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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:this might be long sorry... ok so ive been with my partner for over 3 yrs the first few months were amazing then one day im in class and get a text from him sayin that it was childish of me texting his ex abusin her. he never asked me if i did he just full out accused me i told him i didn but he just called me a lier n said she had my number n if i didn how did she get it this i was unsure of bt thn i started gettin abusive texts from her, i showed him and when he asked her about the so called texts i sent her she said i deleted them still he took her side even though i had the proof and she had none. this was the first instance then she started texting him about how much of a lier i was and that he deserved better, keep in mind ive never met her or spoken to her before, i get that she was jealous bt my partner never once stuck up for me. 2yrs down the track he starts telling me the truth about when we first started dating and everything that he said was true made what he said back then all lies. now three yrs later i find it hard to trust him am i at fault
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): His more recent behavior is he talks to other girls n arranges to meet up 'as friends' bt lies straight to my face bout it
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reader, Heisenberg  +, writes (23 March 2011):
Honestly, I would focus in on his more recent behavior, and not something that occurred more than 2 years ago. You're at an age where you start shedding some of those immaturities, so I wouldn't judge too harshly for a little he-said she-said.
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