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writes:I like him, he has definitely been flirting according to all body language signs and some comments and things, all my friends have been trying to get us together, but I just found out he is still in love with his ex who he broke up with a couple of months ago. She wants to try long distance. What should I do? Is it worth telling him how I feel? Should I just get over it? Other comments? We are good friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): The ex-factor is never a good thing. Some people are probably going to disagree with me but I don't think you should tell him right now. You said your friends have been trying to get you guys together - I assume this means he knows you're interested in him as well. And it hasn't happened because he's still in love with his ex?I don't think telling him will change anything. If you guys get together he might not be in it for the right reasons. It will just complicate your friendship with him and you might end up as a rebound. I'm not saying he doesn't like you but maybe you should wait until he resolves his issues with the ex and go from there.
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Definently make him aware that you dont want to be a rebound or just someone to do until he decides if he wants to be back with her. Its nothing worse than feeling like the one you have can be taken away at any moment another woman calls and wants to make up. But if hes a good friend he shouldnt want to hurt you anyway. Good Luck
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