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30-35,
*amdani
writes: So their is this gay guy i work with and I am head over heels for him. We flirt a lot together, but my friend from work told me that he is gay. Now i am just so confused because he was flirting with me, playing with me, tickling me, hugging me,playfully holding my hand and today he came and hugged me from behind and started kissing my neck! But i am just wondering do gay guys flirt with straight girls? And if he is gay, is it possible for him to be straight again after he has came out of the closet? (i dont know if he has or not)
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reader, Pinkskirt +, writes (23 March 2011):
Ask him if he is gay . your friend may be wrong or she may have an intrest in him herself good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Matbe your friend is just saying that because she likes him to
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reader, Drew21 +, writes (23 March 2011):
I've known a couple of women who were head over heels for gay men, and felt like maybe they could 'change' their orientation.
None of them were ever successful.
I remember one gay guy telling me "what do i have to do? Wear a pink tootoo?"
Some gay men are just very over the top, and huggy-huggy/kissy kissy with women (and heck, i've known a few that were that way with me, too.)
If he's gay, then there is practically zero chance of you two getting together.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (23 March 2011):
Of the gay guys that I know, they flirt OUTRAGEOUSLY with girls... they flirt with girls more than straight guys do I kid you not. As for changing somebodies sexual orientation, sorry but it doesn't work like that. Its not a switch that you can just flick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): playing with you, flirting with you, hugging you and keeping you in the friend zone...
ahhh you see? thats the female instict in him!
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