didn't look away!? And sometimes i would notice him in that room talking to other workers, and then when he saw me he would stop talking and just look at me! Anyways, when he had to go and work in the gym room itself and i was in there i could just see him staring at me and trying to find a way to be near whatever machine i was on. Though i found it to be creepy and awkward, i did feel this tension between us like there was something there if that makes sense? Anyways, i just wondered what do you think he was thinking? and why did he always just blatant stare at me everytime!?!?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, AnalyticalMentalityOx +, writes (24 March 2011):
AnalyticalMentalityOx is verified as being by the original poster of the question"Chris1979topher" ---- Can they lose their job if they get involved with someone who attends their gym? Sorry i'm asking you all these, but seems like you know the answers! hahaand also do you guys think i should make the first move with this guy? He seems to shy to do it himself
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): "And is that true that gym workers can't date the people at the gym!? I didn't know that......."
yep its true... and if worked at a gym and I saw a hot girl I liked, I wouldn't give a flying fuck about the rules and regualtions...
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reader, gdas2hearts  +, writes (23 March 2011):
he TOTALY LIKES YOU!now all you have to decided, is if you like him :)If you do, strike up a conversation,if you don't, kindly gesture in some way (ditching the machines next to him) that you aren't interested.good luck!
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reader, AnalyticalMentalityOx +, writes (23 March 2011):
AnalyticalMentalityOx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo do you all honestly think he likes me then and is just shy? I spoke to him once but he didn't even look at me, so i assumed that he wasn't interested?And is that true that gym workers can't date the people at the gym!? I didn't know that.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): "and why did he always just blatant stare at me everytime!?!?!?"
Why?...why?...WHY?....what the hell do you think!??! He likes what he see's thats why! COMON are you being serious???! No mistery that us guys like to look at what's pretty!
...and hey you said that YOU stared back, oh my dear girly, you've started the ball rolling now... BIG mistake (if you don't want him that is):-p
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 I think he likes what he sees. If you're interested, try striking up a conversation with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Maybe he's shy and dose not know how to approach you.
NOTE: If he works at the gym staff are not allowed to flirt or ask out customers.
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reader, sharonny  +, writes (23 March 2011):
the real thing is he is a secret admirer who is afraid to make a move.The guy likes you but is dragging his feet though you need to be careful.
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