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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've posted on this before. basically my ex had a huge problem with my sex life before him, and it ruined our relationship. After about 3 months after we broke up, he texted me saying he had changed. The guys before him, didn't bother him anymore. So we tried talking...and I created some double standards by accident. he had lied and flirted with other girls while with me and had tried to get with them while we broke up so i had issues trusting him. He randomly got into this we cant be together i was never happy being with you. i cant be happy. so I stopped texting him after pleading to get with him. after a while of not texting he starts texting me. But he started this i dont know if i love you thing. Once again i stopped texting him. sure enough he came over one night he was drunk and started telling me how he was lying to himself and he probably did love me. after i still didnt text him. so after a few days he texted me saying he loved me. i said we couldn't be together he said why not?!? i told him let's hang out as friends. he stopped texting or replying to me. eventually I texted him saying he was a jerk. our whole relationship was based on lies and therefore was fake. it was like it never existed. he basically said i needed to grow up and accept that he and i didnt work out. i was just like what the heck.. He said he loved me but wasnt in love with me. i said fine. i dont want you. I want you to stop playing games. I told him after this coming wednesday (i have to see him to get something important of mine) i am deleting his number and forgetting he and i ever existed. And I plan on it. so my question is..he has a pattern of texting me when i stop texting him. do you think he will text me again after i stop texting him. also can anyone explain his mood changes?? he says he doesn't have or want any other girl. i wont get back with him. but i want to know that he will at least miss me and text me...what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): His behavior doesn't look like that of a changed man. It looks like head games to me.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Of course he will miss you, you were together a long time and that is why you are both having a hard time letting go and separating with all this back and forth nonsense.
That is also the reason you should block his texts. To avoid temptation. A clean cut and all that...
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