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writes:i dont know how to word this so long story short....the guy i like likes me to, he says he loves me bt he has a nother gf but wont dump her........ What do i do
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reader, Rebeccaa  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Move on he'll soon come running, and if he doesnt hes not even worth thinking about. Hes a player for doing what he is doing you can only have one person not two he obviously thinks that rule doesnt apply for him. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): You obviously really like him or you would not put up with this. He either has a girlfriend or he doesn't. He is stringing you along. It could be an ego thing, who knows. But please waste no more time on him, really.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Move on hun, he wants to have you both but won't commit to neither.. He is a loser..Next!
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reader, Alice_on  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 I had the same situation couple years ago. When i realized he wasn't going to end a realtionshop with her gf, i said that if he wouldn't choose i 'l left.1 weeks later he told me he dumped her, i was so happy... we had a lovely date, but next day i found out he was lying...he did not leave his gf. i was so angryHe kept repeating that he could not choose one of us "I love you both, i don't knoww what to do"in the end, he wrote a goodbye letter , he explained the way he felt when he was with me...but he just couldn't leave her as i know, they're still togher...
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reader, BabyW  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 I had that same problem and because I love the guy I say let's be friends if he leaves her fine but until then I won't take any second place I'm wanted by many and has only spoken with one relationships aren't for everyone so maybe you should just chill like me.
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reader, BBubbles +, writes (23 March 2011):
You deserve so much better :) Go get another man that will love and honor you and most of all be faithful to you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 March 2011):
 sweetie, you can't MAKE someone do something they don't want to do
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reader, Illithid +, writes (23 March 2011):
 So what if he loves you. If you love a celebrity, does it make you a couple? If you love a character in a book, does that mean you're dating? If he loves you, does it make you his girlfriend? If a man says sweet things to you but is still with his girlfriend / fiancee / wife, run away. He wants to play the field, keep his options open, and will not be honest with either you or his current girl. Run away. He cannot be trusted and wouldn't be faithful even if he left her for you now.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 You take a small piece of paper, you write on it ,in all caps, ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS; you carry it in your pocket, and you take it out and read it aloud any time you are tempted to fall for his bullshit.
He "says " he loves you- and his way to show you his love is to hold tight to his gf ? It can't be love, right ?, -or at least not a kind of love that can give you what you want and deserve. Don't waste time on this guy, wait for someone whom you won't have to share.
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reader, Heisenberg +, writes (23 March 2011):
It's really not worth pursuing. Move on and find someone a little less fickle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Forget him. He obviously wants to be with his girlfriend or he would "dump" her. He's stringing you along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): First off you dont want someone who is already taken. There are too many men out there to lower your standards. Yes you know about her, but does she know about you? Im sure hes still going along with his relationship as if you dont exist. And think about it, if he leaves her because he wants to be with you, whats to stop him from leaving you for someone else. If you were to date him, you would always have that in the back of your mind. If he does it to her, he'll do it to you. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): i personally never had this kind of problems but i still can understand you...
if he woun't dump his girlfriend for you that meens he doesnt really love you,i cannot guarantee you this is true because he might try to make you feel jealous.
i am sorry because maybe i confused you even more but i think you know best x
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