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writes:There is this guy I really like and have been making a lot of effort to get to know him better and spend time with him. There is a considerable age difference and I am confused of his feelings for me. We seem to discuss and share a lot of interests in history and culture and he often takes me to visit several museums and we text each other often. However, he does not appear to ask me out. On three occasions, I have stopped talking to him completely to avoid getting misled. On all three occasions he appears to be miserable and he sends me really expensive but well thought out presents. He knows i like him but makes no effort to take it forward and I want to move on with my life but I melt every time he tries to get back. Do you think I am being naive or foolish? Is he leading me on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): Leading you on? I doubt it, I think he's just a bit shy and maybe is a bit afraid to make further steps.
As for guys leading girls on, I've never heard of this. As far as I know god gave theses sorts of powers only to women...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): Hi,
Thanks for the response. I need to add that I have tried to express my feelings but he does not seem to respond! He also forgot my bday two years in a row although I did make a big effort for his bdays. I feel quite low! Would this impact your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): Hi,
Thanks for the response. I need to add that I have tried to express my feelings but he does not seem to respond! He also forgot my bday two years in a row although I did make a big effort for his bdays. I feel quite low! Would this impact your answer.
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reader, xxjameswxx  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 It's obvious to me that he likes you. You should feel loved and respected if he's doing these things for you.
Age is just a number, if it doesn't bother either of you, what's the problem?
It may just be the case that he's shy and he could just be waiting for you to make the first move.
Go for it, it's obvious that you like eachother.
Plan a day/evening out or something. You should be able to get a more clear picture :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): just guessing you are younger than him ? if so you said considerable age difference so maybe he wants you to make the move which is actually really noble of him -he clearly likes you .
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