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writes:Hey there! Okay, I'm in a sticky situation! I started Highschool not too long ago and within the first week, I started to like a sophomore boy I met. He's so gorgeous, and very sweet and calm, despite being one of the popular skaters. He was a great study-buddy, and I could always come to him for advice or help. Lately though, it's been kind of weird. It's now eight months that I've known him, and four days ago was the first time he had ever done anything strange. We were in the hall after school together coming from a detention (that was given for talking!) and he drove me into the wall, softly, and started touching me. We kissed, and I went with it considering it was a fantasy of mine that he would kiss me. He's become more and more sexual towards me every day. Why is it now that he's coming out like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): Because he seems to really like you... then again you never know with sex-crazy boys! Haha.
You've been developing this friendship for a couple months, do you not think he might really like you? And is now starting to show some of his feelings for you?
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reader, Rose22  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 hey,
i understand the situation, this guy might have wanted you to get close to him before he started making moves for you. he also might have wanted to get to know you better before he did anything.
he waited a while before he started asking or doing things to you it might have been his way to make you more comfortable.
the question is, do you want him to do this stuff? if your not then tell him that you dont quite want him to do that yet. or maybe try get a relationship with this guy before anything else happens.
all the best!
xx
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reader, Sweet sag  +, writes (24 March 2011):
Hello!! I absolutely understand that you are fascinated by him and attracted to him.. But i think you are very young to get into sexual stuff like this.. Tell him this and you wanna wait for a few years before all this. You should give yourself sometime to really understand whether that guy loves you or not.. If he does't then you might regret whatever had happened between both of you..Guys at this age might wanna take advantage of you if you are so close and attracted to him.. They also have the urge to explore their sensualities the way we do.. So give yourself time and don't rush into things..Concentrate on some other things and you would know whether he is the guy for you in 2 or 3 years..
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